BlackTalon1000 61 / M
"Beauty captures the eye ...... the mind captures the heart."
Wayne, New Jersey, United States
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BlackTalon1000 61/M
Wayne, New Jersey
The only part of my woman i won't share with other men, is her heart .....
I am looking for the woman who is looking for me, the woman who is on this site wanting to have her cake and eat it too. Outside the bedroom, she wants an attractive, charming, well educated professional. A man who will treat her with kindness and respect. An emotionally available FWB, open to the possibility of more. A man who can make her laugh. A man who will want to do things with her beyond the bedroom. A man she will find interesting. A man who is sane, real and sincere. A man she wants to spend time with. A man she can have fun with, whether for a night of dinner and dancing, or just snuggling on the coach together with some popcorn and a Netflix movie on the TV. He is a man who is three dimensional, who has interests, hobbies and ambitions outside the things that brings us all here. He is a man not afraid to share his life. Inside the privacy of the bedroom, he is a very open minded “partner in crime” that understands that sex is 90% in the mind. He is an alpha male, though he can take on other roles for the purposes of sex play. Here he will help and encourage her to set free the bad girl inside her. Here she will gladly allow him to transform her into his promiscuous little play thing. He is “jealousy free” inside the bedroom. He is just as comfortable watching as participating, and might even let her play on her own, though her safety and security would take precedence, and detailed reporting would be required afterwards. She will delight at, and welcome, her man’s fantasies even as he helps her to bring to life many of her own, fantasies that may include being shared and/or passed around with his friends. In other words, she equally welcome being treated like her mans queen, or his little , whatever the situation calls for. The woman who is looking for me has made the decision that she wants more than a vanilla sex life, but isn't willing to give up all the comforts of a traditional relationship. She should be looking for a man who will treat her like a lady in pubic while, at the same time, feel secure enough with her that she can ask, "honey, can we take him home tonight so the two of you can fuck me?" In most cases, her man will be the one to make the arrangements, always proving he's the best kind of friend, while also being the best kind of bad influence between the sheets.

My Ideal Person I would like to find a woman who's looking for a FWB relationship (possibly more if things evolve), and who is open minded and wants to explore the lifestyle.

That said, what I would like to find is an attractive, intelligent woman, kind with a warm personality, good sense of humor, and a life and interests outside the bedroom. Not looking to "complete" someone but, rather, "compliment" someone and their life.

Inside the bedroom, would like to find someone who is willing to let the "freak" out with the right partner. She should be looking for a partner she can explore her fantasies with. Particularly interested in someone who enjoys, or would like to explore threesomes, couples, groups, etc, - possibly sharing a select group of regular friends and lovers. You don't need to be experienced, though if you are, that's fine. You just need to be open to some sexual adventure and understand the meaning of the phrase, "slutty pussy, loyal heart."

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Seriously?? Too many to name.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Summer Glau. Both an actress and former ballet dancer,
she has a great body, and moves with a dancers grace. She
also has beautiful eyes.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 61 / male
  • Wayne, New Jersey, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women
Birthdate: May 1, 1960
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: 5 ft 11 in / 180-182 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic
Have Children: No
Want Children: Prefer not to say
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses