The philosophy I live by is stay relaxed, stay mellow, stay loose and be open to whatever happens. I want to stop being the "nice guy" and let my Id play for awhile. I've reached the point where it's time to get past my shy nature and meet someone new. When I'm at home alone, I'm calling up friends who want to cure their boredom with me. When I go out, usually some friends and I hang out together and laugh for a few hours. Commitment-wise, I'm pretty casual... but if it becomes serious later on, I won't complain. If you contact me please include a face pic. I look forward to seeing where this leads us. I'm not changing my life, I'm kicking it to the curb and getting a better one.