Being A Mother Is Forever  

sexyldy1000 61F  
10437 posts
2/21/2021 11:58 am
Being A Mother Is Forever



No matter their age or what they have accomplished, you still worry about your . You never stop thinking about them or wanting the best for them. Perhaps I didn't fully understand this until I had my own.

My brothers and I were very different personalities, as well as in our interests, our strengths and our ambitions. My M.O.M. had her hands full adopting to our needs.

Like many people, when I was a , she and I went through some rough patches. However, after I started working full time, our bond became closer when we took a two week vacation together. I came back with a renewed respect for her and all that she had been through. I also knew that no matter what, she would always be there for me.

Even when I was married, every morning, she would phone me at work at the same time. It didn't matter if we had spoken the night before, she would still phone t.o touch base. Those moments were "our time'.

I would give anything to have those moments again.




sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
2/21/2021 12:06 pm

Do these words resonate with you? What kind of relationship do you have with your Mother?


HermanG67 54M
8462 posts
2/21/2021 12:30 pm

no truer love exists than the love of a mother


resant78 43M  
3316 posts
2/21/2021 12:55 pm

I'm glad my mom and I have a good enough relationship.

We get along, but we never talk about personal stuff.
Everyone seems to have their own way of interacting with their parents.
Some are more open, some are more closed with details.
Some are very respectful, others don't think highly of their parents.

I think highly of my parents, but I have difficulty to talk to them about my issues.
Both while growing up and now as a grown up.
I feel that I should be more open with what I tell them, but at the same time I feel that they don't want to hear it either. (it's complex for me)


Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
2/21/2021 1:07 pm

True... ❤️❤️❤️


Tmptrzz 59F  
106043 posts
2/21/2021 1:15 pm

Such a touching blog today, so glad you had a great relationship with your mom. I can only imagine how much you miss her. I hope you are enjoying your Sunday..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


lonlyforlove2 79M  
29493 posts
2/21/2021 1:28 pm

It has been nearly a year since I seen my mom, but I understand she is doing good, the home still locked down and all are doing good. I hope to be able to see her soon, I have just got my second shot so that carries some weight.. She is 101 years and several weeks young.. for a good view look at.... Who is this wonderful lady To all have a good day, just be safe, we not done with it yet..

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see [post 4432866]
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also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


mufdiver69er2 61M  
1890 posts
2/21/2021 3:01 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Do these words resonate with you? What kind of relationship do you have with your Mother?
ya know...this rings just as true for some fathers....

woop woop


Happy444xo 58M
15 posts
2/21/2021 3:15 pm

It's nice to read your thoughts on being a mother. I lost my mother when I was really young and I'm sure she would have felt the same way you do.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
2/21/2021 3:19 pm

    Quoting mufdiver69er2:
    ya know...this rings just as true for some fathers....
Of course it does and I was not purposely excluding them . Since I am a Mother, I was expressing my feelings from that perspective. Thanks for dropping by.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
2/21/2021 3:24 pm

    Quoting HermanG67:
    no truer love exists than the love of a mother
Absolutely agree 😊. Nice to see you dropping by.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
2/21/2021 3:34 pm

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    It has been nearly a year since I seen my mom, but I understand she is doing good, the home still locked down and all are doing good. I hope to be able to see her soon, I have just got my second shot so that carries some weight.. She is 101 years and several weeks young.. for a good view look at.... Who is this wonderful lady To all have a good day, just be safe, we not done with it yet..
Both my parents were in their early 70’s when they passed within 2 years of each other. A day doesn’t go by when I don’t think about them and miss them. I hope you get to spend time with your Mother soon. I will read your post and comment on your blog .


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
2/21/2021 3:40 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Such a touching blog today, so glad you had a great relationship with your mom. I can only imagine how much you miss her. I hope you are enjoying your Sunday..
I saw the first meme posted elsewhere today and the words just flowed. Often I look in the mirror and do a double take. More and more, I am starting to look like her. Thank you for stopping by. Keep safe.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
2/21/2021 3:49 pm

    Quoting resant78:
    I'm glad my mom and I have a good enough relationship.

    We get along, but we never talk about personal stuff.
    Everyone seems to have their own way of interacting with their parents.
    Some are more open, some are more closed with details.
    Some are very respectful, others don't think highly of their parents.

    I think highly of my parents, but I have difficulty to talk to them about my issues.
    Both while growing up and now as a grown up.
    I feel that I should be more open with what I tell them, but at the same time I feel that they don't want to hear it either. (it's complex for me)
The relationship I have with my son is different than the one I have with my daughter. I think my relationship with my Mother also evolved as she became more open-minded. There were always some things I never talked to her about. Thank you for sharing your perspective.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
2/21/2021 4:00 pm

    Quoting Happy444xo:
    It's nice to read your thoughts on being a mother. I lost my mother when I was really young and I'm sure she would have felt the same way you do.
Women share a unique and common bond through motherhood. My Mother was only nineteen and the eldest of five, when she lost her Mother. It left a lasting impact. Thank you for dropping by.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
2/21/2021 4:07 pm

It is a relationship unlike any other. ❤️


trixietrixster 54F  
3111 posts
2/25/2021 11:19 am

When I first saw the title, I thought I was going to cry. Tho, your words left me smiling, thinking such happy memories of my mom and our time together. Thank you for this ...

In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
2/25/2021 1:03 pm

    Quoting trixietrixster:
    When I first saw the title, I thought I was going to cry. Tho, your words left me smiling, thinking such happy memories of my mom and our time together. Thank you for this ...
I am glad it triggered those thoughts. I had seen the meme elsewhere and it immediately touched me and then the words just flowed.


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