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FreedUp1975 48 / M
"Respectful, open mind, sense of humor. And will meet."
Durham, North Carolina, United States
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FreedUp1975 48/M
Durham, North Carolina
ISO middle age/mature F to join me in play w mature couple (4some). Hot tubs and hot times. BBW+
Just looking for fun with like-minded people. Mostly NSA fun. Always respectful, though. Mostly older folks. Love some BBW, big tits and large cocks but personality is all we need to click. No drama, DDF and I travel. Very oral. Not hosting at home but will host a room. I can play completely straight with couples. Whatever is most fun for everyone involved. Completely straight in public, but comfortable in most any situation. My kinks are just things I am open to, not things I expect to happen. They are not a checklist for our meeting. Unless you’re down with that, lol! Chat... honestly it works best for me if it’s related to actually meeting. Not an open-ended book. Stay safe out there!

My Ideal Person Open to exploring fun times. Clean, kind, respectful, very discreet.

Willing to be kinky if that’s what’s up.

BBW, big tits and big cocks, of course. Older up to much older, but not as much into younger. That said, everyone can be sexy and deserves to be having some fun!

Race or ethnicity is not a factor in my play.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Role Playing, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 48 / male
  • Durham, North Carolina, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Bi-sexual / Prefer not to say
Looking For:  Men, Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 women), Couples (2 men) or Trans
Birthdate: August 19, 1974
Relocate?: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: Prefer not to say
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I don't drink at all
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Speaks: English
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