Update 12-29-12.. To the ladies that I have met, You were great, but it doesn't take but a couple of liars to sour it for the rest.. I am going back to a standard member.. Rea? 1) To many fakes and scammers here.. 2) Really ladies?? I have seen so many women here that say one thing and it turns out that they were telling a fib, fibbing about your age being the biggest..3) I have met someone that I am going to try for a monogamous relationship... Maybe I will be back.. Good luck with your endeavors ladies.. Peace be with you.. UPDATE 5/2/12 Ok ladies here's the deal.. I am self employed and have a 8 yr old that I see every two weeks, so I am a very busy man! I travel a lot so I don't mind traveling to you if you are within a reaable distance from me.. My spare time is precious..I don't NEED a partner, I WANT a partner, BIG difference!! I am not looking for a mother for my .. She has one.. Or a wife!! Been there twice and still haven't found honesty there!! I am looking for a woman that can spend quality time being a friend and lover. I live on the 2nd largest lake in N.C... I wouldn't mind having a first mate on my boat to enjoy the fun and sun!!I'm taking a southern rock cruise in October and wouldn't mind having a sexy, beautiful woman at my side..I don't ask a lot,I'm just asking for HONESTY!! If you have read this far, please, read further.. Is there anybody out there that has any honesty left?? I am a southern gentleman born and bred.I see no future in changing that fact... I can be very silly and funny.. I am a throw back to the sixtys.. Easy to get along with.. Peace, love, and no war!! The only thing I will ever demand is HONESTY!! If you like what you see then give me a shout.. I am a man that treats a woman like a lady..I am confident in a lot of areas, sex being my strong suit.. I was a musician for years{trombone, singer, guitar,sound engineer,tour manager}..I have studied massage therapy, The art of the g-spot, and so on..I was raised with sex and nudity NOT being taboo.. Nothing turns me on more than watching you squirm and scream with delight!! It's all about YOU when it comes to sexual gratification.. Be honest, please!! If I hit you up and you are not interested, tell me!! I will hold my head up and move on with a pleasant thank you.. Peace!! UPDATE: Hi ladies.. As you have read, I am a honest male!! I know that's hard to believe but it's true.. Ask me a question and I WILL give you a honest answer!! Please be prepared for the truth or don't ask the question.. Simple, right?? I am a man that is not afraid of what he wants.. And not afraid of rejection!! If you have read the book, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, you will know that men are visual so, that being said, Please attach a photo on your site or at least send one with your mail to me.. Thank you.

My Ideal Person I am looking for a woman that is not afraid to tell me what she wants.. A good conversationalist{not afraid to talk} A woman that takes care of herself and is not ashamed of her sexuality. Classy, smells good{that makes my mouth water}, and pleasing to the eye.. Size really doesn't matter if you are truly taking care of yourself..