We are a mid-30s couple seeking friends, friends with benefits, and events/parties. We typically describe ourselves as Hobbits as we very much enjoy staying home and enjoying our time together when obligations are not calling. However, we do also like to go out and prefer swinger clubs over the bar scene. We would very much like to find friends that enjoy both hanging out at home or going out. Friendship and comfort on an intellectual and emotional level is important to us and we prefer to have relationships that are organically grown rather than transactional. We are in decent shape, and are actively working towards fitness goals. We are not looking for Ken and Barbie, but we do prefer similar body types to our own for sexual partners. We very much enjoy outdoor activities and are pretty active in our daily lives. Meeting up with another couple for days at the lake, hiking, or a barbecue, dinner and a movie, escape rooms, axe throwing, or cigar lounges are some of our favorite social places outside hanging out at home. We are pretty flexible people, but you must like animals if you want to come hang out at our place as we live on a small farm/zoo (haha). We are both well-versed in the kink/BDSM community as well as the swinger community and we find ourselves somewhere in the middle. We enjoy kink and swinger parties alike for different reasons, and kink is a large part of our own sex life as a couple. We identify as primals where he is the top and she is the bottom. This dynamic doesn't always come into play with other people, but it can if is also your thing, too. We are equally as happy to hang out in a vanilla or swinger setting and let fun happen organically. If we sound like someone you may want to get to know, please message us because sometimes we are a bit shy! We would for love you to get to know us as individuals and as a couple!

My Ideal Person Ideally, we would like to find a couple that we can chat with online, get to know one another, and meet up in real life to hang out and let the sexy fun times happen as everyone feels right about it. We aren't looking for a romantic or poly relationship but we would both really like a couple to be close and open friends with and if we all occasionally had sex with one another that would be great.

Sexually we would like a couple where the girl is bisexual and the guy is not, but also is not homophobic. She very much enjoys being with women and knows well what she likes and doesn't like. She can be more top-ish with other ladies and loves a girl who is aggressive and fights back (she does too). He is not homophobic at all and is comfortable with himself in sexual situations involving multiple people, but he isn't interested in being directly sexual with another man.

As a couple, we are very sensual and incredibly happy with one another. When with other people, we usually keep sensuality to a minimum, but she very much enjoys makeout sessions with other women and lots of touching before things get hot and heavy. Foreplay is very mental and if we are feeling a connection to someone, it usually sets the stage for us to want to do more.

We are very open to questions and chatting to get to know people.

We are also very 420 friendly and do not drink. We are okay if those are not your preferences as long as ours are respected.