I have updated my profile on 13th Jan 2018 I am based in Auckland, New Zealand; The best country in the world! lol..... but seriously; check it out! Do a google search. Currently not a PAID member of "PASSION" as explained later on below, but currently planning to be pay in February - depending on time commitments. In 2018 I'm focusing on rebuilding my strength, dexterity, and fitness after sustaining physical damage in a sever accident. Also to improve my soft skills in loving and being emotionally connected with the woman I'm with. I like to foster a sense of humour, and I like to think I'm funny, but sometimes I misjudge; please tell me if you feel I'm missing the target of think I mis-spoke (mis-joked?). I do believe it's important to be able to laugh at yourself every now and again. At the moment, I am looking for a good time with a willing woman. Just out of a long term relationship, so right now I am not looking for another permanent situation. But, even though I'm FEELING "gun-shy" at the moment - I THINK this is most likely to change. Employment restrictions have changed also, so I have now placed a profile photo up. Send me a message; talk to me! Later this year (shortly-ish) I will improve my profile to be more open and detailed. This is so YOU can make a good decision as to whether or not I am suitable for you. This works for me too; If we invest time and effort in each other we become attached to each other. If we find that we are not going be able to make a go of it - that is going to be difficult for for both of us to begin to create distance. I want, I need GOOD, HEALTHY, WHOLESOME relationships in my life. With transparency, communication, honesty, trust. And Love... of course. But what I have found is that love alone is NOT enough to sustain a relationship long term. Love changes. In so many ways, and in many senses. I'm just back from holiday and starting my new year; my monthly subscription is about to end, and I have just decided not to renew it as there have been too many baitclick, camgirls, and scammer contacting me directly. When my subscription ends, I wont be able to continue talking to you here on "Passion" Contact me via the email below. I look forward to having a reply..... Whew..... I just wrote quite I bit more than expected; lol. Hugs and Kisses; I HEREBY SERVE AND GIVE LEGAL NOTICE to any University and/or all institutions and/or media and/or commercial entities and paying/non paying members of and of Passion sites and/or their representatives using this site (or any site associated, held, administrated or operated by the site owners) for research, statistical, or other 'educational' or commercial purposes You do NOT have my permission to use any part of my profile; peral profile, peral pictures or content including part of any forum I post in, neither currently nor at anytime in the future, whether I remain an active member or not. If you have already done so or do so at some future time, it is or will be considered and construed as a violation of my privacy and civil rights, and subject to the strongest, most severe of repercussions, including possible legal action.