Hi,I'm a swf seeking situations that serve me well. I am looking for safe & protected fun with someone where there a strong mutual attraction. I am smart, sexy, confident, drama free but not average. I am seeking people near me & closer to my age than not. I am into meeting & not endless chat. Also, I do not host. That is an absolute hard limit. It has been my experience that it's easy to get caught up in online chat. Online chemistry, I am finding more than not, does not always translate well into real life attraction. Online, you have two horny people who want, or say they want the same thing. For me, I only know whether I want to move forward or not after seeing, a bit &seeing if there is mutual attraction. I seek only to meet with people who are single, divorced or widowed. I have no judgements toward others who are married or attached & wanting to meet, it's just not my deal. I want someone who is able to be seen in public & have a beverage if that's what we both want to do. on here which was incredibly rare. I wouldn't say that I'm seeking that but if there was mutual interest in things moving forward, I would not mind. I am only seeking situations that are authentic, honest, real & fun.

My Ideal Person Single, divorced or widowed man. Also, men who are closer to my age than not & who are nearby with the ability to host. I am a sapiosexual. I value intelligence, a good sense of humor, good looks & a nice body. A good personality that gets along well with mine is important. Intelligence & emotional intelligence are important to me. I'm a sapiosexual.