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secret_lade 47F
13414 posts
9/3/2021 3:59 am
Cardboard Castle


My apartment is full of packing boxes.

Even I'm sitting , drinking my coffee and watching the news, I see the Tilly Cat perched upon the highest stack like a mountain climber atop Mt. Everest, smug smile and her tiny little face.

Nose Hairs has been bringing boxes week aid in my moving efforts....

He had been shocked Monday when I said I was moving, I think it was the first time I've ever seen him speechless.

I wound telling him the whirlwind story of how it came be and how excited I am that I'll be living by so many lakes in such a cute little town....

And apparently he's taken it upon himself to research the area. I didn't know this until yesterday when he mentioned something about being in the country.

"I'm really not that far from everything. Heck, I'm only a half hour from Traverse City. That's even closer than Gaylord."

"Yah, I know, I was looking at the map....."

His story continued, but I was like, what the hell??

You were looking at the map?!?

I know, it's pretty apparent that he has a crush on me. But, 's the thing, the guy has a live in girlfriend.

Lots of red flags flying, my friends... I can't even see beyond the red.

And with that I'll just say.....

Happy Friday!

Sakwes77 67M
139 posts
9/16/2021 11:05 pm

I seem to think differently then most people.

I am never alarmed or offended by someones interest in me.

I guess I trust that most people are like me in that my interests don't shut down just because I or the other person is attached. Nor does interest or attraction compel me to act on that attraction or interest.

What attracts me to people has nothing to do with their availability.
I can be just as attracted to someone 10,000 miles away as someone next door.
I can be just as attracted to a married person as a single person.

Many times in my life I have felt that no one finds me, attractive or interesting. Only to find out too late that they were in fact very attracted to me.

For that reason I tell people when I find them interesting or attractive. I try to do so in a way that hopefully will not make them uncomfortable or lead them to think I am coming on to them. Because that is not my intent.

I only want people to believe in themselves. I want people to have hope.

One of the ways I do that is to do things for people. Maybe it's doing a small home repair they don't have the skills to do for themselves, or it may be helping them move something that would be hard for them to move by themselves.

I love doing things like that for my friends and family so it's a natural extension of how I communicate with people I don't know.


secret_lade 47F
8334 posts
9/4/2021 6:52 am

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    Moving is always such a pain, but kind of exciting, too.
    Maybe you can ignore some of the things Nose Hairs said and kinda pretend you never saw those red flags and the situation won't ever change beyond what it is now. Ignorance is bliss....right? If only it worked that way...
You're right, ignorance is bliss.


secret_lade 47F
8334 posts
9/4/2021 6:38 am

    Quoting CUMHANDLEME:
    Or maybe he is just a nice guy who likes you as his workplace friend.
Maybe


secret_lade 47F
8334 posts
9/4/2021 6:37 am

    Quoting Blueyedguy823:
    i'm headed to TC in 3 weeks to see friends. ummm... don't think I can help you move though. I hope it goes smoothly... and avoid those red flags!
Hopefully I've finished moving by then, so you're off the hook. LOL Have fun.


secret_lade 47F
8334 posts
9/4/2021 6:36 am

    Quoting citizen4722:
    Just make sure nose-hairs keeps well clear of your private box
LOL The private box is under lock and key right now.


secret_lade 47F
8334 posts
9/4/2021 6:35 am

It's the last name of one of the first establishing families. You see a lot of that here... Last names and Native American words.


secret_lade 47F
8334 posts
9/4/2021 6:32 am

    Quoting Weeload2:
    Towers of boxes, that's big city nights to a cat !
    Hopefully winter travel will be good back and forth

    ♫ Big city, big city nights ♫ ~ by The Scorpions

    ~Wee~

They get less snow in Bellaire, it's the Gaylord driving that worries me more and I've been doing that now for years and years. At least now I won't be trucking kids around town to separate schools. The Spawn will be riding the bus for the first time ever.


secret_lade 47F
8334 posts
9/4/2021 6:26 am

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    I have a sneaking suspicion that those feelings of unbridled lust and love that the McNoseHairs harbours for you are wholly reciprocated McLade!

    C'mon now, don't deny it.......you fancy dangling naked from those nose hairs!!

    Having said all of that, it's kinda completely understandable why he would be crushing on you, you're gorgeous! And I don't just mean to look at!!
It's true, he most closely resembles the kind of man I'm looking for. Minus the nose hairs.... But that's how it usually goes. The ones I have the most in common with are the ones who are unattainable. Better left friends.


topherific 58M  
5099 posts
9/3/2021 5:48 pm

i am of the opinion that i should be tapped to 'break-in' the new digs! i'll even bring my toothbrush


pagancountrygirl 63F
6059 posts
9/3/2021 3:05 pm

Moving is always such a pain, but kind of exciting, too.
Maybe you can ignore some of the things Nose Hairs said and kinda pretend you never saw those red flags and the situation won't ever change beyond what it is now. Ignorance is bliss....right? If only it worked that way...

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


CUMHANDLEME 59F  
780 posts
9/3/2021 2:02 pm

Or maybe he is just a nice guy who likes you as his workplace friend.

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


Blueyedguy823 55M  
960 posts
9/3/2021 12:47 pm

i'm headed to TC in 3 weeks to see friends. ummm... don't think I can help you move though. I hope it goes smoothly... and avoid those red flags!


citizen4722 63M  
73003 posts
9/3/2021 8:59 am

Just make sure nose-hairs keeps well clear of your private box


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
38490 posts
9/3/2021 7:47 am

Gaylord is an interesting place name!


Weeload2 58M
721 posts
9/3/2021 5:39 am

Towers of boxes, that's big city nights to a cat !
Hopefully winter travel will be good back and forth

♫ Big city, big city nights ♫ ~ by The Scorpions

~Wee~


𝕋𝕙𝕒𝕟𝕜𝕤 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕓𝕖𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕪𝕠𝕦


lindoboy100 58M
23882 posts
9/3/2021 5:05 am

I have a sneaking suspicion that those feelings of unbridled lust and love that the McNoseHairs harbours for you are wholly reciprocated McLade!

C'mon now, don't deny it.......you fancy dangling naked from those nose hairs!!

Having said all of that, it's kinda completely understandable why he would be crushing on you, you're gorgeous! And I don't just mean to look at!!

Pull ma finger.........


secret_lade 47F
8334 posts
9/3/2021 3:59 am

My apartment is full of packing boxes.

Even as I'm sitting here, drinking my coffee and watching the news, I see the Tilly Cat perched upon the highest stack like a mountain climber atop Mt. Everest, smug smile and her tiny little face.

Nose Hairs has been bringing me boxes all week to aid in my moving efforts....

He had been shocked on Monday when I said I was moving, I think it was the first time I've ever seen him speechless.

I wound up telling him the whirlwind story of how it all came to be and how excited I am that I'll be living by so many lakes in such a cute little town....

And apparently he's taken it upon himself to research the area. I didn't know this until yesterday when he mentioned something about being in the country.

"I'm really not that far from everything. Heck, I'm only a half hour from Traverse City. That's even closer than Gaylord."

"Yah, I know, I was looking at the map....."

His story continued, but I was like, what the hell??

You were looking at the map?!?

I know, it's pretty apparent that he has a crush on me. But, here's the thing, the guy has a live in girlfriend.

Lots of red flags flying, my friends... I can't even see beyond the red.

And with that I'll just say.....

Happy Friday!


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