Let's Talk About Tantric Sex  

sexyldy1000 65F  
10308 posts
7/22/2020 12:59 pm
Let's Talk About Tantric Sex




Tantra is a Sanskrit word that means ‘woven together.’ Hindu and Buddhist meditation practitioners use the sexual union of tantra sexology as a metaphor for weaving together the physical and the spiritual: weaving humanity 'to' the divine. The Western form of this sacred sexuality called Tantra teaches slow, non-orgasmic sexual intercourse.

So, where do we start?
Begin by facing each other and gazing into each other’s eyes with your clothes on. Focus on one of your partner’s eyes; this keeps you intimately exposed. (Some people look back and forth between the two eyes 'to' reduce the tension).

Make sure you’re breathing the right way (yes, there’s a wrong way). Next, synchronize your breathing with your partner’s: Breathe in together, exhale together. Then move into breath exchange: You inhale when he exhales, then exhale when he inhales, as though you’re breathing each other in. Practice this for at least 10 minutes.

What does tantric sex for beginners look like?
'To' take this into sexual Tantra, try the same process but with clothes off. Sit on your partner’s lap, and wrap your legs around their waist. Do the breath exchange, but move into kissing and caressing. In time, begin slow intercourse, but continue caressing and kissing. Keep eye contact.

As you become more proficient, you can develop the ability for prolonged orgasm. For both women and men, you remain at the peak of ecstatic pleasure without climaxing. There are all the feelings of a typical orgasm, but it lasts for many minutes (or even hours), without a traditional orgasm.

Personal Experience
I can attest the orgasms are unlike any other. No drugs or alcohol of any kind were consumed prior to or during. This was also with someone who had been studying Tantra for years. Although I have never tried hallucinogens, it is the only thing I can liken it 'to'. They were multi-layered, multi-coloured and multi-dimensional. At times, it felt like an out-of-body experience that I was witnessing from above. Afterwards, I slept for hours and woke up with an all-over glow and relaxed.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
7/22/2020 1:02 pm

What's your experience with tantric sex?


justaguyinalaska 55M
879 posts
7/22/2020 1:48 pm

I share your enthusiasm for Tantra and have enjoyed the transcendental orgasms you describe. The process of building communication and connectivity that provide the foundation for tantric sex is as much (if not more) pleasurable than the lovemaking itself.

While there's nothing wrong with lusty, high-energy sexy-time, it is refreshing to *slow-jam* lovemaking. And- as you point out- there are toe-curling rewards to those who can exercise Tantra's requisite patience and commitment.


Tmptrzz 59F  
107033 posts
7/22/2020 1:59 pm

Tantric Sex can be such a wonderful experience with that special partner. Thanks for sharing this as there are a lot of members who don't know about Tantric Sex. I hope your Hump Day is an enjoyable one..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


looking4u69ca 61M  
4324 posts
7/22/2020 2:47 pm

I have zero experience with tantric. Should give it a try. Ok I'll try it.


1seeking1 56F  
3767 posts
7/22/2020 2:53 pm

Good description and yes that is what it felt like for me, after my first experience I glowed for a week. Been a while, I hope to experience more.


mc_justmc 62M  
6929 posts
7/22/2020 4:02 pm

Tried it, a looooooong time ago.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
7/22/2020 6:29 pm

    Quoting justaguyinalaska:
    I share your enthusiasm for Tantra and have enjoyed the transcendental orgasms you describe. The process of building communication and connectivity that provide the foundation for tantric sex is as much (if not more) pleasurable than the lovemaking itself.

    While there's nothing wrong with lusty, high-energy sexy-time, it is refreshing to *slow-jam* lovemaking. And- as you point out- there are toe-curling rewards to those who can exercise Tantra's requisite patience and commitment.
When you are with someone who is knowledgeable and skilled, the results truly can be mind-blowing! There's been nothing that comes close to comparing to my experience with it, Thank you for sharing your perspective.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
7/22/2020 6:31 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Tantric Sex can be such a wonderful experience with that special partner. Thanks for sharing this as there are a lot of members who don't know about Tantric Sex. I hope your Hump Day is an enjoyable one..
I agree there really is nothing that compares to it. I do hope others read and enjoy this. Enjoy the rest of your 'Hump Day'.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
7/22/2020 6:32 pm

    Quoting  :

Many presume to know about it, but few actually do. If you can connect with someone who is knowledgeable and skilled, you will Never forget it.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
7/22/2020 6:33 pm

    Quoting looking4u69ca:
    I have zero experience with tantric. Should give it a try. Ok I'll try it.
What I listed barely skimmed the surface. There's lots of great books on the subject and no doubt instructional videos too. It is well worth the experience!


