UPDATED I am serious about looking for a real ltr Again I know this is not the usual thing that most are looking for on here but I am not your usual woman either So please dont waste my time or yours if you are not serious about wanting that too I know what I want and why I want and need it I will flirt a bit but Im not going to change my mind no matter how charming or cute or sexy you may be and some of you definitely are Nor am I going to test the waters so to speak and see where it goes I realize that what I am looking for is not the usual for this site However I have seen others looking for something similar I want a monogamous committed ltr and I believe it provides an environment for both of us to feel safe to fully express ourselves sexually I enjoy sex and want it to be a part of my relationship so Im taking a chance that I might find something here I am very honest and straight forward and I do not play games unless its with mutual consent I ask that you show me the same respect I am not looking for a ons hook up fwb a threesome couples or sharing or group sex So if you are please move on to the next profile I am not judging anyone or their choices they are just not my choice I am a very passionate person both in and out of the bedroom I consider myself to be very sensual and I have a strong sex drive just like everyone else on this site but I reserve it for the man I am with He gets all of me I dont want to be shared and I am not into sharing I am selfish that way Im also a big flirt To me that comes in the form of verbally playing banter and playfully teasing I need to be stimulated by your mind and personality even more than your appearance I am not looking for someone to take care of me I am financially independent I have a career a job and a home nor am I looking for someone to take care of that means you have a steady income and can pay your own bills Im looking for a man to share life with A best friend a lover a partner If youve gotten this far and are still interested here is what Im looking for in that man

My Ideal Person The basics single not separated straight and male Beyond that I am attracted to men with very strong personalities Someone who takes the lead both in and out of the bedroom but understands that a real man leads through trust not control He needs to create a safe space for me to be a woman He needs to be able to communicate his needs and desires as well as listen to mine because I will tell you exactly what I want and why He also needs to have a great sense of humor and one thats similar to mine He needs to be intelligent but also have common sense and he needs to appreciate and respect me for who I am what we are together which I hope is complementary of one another and I will do the same for him If you are interested or have questions message or IM me I dont always see the IM alerts Ill only share my pics and sexual preferenceskinks privately

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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