I will always treat you with dignity and respect. I will never get angry with you or yell at you. I will never call you names, insult you or belittle you. I will never lie to you, cheat on you, or intentionally hurt you in any way. I will always listen (and hear) and you should know that your words, thoughts, ideas and beliefs are as important to me as they are to you. And, of course, violence is strictly forbidden. I will never tell you what to do. I will only ask questions and offer advice when asked. I will never try to change you because I love you for who you are now, not who you might become. I will do your laundry, clean your house, repair your car or anything else you want me to do. Usually you won’t have to ask me to do something because it will already be done. I abhor the concept of “women’s work.” It’s all just work and somebody has to do it. Where is it written that the woman must do all of it. The more I do the more time we have to spend together. In short, my prime directive will be to say or do anything I can think of to help you be the happiest woman on the planet. For those of you with ren, I have helped raise eight and I share DNA with only two. But I think I did it right because to this day they all still call me Dad. As for relationships I believe they are like partnerships with two equal partners who communicate and share everything both good and bad. I believe in being open, honest, and above all faithful. I guess my bottom line is one and one don’t make two, one and one make one.

My Ideal Person She is beautiful on the outside and even more beautiful on the inside. She lets me treat her like a queen and spoil her rotten.