Just a regular guy looking for a play partner(s) and I'm very selective/cautious. Also, if you're straight and just need relief, would love to talk. I can be a great back-up when needed and no reciprocation expected. I do have a few guard rails and/or rules, though, so just to be clear, please read the following: Must be vaccinated (including booster) and have proof at initial meeting. No exceptions. I like to meet you socially over a beer or coffee first. This means a first-time meeting would be g-rated, no play expected. I don't meet up in cars in parks. I don't meet up in cars behind grocery stores. I won't just come to your house without having met you first and talked and established some kind of baseline friendship. In fact I won't just enter anyone's house till i genuinely can trust them. I have a place to play here at home and if we click, its always available for the right guy(s). i'm not quite to the anal stage yet - looking for a mentor...;) That said, I really love giving oral, and if that's all that was desired, i'd be very fine with that. I'd be very happy simply providing relief to men who are willing to meet the above conditions - after that, it's off to the races, and you have a willing mouth whenever you need it as well as a place to play. :) Extremely submissive - i'm retired and have a very open schedule and again, a place to play. Also enjoy role play (daddy/dom/sub)...very flexible. Married, but very discreet. I'm very available and absolutely understand discretion. I don't swap g-rated face pics until we've chatted a bit and take it offline. Hope this info helps - hope to meet a nice gentleman soon. :) Lastly, let's keep to within 20-25 miles or so - anything further is a huge hassle and I don't do random quickie meet-ups, anyway (see above).

My Ideal Person A nice, stable gentleman looking for same. Size, weight etc unimportant - character is.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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