PROFILE PICTURES AND VIDEO'S  

stopbyandsayboo 50M
267 posts
10/4/2020 3:12 pm
PROFILE PICTURES AND VIDEO'S

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JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART


stopbyandsayboo 50M
1295 posts
10/4/2020 3:13 pm

Thought for today.......

Try to think of the other person's feelings

JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART


srkaficionada 68F

10/4/2020 4:41 pm

Thank you for this post! That’s a hard, HARD pass for me. I’ll even take it further, since it happened to me: if I ask to meet one of those partners and you say no because you play alone/ aren’t looking to share me, I will get mad. Because i see that as selfish, a double standard and you being a sore loser that I’m not jumping to get to you, but rather your “Play mate”


lust4life59 63F  
2552 posts
10/4/2020 5:26 pm

I will not post pics that involve a past or present lover out of respect for them. Even with someones permission and them saying they don't care, sometimes they change their mind. And I would hate to not be in a position to remove them when they requested, for whatever reason.

As far as wanting someone to remove photos of previous lovers if I got in a monogamous exclusive relationship with them? Well, I would hope they would choose to remove them AND change their profile But then again, that hasn't happened yet, so I can't really say how I feel..


secret_lade 47F  
9227 posts
10/4/2020 5:37 pm

I would want them to delete it. Truth be to!d, I'd probably have avoided them to begin with. I don't need to be a notch in someone's belt.


jajo696 67F  
4286 posts
10/4/2020 6:11 pm

Personally, IF a person had videos and pics of them with others...i would not be interested. I know everyone has a past....i wouldnt want it displayed in respect of our relationship. Also there is something called dirty dicks....im not about that. Thats not my kind of people. I have carried myself thru life with a certain decorum. So no....not exciting, probably boring, but real, meaningful and selective. My preference is someone similar. Just my dos centavos ~~


positively4you 72F  
4605 posts
10/4/2020 6:30 pm

No, I would not want them displayed. Disrespectful.


stopbyandsayboo 50M
1295 posts
10/4/2020 6:44 pm

    Quoting  :

Hi There

Yes I would have to agree I also do not want to one of many

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stopbyandsayboo 50M
1295 posts
10/4/2020 6:46 pm

    Quoting srkaficionada:
    Thank you for this post! That’s a hard, HARD pass for me. I’ll even take it further, since it happened to me: if I ask to meet one of those partners and you say no because you play alone/ aren’t looking to share me, I will get mad. Because i see that as selfish, a double standard and you being a sore loser that I’m not jumping to get to you, but rather your “Play mate”
Your welcome!!

I feel the same way. My profile says quality over quantity

You stay safe and stay away from the selfish ones

JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART


stopbyandsayboo 50M
1295 posts
10/4/2020 6:51 pm

    Quoting lust4life59:
    I will not post pics that involve a past or present lover out of respect for them. Even with someones permission and them saying they don't care, sometimes they change their mind. And I would hate to not be in a position to remove them when they requested, for whatever reason.

    As far as wanting someone to remove photos of previous lovers if I got in a monogamous exclusive relationship with them? Well, I would hope they would choose to remove them AND change their profile But then again, that hasn't happened yet, so I can't really say how I feel..
Hi Lust for life

Yes you would think if a person wants to be exclusive they would not have to be asked to remove them or better yet they would not be on this site.

I am sure you will find special man that will rock your world.. and he will not have to be warned to approach at his own risk LOL

Stay safe. Thank you for your thoughts

JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART


stopbyandsayboo 50M
1295 posts
10/4/2020 6:54 pm

    Quoting secret_lade:
    I would want them to delete it. Truth be to!d, I'd probably have avoided them to begin with. I don't need to be a notch in someone's belt.
I agree I would avoid them too..

