"The Victim"  

scoupe42 58M   
6747 posts
8/23/2021 5:49 am

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8/23/2021 2:43 pm

"The Victim"

Not trying to be negative, when people do things they know it's wrong! But justified doing because of their needs or wants. They are bad! They are someone who lurks in the Darkness, that looks for prey or a sucker but in the end they becomes "The Victim"! Unfortunate the sucker was me! 19 years ago, I dated this lady, every time I go see her, I had to spend money for something! There wasn't a time I could visit without coming out of my pockets! So to shorten the story, she lost her place, got evicted.

Her and two teenaged , and move in with me in my one bedroom apartment. My apartment was in another town 30 minutes from where she stayed. My friends, seen her and can sense she was no good. They said, "Drew, don't be no fool! Then a few made jokes! "Drew, your a Super Hero! "When you a Super Hero, you become,"Suckerman"! Another said to me, "Drew when you put on your cape, you become, "Captain Save- A Ho"! This was funny and I even laughed.

But, I noticed she never spend money for anything. So 4 people lived in a one bedroom apartment, She said the right thing so I love for a house I can afford, she said she was going to help. So, there was an affordable house right back in her stomping grounds. I got it. That first week, she fucked like a Porn star! Soon she written a contract saying this house was hers too, she finally got me to sign it. The loan was in my name. She was supposed to help pay the bills. After several months, she wanted to get a boyfriend, fuck him on the<b> weekends </font></b>and live with me, during the week and don't give me a penny to help pay the bills!

The love affair was over! We went to court, this in the only way I can get rid of her. In Court, she talked shit about me, and she could had won an Academy Award! I look like the Villian in the script and she even had the Judge teary-eyed! I knew then I was "Fucked"! She even told the Judge, that I'm throwing her and her two out on the streets, for us being in a bad relationship and she now have a friend, and I shouldn't be Jealous, for that guy just her friend. She said, Judge I'm only taking him "$550 a month and Drew said he was going to help me. The judge gave me a mean look!

She gave the Judge a copy of the paper I signed. Lucky, there no equity in the house at that time. So I mented to him, that she paid nothing, and got me to sign the paper. The Judge said are you that stupid"? I said, Yes! He then said OK for being stupid, I'm going grant that you pay her $5000! I got screwed! I was friend with her brother. he told me stories about her, and she was a con artist. She was taking home $900 a month not $550. When she get evicted from her mobile home, they evicted her because she didn't pay rent for 11 months!

He said, "Drew, I stayed out of it, and wasn't going to get involed, but when I found out about the things she did and didn't do. I feel it was time to tell you about her! He said, "Drew, you shouldn't had sign nothing"! She took advantge of you! So after all that, I realized that I was "The Victim"!










scoupe42 58M  

8/23/2021 2:43 pm

    Quoting mufdiver69er2:
    gold diggers..oughtta be a special place in hell for em....
There should be! Thx for viewing


mufdiver69er2 61M  
1951 posts
8/23/2021 1:57 pm

gold diggers..oughtta be a special place in hell for em....

woop woop


scoupe42 58M  

8/23/2021 10:58 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    I am so sorry that happened to you my friend, shame on her for doing that to you. Your such a nice genuine concerning man and you so didn't deserve that to happen to you. I guess that is one of life's lessons you will never forget. Just remember my friend what doesn't kill us only makes us stronger.

    I hope your Monday is a great start to your week..
Hi my friend, it been a while now, but it was an expensive leson to learn! I did get stronger, and gave up the title of being a fool! You always have kind things to say, thanks!


scoupe42 58M  

8/23/2021 10:56 am

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    McScoop......hindsight is a wonderful thing.......

    I think it's easy to look back after the fact and know that you would have done things differently, but in the moment, when you were loved up and relatively happy, and you couldn't see the reality because of that.

    I reckon mistakes can be expensive in some shape or form, and to different levels of cost (not just cash), but we'd never learn anything useful if we didn't make them.

    The lady sounds like someone who sucks the life out of everything she comes into contact with.......perhaps you got off lightly, in the grand scheme of things?
So true, If she wouldn't had show her hand early, the house start making equity after the 1st year, and I get rid of her them, she would had gotten more than $5000. Thanks for viewing


scoupe42 58M  

8/23/2021 10:53 am

    Quoting author51:
    Sorry you had to learn the hard way my friend..Lesson learned in the long run, but having said that, anyone who takes advantage of another are not the type of people one should ever associate with in the first place...xoxo
My friend, Appreciate the wise words of wisdom!


scoupe42 58M  

8/23/2021 10:52 am

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    You're best well out of that situation!
One thing I learn during that time, when I look in the dictionary and look for the word "Fool", there's a mirror!


Tmptrzz 59F  
107033 posts
8/23/2021 10:20 am

I am so sorry that happened to you my friend, shame on her for doing that to you. Your such a nice genuine concerning man and you so didn't deserve that to happen to you. I guess that is one of life's lessons you will never forget. Just remember my friend what doesn't kill us only makes us stronger.

I hope your Monday is a great start to your week..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


lindoboy100 59M  
23969 posts
8/23/2021 8:18 am

McScoop......hindsight is a wonderful thing.......

I think it's easy to look back after the fact and know that you would have done things differently, but in the moment, when you were loved up and relatively happy, and you couldn't see the reality because of that.

I reckon mistakes can be expensive in some shape or form, and to different levels of cost (not just cash), but we'd never learn anything useful if we didn't make them.

The lady sounds like someone who sucks the life out of everything she comes into contact with.......perhaps you got off lightly, in the grand scheme of things?


author51 59F  
130010 posts
8/23/2021 7:37 am

Sorry you had to learn the hard way my friend..Lesson learned in the long run, but having said that, anyone who takes advantage of another are not the type of people one should ever associate with in the first place...xoxo


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41166 posts
8/23/2021 7:09 am

You're best well out of that situation!


scoupe42 58M  

8/23/2021 5:54 am

When Alice Cooper said, "No more my nice guy"! He was right!


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