"I'm not the man for the job"!  

scoupe42 58M   
6747 posts
4/9/2021 12:40 pm

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4/10/2021 6:08 am

"I'm not the man for the job"!

Over the years, I met some women that wants to be notice and be the center of attraction! There are some men too that want to be notice. There are some that want you tell them over and over how beautiful they and they expected to hear it daily. There are greedy and needy. Again, there are some men the same way.. The feel like they should be praised . I admit, when into someone. I do give them "A standing Ovation". But to them, this is not enough! They won't let you forget how great art thou.

It's hard to be with this type of person, for they brag and boost! I was once need and clingy, and the woman moved on. Lot of people think it's about "ME"., but it should be about "US".. Not me or her, but us. There are some that demands too much attention, even if you give them all you got, they going to seek for more attention! Maybe they unsure, or just insecure? But they always seeking approval. To me this is wrong!

They are self-fish, and make sure they going to be in the spotlight. They always got to get that audience. They don't want to share the spotlight, for they are the star of the show!
Don't get we wrong everyone wants want to be acknowledged, but there are some obsessed!. They want praise for everything they do, no mater how big or small. They need this to make it through the night . To me , someone like this has a big "EGO"! If they looking for a man to be with and deal with this. Pass me by! not the man for the job!!!!!!








hippiechick1967 57F  
13154 posts
4/10/2021 3:22 am

Sounds like you met a narcissist.

Elevate me...


scoupe42 replies on 4/10/2021 6:04 am:
Hi, she was a hand full! Thx for viewing

PonyGirl1965 56F  
22090 posts
4/10/2021 12:15 am

Arrogance is a huge turn off for me. I like humble people who recognize they are flawed like the rest of us.


scoupe42 replies on 4/10/2021 3:11 am:
Hi my friend, have a good weekend.

author51 59F  
130010 posts
4/9/2021 10:13 pm

I am not that woman or one for the job either my friend....xoxo


scoupe42 replies on 4/10/2021 3:10 am:
Good morning , my friend Thanks for viewing

Xena197 52F  
3 posts
4/9/2021 6:38 pm

Confidence is sexy, ego is a turn off. There has to be room enough in the relationship for two. if someone suck all your energy they are never worth it.


scoupe42 replies on 4/9/2021 7:50 pm:
Thanks for viewing and awesome feeback

Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
4/9/2021 5:58 pm

Ego is a bitch to deal with.
Fuck her and move on. ❗
Life is short; who's got time for flies? 🤔


scoupe42 replies on 4/9/2021 7:49 pm:
So true Paul! Thx

scoupe42 replies on 4/10/2021 6:06 am:
Cum to think about it, I did fuck her and moved on. JK

flannel_light 59F  
4585 posts
4/9/2021 4:04 pm

I just wish once that a man I am with would tell me that I look nice or he thinks I am sexy. I do not want to be with someone who thinks there stuff don't stink. Those kind of people tun me off. This was a good post

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


scoupe42 replies on 4/9/2021 7:49 pm:
Thx for viewing and feedback

lonlyforlove2 79M  
32704 posts
4/9/2021 2:19 pm

OH!! you found her, she is right here in blogland..

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


scoupe42 replies on 4/9/2021 3:32 pm:
Ok, I'll let that one alone, thx for viewing

Tmptrzz 59F  
107033 posts
4/9/2021 1:23 pm

Well said my friend, I totally concur with you it's about "US" not him or her. I hope your Friday is a great start to a wonderful weekend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


scoupe42 replies on 4/9/2021 3:32 pm:
Hi Temp, Thanks as always for dropping by, I wish they could be like you. A good woman.

scoupe42 58M  

4/9/2021 1:04 pm

There are some people who can be with someone with a big Ego and and attention grabber. I'm not one!


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