Are Lifestyle ladies slut's?????  

strawberycouple 51M/49F
19 posts
5/31/2010 11:15 am
Are Lifestyle ladies slut's?????

I was recently at a social event for people in the Lifestyle where I had an interesting conversation with a group of ladies.

Some of these ladies were experienced veterans of the lifestyle, some were new just dipping their toes in to test the waters, some were married, some were single, some were older and some were younger but all had very strong opinions. One of the younger, single ladies who is new to the lifestyle with no real experience asked us slightly older veterans if we would agree that all women in the Lifestyle were Slut's. Well as you can imagine this question sparked a heated catty bitch fest. As I watched the bickering unfold, I stepped back and took time to reflect on my personal thoughts as to what I would like to be considered as.

These are my thoughts on the subject. I wouldn't call myself a , Why, because 's get paid for it, I give it up for free

The original meaning of Slut dates back to 1402 meaning a women who was untidy, dirty and slovenly. However the word Slut has evolved with the times and is now used to describe a woman who is promiscuous. The word Promiscuous means to have sex with many partners. So having said that I would not be defined as a Slut by 1402's definition as I am neither dirty,untidy nor slovenly. However I do meet the criteria of today's definition of the word Slut as I have to be honest I totally meet the definition of promiscuous by having many sexual partners.>>!

So my finale thoughts. Who gives a fuck what others think! To consider yourself a Slut is a state of mind. I'm proud to call myself a Bi-sexual Slut! At least I'm an honest, clean, safe Bi-sexual Slut who's better half knows everything.

rm_ccash86 35M

5/31/2010 2:44 pm

why did she even raise that up if she joined the club?

strawberycouple 51M/49F
9 posts
5/31/2010 6:14 pm

Thanks for the tat compliment esome83

strawberycouple 51M/49F
9 posts
5/31/2010 6:18 pm

ccash86 she asked the question because she was young recently married and was pushed into attending the lifestyle social by an over eager young husband who had no idea what he was asking his young bride to get into.

katiejcpl 64M/57F

6/11/2010 9:42 pm

Omg!!! Are we slutsssss. I think not. Promiscuous yes is a much better term. Just because we like to other for . Does not make us sluts. And as you said strawbercouple most think we are because we are if we click and alot of people don't really understand the meaning of . As far as I'm concerned if you don't like me In my mind a slut is a female who comes between a cpl in the lifestyle and destroys there relationship for there own gain.

Lixxxs K&J

strawberycouple 51M/49F
9 posts
6/14/2010 1:58 pm

Well said Katiej

1seeking1 56F  
3767 posts
10/7/2010 7:58 am

Question, what are the men called?

Can understand why she make the statement if she is being pushed into it.

innocent7064 54M/43F
1 post
9/5/2013 7:22 pm

Sometimes it is hard to look in when you are wearing blinders. I can respect her innocence but she should have really sat back and enjoyed herself like her husband wanted her to do. Obsereving can be quite the learning experience Sounds like she was kinda asking " If I do this, does this make me a slut?" If that was the case she should rethink her statement and form it into a question..CLEARLY. I do not consider myself a slut but do not mind being called one by the right man, pulling my hair

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