I like strength training, rock, metal, , eating good food, road trips, leopard print, red lipstick, photography, sushi, cake, and the company of an amazing friend. The real side of me. I have a tendency to be assertive, dominant, and abrasive. I do cuss quite a bit and can be a little rough from time to time. Maybe even overly honest or blunt. For that being said. I can be equally as gentle with the people I care about and nurturing. For the people I care for, I want them to be successful, happy, and motivated to chance their own goals no matter what they are. I am attracted to friends who take care of themselves. By this, I mean mentally and physically. I don’t mean you have to workout and be thin. I mean self care. Taking care of your mind and not having your life revolve around alcohol, drugs, and chain smoking. I’m totally fine with social/recreational use (marijuana). But, not interested in a friend and partner that is using anything harder. I think it’s incredibly sexy when a woman is taking care of her mind and body in that regard. I don’t have the perfect body. I have had and weight loss. But I am a little more on the muscular side if that makes sense. But I do try to make sure I’m taking care of myself. When I think of being sexually attracted to someone, it all starts mentally for me. Other weird things. I like watching my husband fuck my friend, and I have this weird fantasy of taking a road trip, and my friend and my husband are in the back seat of the car being disgusting and filming from the back seat. Who ever this person is, should know there are some of these types of fantasies that I WILL want to act on. I love having my own moment with this person, and a group situation, or even me just watching what to me, is literally the best kind of porn you can ever want to watch. Who knows, maybe even start a porn hub channel just to work some of our kinks out together. I also don’t really enjoy talking on the phone much.

My Ideal Person My ideal person is going to have a sense of humor, more submissive sexually, and even slutty when it comes to the physical/sexual aspect. She will want to be my muse, my secret keeper, playful, open minded and most of all she is going to need to like sushi, cake, and ice cream. Ideally, I would like her to have the ability to take overnight trips with me to different places from time to time, just because. Someone not too far, so we can actually hang out and go do whatever.

But, as far as my muse. I would love someone who doesn’t mind letting me photograph her in different settings, whether it’s in nature, a weird old abandoned building, or sexually. I love photography, and would like to have fun with it again doing projects that I actually enjoy doing. But I need her to be comfortable with being in front of a camera.

This person doesn’t have to be in to the same things I am in to. But a few common interests works for me.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage, Watching, Husband with other women.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, A little of each

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