*IMPORTANT* If you don't read our profile you will likely be ignored and blocked: I cannot believe how many folks cannot read. WE do not have gold membership any longer and cannot reply unless you have that on your account. It's a practical decision as we do not have time to meet for the foreseeable future. First, we get all kinds of messages from guys who are not local. Either they cannot read or they ignore what we are saying here. We are seeking LOCAL guys only. We don't care if you are willing to travel. It doesn't work for us. My wife's play is purely spontaneous and she will not set plays dates, so if you are not local, messaging us is useless. Second, everyone has been affected by Covid, but in our case, she co-owns a small business... and although it is surviving, she is working way, way too much. Six days a week, every night and Saturdays too. So until things get better to the point she can hire some folks to take over a few shifts, out time is just abnormally limited and we will not be actively meeting until that changes. Please understand that distance has always been a challenge for us. I know surrounding cities are not really that far away. And it's never a problem for the guys who are willing to travel, but if you have lifestyle experience you probably understand her "type" which is more of a meet and get to know her style; she has to be attracted and also be in the mood before anything else is possible. For the majority of our play, she just gets in the mood while we are out or at an event and needs someone who can then meet us out. (that's always why we miss the on premise clubs back in Ohio so much, we normally would just head over to one of them!). So keep in mind with over 12 years of experience, even if she's interested in someone, mostly only locals have had success connecting. So if you are more than 30 minutes away, it’s probably a waste of your time to connect. Finally, you can't be camera shy as the husband likes to capture the fun. Also she is never online, she doesn't have the patience to handle the volume of messages and updates the site requires. Lastly, we had quite a few pics and videos posted and were AFF ambassadors back in the day, our site activity kept us with full access, not sure at this time whether we will activate membership or not. Please bare with us as we work through this. If you don't read our profile and approach "blind" you are not going to get very far.

My Ideal Person Long term, we are looking for friends and those who can fulfill a hot wife's desires; hubby is purely voyeuristic and enjoys watching her enjoy herself. We seek someone who understands that a woman who swings isn't a vending machine for sex. We simply do not set up "play dates". The wife deserves to be flirted with and enticed. Treat her with respect, engage her and you just may end with a memorable time. And if she just isn't in the mood nothing will change that, just be nice to her and she'll remember!

Also, she's partial to black guys; all in shape guys (with ABS even better), and being well endowed is a bonus but she's not a size queen either. Age wise, please understand she is fine with older men (husband is 20 years older than she is) BUT, when swinging she is generally looking for playmates more around her age or younger (25-40). Nothing personal, just her preference.

The same can be said for height; Guys... she's 5'10"; that means with heels she's 6'1", 6'2" or 6'3" depending on the heel. While there are always exceptions she simply doesn't like feeling like she's towering over folks, so taller men are preferred.

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