Need to update because people don't understand. If you smoke, not interested. If you are on the DL I suggest you be who you really are it's 2022 for Christ sake. If you are married and NOT in an open relationship, Not interested. I have long respected the tenants of marriage. Really not trying to be an ass here, I believe we should respect all people and whatever their boundaries are. As for me I am a Bi guy who enjoys both women and men equally. As for men I am drawn to smooth bodies more than hairy. As for a women's bodies I really do prefer a 50's era body style, I like to know I'm holding someone. I'm very orally motived, kinda like a puppy who explores everything with it's mouth. I am clean, DDF, HIV - vaccinated with boosters + Monkey Pox x 2 and discreet and expect the same. Just like having fun. Since I am updating this I need to say I have been widowed for just over a year. I am at that point where having sex relieves some of the loneliness and wondering when and if I will ready for a relationship but guess I won't know till it happens. I enjoy sensual pleasures and am respectful and understand boundaries. Can host. Remember what Micky said, try it you'll like it. Last test date 3/21/24.

My Ideal Person Men, women, trans or couples that are respectful, clean, DDF and who enjoy touching and being touched. Sensual and not aggressive. Being able to carry on a conversation and a sense of humor doesn't hurt. Who believes sex is pleasure not pain. Who is honest and not afraid to speak their mind. Most love a young hard body but I prefer over 30 with a sense of self.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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