PS,,,,My belt only has the notches it came with LOL

JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART


stopbyandsayboo 50M
1295 posts
10/4/2020 7:38 pm

    Quoting jajo696:
    Personally, IF a person had videos and pics of them with others...i would not be interested. I know everyone has a past....i wouldnt want it displayed in respect of our relationship. Also there is something called dirty dicks....im not about that. Thats not my kind of people. I have carried myself thru life with a certain decorum. So no....not exciting, probably boring, but real, meaningful and selective. My preference is someone similar. Just my dos centavos ~~
I agree as well Jajo.. I would not be interested either.. I do not judge though. Just not for me

JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART


stopbyandsayboo 50M
1295 posts
10/4/2020 7:39 pm

    Quoting  :

Evening Granny

Yes it would turn me off as well.. a whole bunch

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stopbyandsayboo 50M
1295 posts
10/4/2020 7:41 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    No, I would not want them displayed. Disrespectful.
Yes it would be positively

Stay safe and thank you for your thoughts

JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART


seems6666 51F  
4838 posts
10/5/2020 10:47 am

It's like the "current " pics of a man being blown or fucking someone.. my first thought is why are you on here if you have someone. and my 2nd thought is how many women have you got and thirdly... Hell NO|


stopbyandsayboo 50M
1295 posts
10/6/2020 3:31 pm

    Quoting  :

Hi LaLa

Your blog posts are always profound and articulate. So are your thoughts /comments/. Thank you for your response. And "he" would be with you all the way so there would be no need for him to look elsewhere

JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART


stopbyandsayboo 50M
1295 posts
10/6/2020 3:32 pm

    Quoting seems6666:
    It's like the "current " pics of a man being blown or fucking someone.. my first thought is why are you on here if you have someone. and my 2nd thought is how many women have you got and thirdly... Hell NO|
Both my thoughts as well Seems

I second the "HELL" no lol

JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART


smartasswoman 64F  
35813 posts
10/6/2020 8:46 pm

Well, I agree with what everyone else said. It has always been a bit of a turnoff to see that a guy has pictures on here of his penis sliding into some other woman. Certainly at our age we know that a prospective partner has had sex with other people, but I don't need it to be shoved in my face.

Maybe people who are confirmed swingers aren't bothered by it.


stopbyandsayboo 50M
1295 posts
10/6/2020 10:02 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    Well, I agree with what everyone else said. It has always been a bit of a turnoff to see that a guy has pictures on here of his penis sliding into some other woman. Certainly at our age we know that a prospective partner has had sex with other people, but I don't need it to be shoved in my face.

    Maybe people who are confirmed swingers aren't bothered by it.
Hi Smart

I also agree with your response. Sure we have all been with someone else BUT. For me I do not care about the past. I live in the present. Thank you for making a comment

Be safe and protect you !!

JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART


stopbyandsayboo 50M
1295 posts
10/7/2020 10:40 am

Yes I am aware of what it says on your profile on the subject
Thank you for your comment

Stay safe 😁

JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART


stopbyandsayboo 50M
1295 posts
10/9/2020 2:47 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you for your thoughts

I am happy for you that you have found a long term partner. Most have said it would be a turn off to see those kind of pictures

Stay safe cases in the Peg have spiked lately. FYI......Take out at Slices Pizza on Stafford rocks LOL

JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART


flannel_light 59F  
4585 posts
10/9/2020 10:38 am

Your Blog got me to do some hard thinking and you know I took some of my pictures off as well as the videos. I do not want to see all the people my Lover has been with. The past is the past and we all have one. I would like to see a recent face picture than a dick picture any day. Thank you for giving me something to really think about here. Hugs and have a great Thanksgiving coming up

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


CandyDave78 44M

10/20/2020 7:00 pm

Totally solid questions.
I would expect my new partner to hide the past lovers. Not out of insecurity but out of respect.


hottguy4fun4 33M
7 posts
10/24/2020 9:28 am

Keep going.. perfect move


fuggles54 56M

10/25/2020 11:11 am

food for thought there fella but each to there own.

XfugglesX


SixtyOne4Zero2 61M

10/25/2020 6:23 pm

I've been married for almost 15 years, my wife left me to take care of her family. I haven't been with another woman since, I come on Heated Affairs mostly to feel like I still have a sex life, but it is all a lie. I like decent profile pictures, dressed or undressed. I don't like someone's picture of their tits covered in cum, or a 10 inch cock in their mouth. To this day, I've never have asked my wife how many guys she was with, I lie the idea that it wasn't many. I certainly don't want to see other guys cum dripping from their pussy if I had any plans on eating her out.


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