Him: Ladies, the mold was broken after this man was created. He aims to please and oh boy, does he ever!!! He treats women with respect. Chivalry is not dead with this one. The ultimate GENTLEman unless of course you want it rough. ;) He definitely does not fuck like a man in his 40s. He's very considerate and will always make sure the ladies get theirs multiple times before he even thinks about getting his. He works hard, travels for work, and plays just as hard. He loves spoiling the ladies in his life. I am a very lucky lady who wants to share. Her: She's very laid back and has a twisted as well as quick witted sense of humor. Bisexual but that doesn't mean the other woman for him has to be. She is content watching or allowing him solo play. She will ONLY solo play with other females. No male solo play unless it's with her husband. This is not his preference but hers. She is very spoiled and the average man will not have the patience to put up with her, not even for a one night stand.

My Ideal Person OUR ideal person is someone with a sense of humor who wants to be spoiled by both of us inside and outside of a sexual relationship. Someone who doesn't mind going to dinners together or the occasional getaway.

HIS ideal person for solo play would be someone that is somewhat discreet. The wife will know but we don't need everyone in the Bible Belt knowing our business. She needs a sense of humor, know how to have fun, enjoy tokens of appreciation, dinners out, understanding of a busy work schedule and familial obligations. Must not be arrogant or condescending. There are a lot of beautiful women whose attitude makes them ugly.

HER ideal person for solo play would be a lady willing to be FWB. Shopping, lunch, gossip, spending time together while the hubby is away for work. Mani/Pedis etc.

Those are our ideal scenarios but definitely open for one time things as well as no strings attached.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Having my husband tied the bed and blindfolded while
giving oral, having a surprise for him when i remove the
blindfold and hes being sucked off by a hot stranger. Watching him with another woman.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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