No Relationship Is Ever A Waste of Time  

sexyldy1000 61F  
10437 posts
7/8/2021 1:39 pm
No Relationship Is Ever A Waste of Time





Throughout our lifetime we have many different types of relationships. Each one teaches us more about ourselves.

We can look at what didn't work & become clear about how we want our next relationship to be.

We can develop new standards as we are more aware of what we will and what we won't accept.

When we start repeating patterns that create arguments, chaos, rejection or abandonment, we can use these lessons to see what we need to change.

When we are in a relationship we can either gain self-respect or lose it depending upon how we allow ourselves to be treated.

Life is a process of beginnings and endings. Whenever a relationship ends, we experience its loss and learn from it.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
7/8/2021 1:45 pm

Whether it's with family, friends, romantic partners or work colleagues, the depth and strength of relationships are different depending on the individuals with whom we connect.


Luv2bottom4u2 64M  
1865 posts
7/8/2021 2:25 pm

Most of this is true Except if you don't have self respect you can never get it from someone else. and then if you ever had a bad relationship due to what you have here and get into another one with same traits , you never learned from the first time.


socalhappa1989 33M
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7/8/2021 2:27 pm

truth


DesireU2020 56M  
72 posts
7/8/2021 4:28 pm

So true, If you aren't learning and changing, you aren't paying attention.


justskin1 70M
13019 posts
7/8/2021 4:52 pm

Sometimes a failed relationship is due to not recognizing what we really want or need and sometimes because of ways our actions or inactions skewed things up. Some of us learn from them but not all the lessons needed. We can all hope we learn fast enough to have good or relationships.

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Jules1590 53F
8053 posts
7/8/2021 4:53 pm

Yes indeed. If I didn't learn something from the relationship, I certainly gained an insight into myself.


Looklovesmile42 63M
7 posts
7/8/2021 5:22 pm

I am always learning. Thanks for the blog


resant78 43M  
3316 posts
7/8/2021 7:34 pm

Yep!!! exactly!


lonlyforlove2 79M  
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7/8/2021 9:11 pm

Any time you learn it is good, even with a broken heart....

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partygald 39F
1946 posts
7/8/2021 9:53 pm

True that! Very, very true. If only some of these lessons weren’t so darn painful ….
Still. They look so much more palatable in hindsight. 😊


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
40446 posts
7/9/2021 2:32 am

You are very right; relationships reveal loads about ourselves.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
7/9/2021 3:55 am

    Quoting Luv2bottom4u2:
    Most of this is true Except if you don't have self respect you can never get it from someone else. and then if you ever had a bad relationship due to what you have here and get into another one with same traits , you never learned from the first time.
Self-respect can be impacted by how others treat you. And I agree, learning from each and every relationship is key. Thanks for dropping by.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
7/9/2021 3:56 am

I thought so too which is why I decided to post it. Thanks for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
7/9/2021 3:56 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you. I appreciate you stopping by.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
7/9/2021 3:57 am

    Quoting DesireU2020:
    So true, If you aren't learning and changing, you aren't paying attention.
And if you aren't learning, you aren't growing Thanks for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
7/9/2021 3:58 am

    Quoting justskin1:
    Sometimes a failed relationship is due to not recognizing what we really want or need and sometimes because of ways our actions or inactions skewed things up. Some of us learn from them but not all the lessons needed. We can all hope we learn fast enough to have good or relationships.
I agree with your observations. Thanks for stopping by and sharing them


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
7/9/2021 3:59 am

    Quoting Jules1590:
    Yes indeed. If I didn't learn something from the relationship, I certainly gained an insight into myself.
I learn from each and every experience/encounter. Nice to see you stopping by


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
7/9/2021 4:00 am

When we keeping learning, we keep growing. Thanks for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
7/9/2021 4:00 am

Thanks for the endorsement!


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
7/9/2021 4:01 am

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    Any time you learn it is good, even with a broken heart....
Yes, that is very true. Thanks for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
7/9/2021 4:02 am

    Quoting partygald:
    True that! Very, very true. If only some of these lessons weren’t so darn painful ….
    Still. They look so much more palatable in hindsight. 😊
Life, including relationships, isn't easy. We often have a different perspective when we can reflect back. Thanks for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
7/9/2021 4:04 am

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    You are very right; relationships reveal loads about ourselves.
Whether or not we want to admit it. Thanks for stopping by.


lickeyzsplit 59M  
1483 posts
7/9/2021 6:15 am

Like your Blog ! We should all think about this every day before we engage with people in public and in our working lives ... Life Lessons Happy Friday !


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
7/9/2021 8:29 am

    Quoting lickeyzsplit:
    Like your Blog ! We should all think about this every day before we engage with people in public and in our working lives ... Life Lessons Happy Friday !
Thank you. I do enjoy posting about a variety of subjects, including ones that will encourage others to step back and ponder. Have a great day and weekend


Tmptrzz 59F  
106043 posts
7/9/2021 8:30 am

This is so very true, as each relationship is different, and we learn from each and everyone of them we have. It truly teaches us what kind of relationships are truly the best ones, and which aren't. And the ones we want to have in our lives.

I hope your Friday is a wonderful start to your weekend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


boobwhisperer69 59M  
8103 posts
7/9/2021 10:00 am

So very true!!! I agree!!


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
7/9/2021 3:19 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    This is so very true, as each relationship is different, and we learn from each and everyone of them we have. It truly teaches us what kind of relationships are truly the best ones, and which aren't. And the ones we want to have in our lives.

    I hope your Friday is a wonderful start to your weekend..
Often, when a relationship ends, people will say it was a waste of time. I don’t know if that’s bitterness or disappointment. Since there are so many different types of relationships, as you say, each one is different. I know I learn something from each one. Hope you have a great weekend 😊


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
7/9/2021 3:19 pm

Thanks for stopping by and adding your confirmation 😊


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