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The New Year Started With a Bang
Posted:Feb 15, 2021 9:16 am
Last Updated:Jul 6, 2022 10:27 am

Hello my friends,
It feels like I have not posted to my blog for too long. So here goes.

Rather than tell you that there hasn't been a lot going on or boring you I decided to answer one of the most asked questions that I get ... well besides ... "hey can you suck my dick tonight?" and the ever popular ... "Hi how are you?" ... lol

I am often asked "when was your first gangbang?"

I was in my early 50's and I admit to being a late bloomer. I also admit that I read about gangbangs in penthouse stories and found them stimulating and they turned into an obsessive fantasy and subject for self pleasure almost every day for years. It wasn't until I moved to Northern California and discovered Heated Affairs that I actually dated with the intent of "hooking up" and it wasn't long before I had 4 different regular "friends" that one of them suggested going to a weekday party he knew about. The party was held at various hotels and was advertised on Craigslist. It was very stimulating with usually more guys than women. I went to several with him and had the courage to go on my own too. There was one that I went to and only 5 guys and myself showed up. I knew one of the guys ... sort of ... and all the guys were acceptable. Not wanting to waste time (I was always so busy at home and work) that I got started with the guy I knew and in a very short time I realized that all of the guys were pleasuring me. It was more exciting than anything I had ever imagined and it went on for hours. I could hear guys calling their girlfriends or wives and covering for themselves ... lol. And finally and sadly I had to get home. But soon after I got home I gave it some thought and masturbated for several hours. The next day I masturbated most of the day. Ever since that experience I have gotten more comfortable with what I like to call the multiple man experience and that is what I love to do.

And that is all I have to say about it. ... lol ... and just to certify that is a true experience and I didn't make up this post. It really did happen.

So ... regarding my blog title ... at midnight on new years eve someone in my neighborhood lit off a very loud firecracker and that was the bang.

I know we will all feel more comfortable with getting out again and that will be sooner than we think. Since I am past 60 I am hoping to get my vaccination soon and then most likely will join in the fun ... and yes I know you can still get it and transmit it but you are unlikely to die from it ... but we have to get back to life.

So ... happy new year everyone.
Looking forward to 2021
Posted:Dec 7, 2020 8:52 pm
Last Updated:Jul 6, 2022 10:27 am

Hi Friends and new readers,
Thank you for taking the time read my blogs.

Before it gets too crazy into the holiday season I just wanted to say thank you to all my friends. I hope that we can get together again and add more to the fun.

Thank you friends and happy holidays.

When to go back to fun?
Posted:Aug 24, 2020 9:16 am
Last Updated:Nov 18, 2020 10:24 pm

Hi all my friends,
When go back having fun has been on my mind a lot. It seems that now is the time ... with some precautions. I mean in an ideal world you would have friends that you really trust follow through and you all agree test and then stay isolated for days ... on the day of fun temperatures are taken at the door ... then .... much needed and much missed pleasures for hours.

So how is everyone doing out there? I hope you are all doing well.

Email vs IM
Posted:Dec 28, 2019 9:40 am
Last Updated:Aug 24, 2020 9:17 am

It occurred that many of the guys that contact don't seem understand the difference between email and IM. For instance a guy chatted up and I was quite interested. I told him that it would be very helpful if he sent an email with his phone number. He promptly provided his phone number in the IM chat. I did not get an email. Chat many times disappears on my devices as did his. email provides a more permanent record. Anyway I get a lot of IM requests and do like chat get a feel for the person. But it also tells a lot about someone who can not focus long enough write and email. Otherwise the end of the year has been full of fun!! *Y*

Happy New year everyone. Hope I get meet some of you in 2020.

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What is there to fear?
Posted:Aug 14, 2019 8:20 am
Last Updated:Jan 26, 2020 12:26 pm

Hi my friends,
I was wondering what are the fears for guys to overcome as they face the reality they have accepted an invitation to a "sharing" party? ( is a party where multiple men respectfully share a woman or sometimes two women)

Is there a fear more complicated than their guy won't stand at attention?

I had a very fun get together. It was wonderful but there were several guys who initially accepted invitations and seemed excited to come but in the end they cancelled. They were literally begging for an invitation and on Thursday they got one and immediately accepted ... then one cancelled Friday night and one Saturday morning, and one on Saturday afternoon.

your thoughts and suggestions on how I can make the guys feel better about coming out and joining in the fun?

Hope you are all having a wonderful day.

Posted:Jul 26, 2019 2:55 pm
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2019 2:21 pm

everyone. Thank you for dropping by to visit my blog.

Who else gets writer's block when they finally get around to updatting their blog? Its like all my ideas go of my head.

Anyway I want to count some blessings. I am healthy and in good physical shape. I have some new grandchildren, I have a sexy boyfriend who never gets jealous and encourages me to be free and wild. I live in a nice house and we have wonderful food. I could go on but this is a sex site. So speaking of sex I was wondering how many guys that read my blog have been to an orgy>

Its about sharing and caring
Posted:Oct 3, 2018 2:23 pm
Last Updated:Apr 21, 2019 9:27 am

Hi to all my friends,
Sorry to be away from the blog for awhile. Its a combination of being busy and not having a subject that doesn't waste your time.

