I AM WHO I AM  

sexyldy1000 60F  
10213 posts
9/17/2021 7:28 pm
I AM WHO I AM




I learned a long time ago, to accept Myself for who I am.

I don't try nor want to be anyone else.

If you can't accept Me for the strong, resilient woman that I am, that's Your problem, Not Mine. Just keep walking.


Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
9/17/2021 7:40 pm

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Here and in the 'real world', I stand by the choices I have made. They have all contributed to the woman I am today.

How important are other people's opinions of you? Is their approval necessary?


Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


redrockrascal 63M
23347 posts
9/17/2021 9:28 pm

Hummm . . . If I AM WHO I AM and you are WHO I AM are we related?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


agedfun1 74M

9/17/2021 9:44 pm

We are good, bad, pretty, ugly, compassionate, uncaring and every other attributes attached to our being the sum of our histories

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Equal opportunity chatter here. All topics fair game from A to Z. Private mailbox blog agedfun1.


boobwhisperer69 58M  
7831 posts
9/17/2021 10:06 pm

I totally agree with you on that!!! Take me as I am, or leave!!!


Paulxx001 64M
21898 posts
9/18/2021 2:12 am

It's EXTREMELY important if you're a politician seeking election, or a hired clown at a kid's party.


G000dbuddy 34M  
1216 posts
9/18/2021 2:18 am

If you want to live a life..who you are.. you will lead a contempt life

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p1947q 74M  
138 posts
9/18/2021 10:03 am

Opinions and approval are not necessary or expected but are appreciated. Good opinions and approval are appreciated as an affirmation that I am doing something right. Bad opinions and disapprovals are appreciated as they afford me the opportunity to reflect on those comments affording me an opportunity to grow. Now, acceptance on the other hand is mandatory to be within MY circle. No one has to like or approve of my thoughts, ideas, behaviors, or anything else but they must respect and accept those things as who I am.


Tmptrzz 59F  
104079 posts
9/18/2021 11:33 am

Amen my friend.. I couldn't agree more. I hope your enjoying a great start to your weekend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
9/18/2021 1:01 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    Hummm . . . If I AM WHO I AM and you are WHO I AM are we related?
Now that's a scary thought eh?

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
9/18/2021 1:02 pm

    Quoting agedfun1:
    We are good, bad, pretty, ugly, compassionate, uncaring and every other attributes attached to our being the sum of our histories

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Can't argue with that logic . Thanks for stopping by and sharing your perspective.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
9/18/2021 1:02 pm

    Quoting boobwhisperer69:
    I totally agree with you on that!!! Take me as I am, or leave!!!
I think a lot of people share the same opinion

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
9/18/2021 1:03 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    It's EXTREMELY important if you're a politician seeking election, or a hired clown at a kid's party.
LOL. Yes that's true. Ever tried being either of those?

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
9/18/2021 1:04 pm

    Quoting G000dbuddy:
    If you want to live a life..who you are.. you will lead a contempt life
Not sure I understand your comment.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
9/18/2021 1:06 pm

    Quoting p1947q:
    Opinions and approval are not necessary or expected but are appreciated. Good opinions and approval are appreciated as an affirmation that I am doing something right. Bad opinions and disapprovals are appreciated as they afford me the opportunity to reflect on those comments affording me an opportunity to grow. Now, acceptance on the other hand is mandatory to be within MY circle. No one has to like or approve of my thoughts, ideas, behaviors, or anything else but they must respect and accept those things as who I am.
As always, I welcome you thoughtful and detailed response. Respect has to be earned and not demanded. Too many people fail to understand the difference.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
9/18/2021 1:08 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Amen my friend.. I couldn't agree more. I hope your enjoying a great start to your weekend..
I knew you would understand. It's a beautiful Fall day here with a cooling breeze.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


lonlyforlove2 78M
22909 posts
9/18/2021 1:59 pm

It is a problem when someone tries to be something else.. For me I only know this me, he is ,I think, normal, but in all things I think I am real. If some one can't accept reality, as you say, just keep on walking!!! I hope you have a good day.

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resant78 43M  
3300 posts
9/18/2021 3:01 pm

absolutely!

It took me a long time to accept and recognize myself for who I am (and continue to work on), and I'd be damned if I let others dictate who they believe I "should be."

I love this post, thank you!


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
9/18/2021 3:55 pm

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    It is a problem when someone tries to be something else.. For me I only know this me, he is ,I think, normal, but in all things I think I am real. If some one can't accept reality, as you say, just keep on walking!!! I hope you have a good day.
I had a feeling you would understand the intent of this message.
Here, it's a beautiful Fall day with lots of sunshine and a cooling breeze. Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
9/18/2021 3:56 pm

    Quoting resant78:
    absolutely!

    It took me a long time to accept and recognize myself for who I am (and continue to work on), and I'd be damned if I let others dictate who they believe I "should be."

    I love this post, thank you!
I am glad you enjoyed this post and stopped by to comment. Be have to be true to ourselves

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


pocogato12 69F  
36940 posts
9/18/2021 7:03 pm

perfectly stated

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sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
9/19/2021 6:28 am

Thank you. I believe and live it every day. Nice to see you drop by and comment ๐Ÿ˜Š

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


69ereatwetpussy 59M
6188 posts
9/20/2021 5:54 am

I respect you for who you are.
I'll never try to change someone to better me
I take you for who you are if I don't get along
Then I know it's not ment to be.
We all are not perfect not ever can be
So have a wonderful day enjoy yourself
And the people that enjoy you. XOXO


sexyldy1000 60F  
9345 posts
9/20/2021 4:38 pm

    Quoting 69ereatwetpussy:
    I respect you for who you are.
    I'll never try to change someone to better me
    I take you for who you are if I don't get along
    Then I know it's not ment to be.
    We all are not perfect not ever can be
    So have a wonderful day enjoy yourself
    And the people that enjoy you. XOXO
No one should change to please someone else. If you can't be true to yourself, what's the point? Thank you for the good wishes. Was a busy work day Have a great evening

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Lest We Forget


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