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Bigmess512 29 / M
"Looking to vibe"
Northwest suburbs of Chicago, Illinois, United States
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Bigmess512 29/M
Northwest suburbs of Chicago, Illinois
Looking to have a good time with good company. Open to try just about anything. Not attached to the facial hair I just grow it out sometimes. Top and sometimes a sub when with the right person. A lot of things get me off so we’ll just have to talk it out and communicate simple enough haha. Please just get to the point of what you want/looking for so we don’t waste each other’s time.

My Ideal Person Low pressure meetings and just enjoying each other’s company. Mentally and possibly physically if that’s where it goes.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Handcuffs/Shackles, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

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  • 29 / male
  • Northwest suburbs of Chicago, Illinois, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Prefer not to say
Looking For:  Women
Birthdate: December 23, 1993
Marital Status: Single
Body Type: Average
Race: Caucasian
Speaks: English