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
7/22/2020 6:35 pm

    Quoting 1seeking1:
    Good description and yes that is what it felt like for me, after my first experience I glowed for a week. Been a while, I hope to experience more.
Wonderful to have you drop by and validate what I outlined as my experience. I hope you get to enjoy it again


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
7/22/2020 6:35 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    Tried it, a looooooong time ago.
Gee, don't leaving me hanging! How did it turn out?


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
7/22/2020 7:37 pm

I've had some great sex in my lifetime but I never consciously tried those techniques; although it might have happened by accident. Edging is a consequence that can trick the mind and body into a similar whole body experience.
At my age, I doubt I'll find a partner willing to experiment with a potentially hyperventilating 'whole body' experiment. Vanilla looks like the flavor of choice. And that's fine as well.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
7/22/2020 8:02 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I've had some great sex in my lifetime but I never consciously tried those techniques; although it might have happened by accident. Edging is a consequence that can trick the mind and body into a similar whole body experience.
    At my age, I doubt I'll find a partner willing to experiment with a potentially hyperventilating 'whole body' experiment. Vanilla looks like the flavor of choice. And that's fine as well.
Yes I am quite familiar with edging and agree it can result in a ‘whole body experience’. The correct practice of Tantra is not age-specific but does take time, patience and practice to perfect. A willing partner is mandatory.


MrRareity 62M  
4589 posts
7/22/2020 8:07 pm

This is something I've always wanted to try for the reasons you mentioned. Although I haven't tried I have done some light reading. I wish I ad a partner like you that would be willing to try it together. We could both be inexperienced and learn together, or she could know and be experienced at it as well. Great post!!

We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
7/22/2020 9:01 pm

    Quoting MrRareity:
    This is something I've always wanted to try for the reasons you mentioned. Although I haven't tried I have done some light reading. I wish I ad a partner like you that would be willing to try it together. We could both be inexperienced and learn together, or she could know and be experienced at it as well. Great post!!
There is a lot of information available about Tantra including books and videos. What I listed barely skimmed the surface. It does take time, patience and practice to perfect and a willing partner of course!


easyrider4008 65M  
2563 posts
7/22/2020 10:38 pm

Thanks for sharing that with us


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
7/22/2020 11:05 pm

My pleasure . Have you experimented with it?


Caro_0001 37F
238 posts
7/23/2020 4:20 am

Mmmmm woven together {=}


deepkiss4u 49M

7/23/2020 5:35 am

sounds like fun, now I have to find someone to do with - it my be difficult due to a covid-19


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
7/23/2020 5:40 am

I am sure you can use your imagination! Thanks for stopping by and becoming a watcher 😊.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
7/23/2020 5:42 am

    Quoting deepkiss4u:
    sounds like fun, now I have to find someone to do with - it my be difficult due to a covid-19
My experience wasn’t recent. However, it’s one I will never forget!


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
7/23/2020 5:49 am

    Quoting mamacita38dd:
    Let's...

    I will admit it's very interesting, I will be looking into it more now thanks for sharing my friend
People kind of dabble on the fringes of Tantra. However, it takes years to become adept at providing the kind of experience I had. It’s well worth looking into and trying !


LadiesR2B1rst 58M  
2735 posts
7/30/2020 8:52 pm

Thank You ! Although some won't admit it, Sex is as much mental as physical. When the mind is in a state of bliss the body will follow. It has been a long time since having a relationship with a lady that stayed on my mind but, it does lead to a much more romantic experience !!


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
7/30/2020 9:28 pm

    Quoting LadiesR2B1rst:
    Thank You ! Although some won't admit it, Sex is as much mental as physical. When the mind is in a state of bliss the body will follow. It has been a long time since having a relationship with a lady that stayed on my mind but, it does lead to a much more romantic experience !!
Agree. A lot of things are more importantly mentally, than physically. Thanks for stopping by and visiting my blog.


nutzyagain 63M  
1269 posts
8/7/2020 8:59 pm

Do you know of any truthful resources on Tantra? This sounds like something my sweet love would enjoy and be interested in.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
8/8/2020 2:53 am

    Quoting nutzyagain:
    Do you know of any truthful resources on Tantra? This sounds like something my sweet love would enjoy and be interested in.
I am not a student of Tantra. I do know there is supposed to be some great books and videos including those about Kama Sutra.


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