We have had over 50 group play parties. We call them sharing parties and it is where there are more men than women and it is for straight men who enjoy sharing a lady or two with other straight men. I have several lady friends who enjoy this style of play and from time to time one of them will join me in the fun.

Our parties a always invitation only, never a door fee or charge, bring a snack, guys straight, and except for oral the play is condom safe. Incredibly we have only had to postpone several parties and every party has been really fun.

We have a formula for this and would love for you to add your reaction and opinions. Our formula is simple. For people new to the party we always have a nice phone conversation and make sure they understand the style of play and give them the chance to figure our parties out. It gives us a chance to figure them out as well. Sometimes they want to come and sometimes not and sometimes we tell them this is not a party for them. The main two things we strive for are people feeling welcome to our home and people feeling they are included in the party. It is about sharing and caring and the better people are at sharing the better our parties have been. We think the rest comes naturally.

What are your thoughts or questions about our approach?

I love you guys,
How is life?
Posted:Jul 15, 2018 11:10 pm
Last Updated:Aug 24, 2018 8:33 pm

Hi everyone,
It has been a long journey back from surgery but I am back now and perpetually horny. It feels great to be horny again!!!

Lately I have come across some really great guys. They have just the right of wrong and they really understand sharing me.

Life is great!!!

When is a guy bi-sexual?
Posted:Mar 13, 2018 9:10 pm
Last Updated:Apr 9, 2020 8:10 am

Hi Again,
This seems like an odd subject to blog about because I am not attracted at all to bi-sexual men. But I figured that since there are so many guys that are openly claiming to be bi-sexual on the site and so many that hint they have that leaning I thought it might be a good discussion topic.

If you claim you are a bi-sexual male but have never interacted with another man are you bi-sexual just because you have the urge?

How about if a man is sucked by another guy ... lets say a woman is sitting on his face and another guy sucks him without him knowing it is a guy ... the girl sitting on his face says "do you like that?" and he says yes ... is he bi-sexual?

Or how about the guys who have a profile shot of their butt ... does that make them bi?

Just wondering what is it that makes a guy bi? Any thoughts anyone has on this topic?

Should I stop answering stupid emails?
Posted:Dec 8, 2017 5:29 pm
Last Updated:Mar 18, 2018 5:12 pm

Dear friends,
I have been very good about answering emails, even those where I say we are not a match.

But looking at my last 10 emails they all have thing in common and that is that they ignore what I am looking for and tell me what they are looking for. About half of the emails are vulgar and the other half are very polite but still ...

So here is the question. Should I began ignoring all emails where the person is ignoring what I seek or should I just ignore the vulgar s ... or ... just keep writing back pointing out that I am only interested in what I deribe in my profile?

Thank you in advance for your thoughts.

DDF ... what are you really trying to say?
Posted:Apr 20, 2017 9:02 pm
Last Updated:Oct 30, 2017 3:25 pm

It occurred to me that many profiles say "DDF" ... drug and disease free. So what is it that someone is trying to tell us? Does that mean that they have tested since the last time they had sex? Does it mean they have no symptoms and as far as they know they are disease free? Or are they trying to tell us that they want to go bareback? Or maybe they are saying they will only have sex with a condom?

I would be interested what you mean when you use the term "DDF" ... and please don't just repeat the meaning of the term DDF tell me why you are using it and how you know you are DDF.

WTF is going on?
Posted:Apr 18, 2017 8:14 pm
Last Updated:Mar 18, 2018 5:20 pm

Hi everyone,
I just wondered if anyone else is getting emails that sound like they originate from a mental institution. Some are just disturbing. Maybe it is the full moon or something got into the food supply. I am not sure. But I just got three emails in a row where the guy said he was stroking his little man while writing the email. WTF is going on?
Easter past
Posted:Apr 6, 2017 9:37 pm
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2017 10:42 pm

Hi everyone,
Happy Easter here in a few.

So I was thinking back to Easter 4 years ago. My BF and I suddenly realized that we were seeing family around Easter but not on Easter day itself. We decided to see if any of our friends were alone for Easter.

We actually found 6 guys who were alone and lonely and horny ... lol. We let them know it was fine to come by any time after 10 am and around 5 we would clear out the stragglers.

So anyway two things come to mind that make me smile. First the day went down as a "day of fuck" new guys showing up, some leaving most hanging around. It was a wonderful experience. The guys would be relaxing in the family room and talking then one or sometimes two would drift into the bedroom. It was delightful.

The second though was really fun. I put wishes in plastic Easter eggs and hid them. The guys did the hunt and read the wishes ... some were things they could have like a blow job and cum in my mouth ... just fun stuff. But we had a really fun guy, Marco, who was so fun at the parties and he used to turn me inside out. My bf would finally wear out and Marco would just keep going and going while my bf went upstairs and relaxed. Anyway I had an egg with a special wish ... kinda joke and kinda not ... and when Marco was not looking I sneaked it into his pile of eggs. Finally he opens the egg and it says "you lick my ass while guys take turns fucking my pussy" ... OMG ... he reads the note and this once joking around guy was at a loss for words ... all the guys were waiting for a response ... finally in a very quiet voice he say "I could kiss your bottom but lick your ass ... ummm ... ummm .... ummm". Everyone laughed long and hard ... it was so fun.

Anyway I hope you make fun Easter memories.


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