I am tired of trying to date only to find out we are sexually non compatible. I have limited free time. I just want to make sure I am making the most of what I do have. I am thinking I could use a night or two out. I am not looking for my sugar daddy, I am long since past the young, sexy and arm candy stage. I am fairly attractive, tall, curvy or bigger, a smaller BBW at a size 16. I have my act together, Am smart and funny and fluent in sarcasm. I don't want to be stood up. I don't have time to play games or time for people that do. Yes I am here looking for sex. That doesn't mean I will have sex with everyone here. I am a bit more picky than that. Also, I am interested in Tze in Atlanta. I have heard good things about it, but am not sure going alone is for me. I would love any information about it or to hear from others who have gone. I really do appreciate all the flirts and winks. Y'all really are very kind. But, my s use my laptop daily so I only check this site on my phone. I can't see friend request, flirts or winks. They show up in my notifications, but I get quite a few daily so I don't check that. If you want to contact me you have to be rather direct. Also! Please, if you are married and your wife doesn't know you are here, don't contact me. I am not a secret to be kept. I am not a perfect woman, but I deserve more than being hidden and lied about.

My Ideal Person Is the total man out there? Mature, secure in who he is and what he wants. Financially secure. I don't need a sugar daddy but I don't expect to pay your way as well. Understanding of a busy life with younger kids. I can't drop everything at a moments notice. I don't get every other weekend off. I have to make plans in advance. Someone who is sexually confident. I am an assertive woman. I want a man who can handle me. I don't mind doing what I am told on occasion, but I want a man who can give as good as he takes. I prefer bigger men because I am bigger. Someone with a decent size cock. Too big hurts, not big enough is slower. With skills other than just sticking it in. Non smokers are best. I don't drink. I don't mind if you do occasionally. But not always. I am not ruling out anything long term. But for long term it would have to be a man that knows my commitment is to him, but playing occasionally is fun and adds to it. And playing with me is even more fun. I doubt I find what I am looking for in one package. But it never hurts to look!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, No particular place, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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