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Ft32019 55 / 54 / C
"We Are Playing We are Vaccinated"
Ontario, New York, United States
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[B]Single Guys - read all the way to the end....[/B] [B]Married guys, Thank you for the interest, but we do not play with married men, even with hall passes, Sorry! If your married and your wife doesn't play, please move on![/B] We play at all levels in the lifestyle! Just because we full swap and you don't doesn't mean we aren't a match. We enjoy sex in the same bed with another copule, maybe some light touching, soft swap, and full swap. NEVER any pressure to go beyond anyones comfort level! Our goals: To find (or be found by) adventurous, like-minded adults! Sex, passion and friendship are all a priority! Comfort, trust and freedom a must! We have been together 35 years (30 married) and are looking to meet couples, women and select men. We do not and will not play alone! We are very down to earth and enjoy meeting others, if it goes farther than conversation..... great! If not, we will have met more wonderful people! We play at all levels in the lifestyle! Just because we full swap and you don't doesn't mean we aren't a match. We enjoy sex in the same bed with another couple, maybe some light touching, soft swap, and full swap. NEVER any pressure to go beyond anyone’s comfort level! We entered the lifestyle looking to satisfy her bi-curious nature, but it has turned into so much more. We have had so many wonderful "new" experiences since we entered the LifeStyle that have helped us step out of our comfort zone with wonderful people. We have found friendship, passion and sexy fun with others... it feels very natural. We feel our relationship has been strengthened by our playing, communicating and enjoying ourselves and others together. She has been able to explore her bi-curious side (she likes it and wants more!) and is no longer curious about it! He is straight! We have made the decision to not play with Bi-curious or Bi men, Sorry! We both enjoy those that value honesty, humor and intelligence... along with lots of sexy fun and flirtatious banter! Her specific likes: her vast toy collection (it is impressive... and he loves to use them on her when she is not using them on herself!), lingerie (again...impressive - the amount and her when she wears it), and this amazing secret we have together that we keep from the vanilla world! His likes: Seeing her pleasured when at play and buying her all those fabulous toys and pieces of lingerie! Our likes: First and foremost - strengthening our relationship, meeting fantastic and fun new people and building friendships (with or without benefits...but, benefits are obviously the icing on the cake!). We are not a one and done couple! Love the friendship aspect of the Lifestyle as much as the great sexual adventures! We are very real and very busy both in and out of the lifestyle. We will make every effort to respond to all messages. Finally, please don't let our level of play scare you off!!! We play and enjoy playing at all levels and we NEVER attempt to pressure anyone to playing at a level they are not comfortable with! As we said, we are not one and done, we want the friendship to last and pressuring people doesn't go far in the LifeStyle! [B]*Single Guys - keep in mind that there are a lot of you out there, we get 6-7 messages a day from single guys. If you send us a simple 'Hi', or 'I'd like to do her!' your message will be deleted without a response. If you don't open all of your gallies, your message will be deleted without a response. Sorry for being so harsh, but there are a lot of you out there and you need to set yourself apart with a thoughtful, descriptive message about yourself and pictures (Not all D picks is a plus, but some are good :)) are a must. Looks are not the most important thing (but there has to be some initial attraction), intellect, humor & confidence go a long way with her![/B] [B]\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\**WARNING**\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\ WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum, both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy. And you will be subject to legal ramifications![/B]

My Ideal Person Easygoing, no drama, friendly, fun loving and intelligent couple, women and select single men that are looking to have safe and adventurous good times

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Def Leppard, Nickleback, Heart, Rush, Prince

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage, DP

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Sense of humor

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Keanu Reeves, Jason Momoa Anna Kendrick, Kaley Cuoco

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Unsure/Prefer not to say

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  • 55/54 / Couple (man/woman)
  • Ontario, New York, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Bi-sexual
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman) or Groups
Marital Status: Married
Swinger Type: Sex with others
Speaks: English, English
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: Happy with what we have
Our Trophy Case:
Birthdate: January 2, 1967 April 2, 1968
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes Maybe/Yes
Height: 6 ft 2 in / 187-190 cm 5 ft 5 in
Body Type: Average Slim/Petite
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I don't drink at all I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs I don't use drugs
Education: Some college Associate degree (2 years college)
Occupation: Professional Professional
Race: Caucasian Caucasian
Religion: Other Other
Male Endowment: Average/Average N/A
Circumcised: Yes N/A
Bra Size: N/A 32 / 70 D
Hair Color: Hair? What Hair? Blonde
Hair Length: Shaved Long
Eye Color: Blue Blue
Glasses or Contacts: None Contacts