Can a bad person, turn out to be good? Can a person redeem themselves? Maybe, I had a uncle who was a son of a bitch. He was abusive to my aunt, wasn't a good father. On some payday he would gamble his check and lose all his money , and my aunt wouldn't see him for several day. My aunt had to pay all the bills. My aunt must have really loved this man! She had four kids with him, and never filed for divorce. She was his rock when he was down and out, she always took him back when he left, and when he was sick she nursed him back to health. There was one time he admitted that he didn't deserve such a loving woman. Years later she died, and he inherited everything she owned, two cars, a little money and a house, along with the life insurance policy. Family members was upset, and thought he shouldn't have gotten anything. Later in years, my dad died. He was a good man, good father and everyone loved him. He was 6yrs younger than my uncle. I was upset, why would God take a good man and let a horrible man remain alive? I look at life as unfair, I was hurt. But as time passed by, my uncle started to change. He gave up drinking, cussing, and started to go to church once in a while. His child, my cousin moved in with him. He tried to reach out to the other children, but my oldest cousin refused to acknowledge him. His health start to deteriorate, so my cousin was there to take care of her dad. At times, I talked to other family members and they said he did 180 degree turned. I couldn't believe it, with in a year he died. Then I thought about it, my dad was a good man, and did all he had to do so god took him, and my uncle was spared and given a chance to redeem himself. It took much longer for my uncle, compared to my dad. So the question is? Can we be redeem? Maybe if we live long enough, we can!
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Posted:Mar 21, 2014 11:45 am
Last Updated:Mar 25, 2014 4:03 pm

Be careful of what you say, It might be used against you. A man is not nothing if he don't keep his word. There are times, when we might promises, we can't keep, but don't say nothing if you don't mean it. I been around people, family member that say something and no intend on fulfilling what they say. I guess I was that way too, I meant to do what I say, but like the people I knew, I thought It wasn't a big deal. I worked at a school one time and one of the teachers was my friend. I told her I written a play and wanted to act it out to see how long the play was. I figure about an hour. She said, after school she would help he rehearse my play, and see can see how it the play was. This was a Thursday, and I told I would bring in the script tomorrow, which was Friday. Friday came, I had the script and I said to myself, I might as well leave it home, because she probably forgotten what she said, and will be too busy to help me out, no big deal. I worked started work at 3:30, school was out at 3:00. My supervisor mentioned to me that my friend was looking for me. So I walking the school before my shift and ran in to her. She said, let go rehearse the play now, I told her, I didn't bring it in, she say why? I said, I was no big deal! She was teary eyed and said, you gave your word! Wow! All that night at work, I was in a daze, and that weekend I was too. I guess, it was important, what might not be important to one person, maybe we vital to another. I was messed up and I told a friend what happen. He said, I was just a lousy play! MY WORD! He said something they make me think, "MY WORD", means a lot to her, from that day it meant a lot to me. I bought the play in the following Monday, we rehearsed it , it took about 50 min. I apologized to her that I would never stay nothing that don't plan to keep. If I promise or say anything to anybody, I would be A MAN OF "MY WORD"!!!!
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"Aint that foolish"?
Posted:Mar 21, 2014 8:58 am
Last Updated:Mar 23, 2014 8:06 am

WOW! When you in love , you make some foolish decisions. We would sign our life away if asked. The red flags are in front of us, but we too blind to see them. We would take a person who has nothing, and give them the world, knowing they could care-less about us. But hoping one day they would love us. I was in a love triangle. The woman I loved, didn't love me, and she loved a man that didn't love her. I got with a woman, that loved me, and I lost her, because I wanted the woman that didn't love me. That foolish! The woman I loved treated me bad, and was a lousy girlfriend. But the same woman gave her heart to a man who abuse her, didn't work, and didn't come home on the weekend. Talking about being a fool, we both played that part. There are many of us in love triangles. We want someone that don't want us, that's life. Because if a person know you love them unconditional, they will shit on you, hopefully not literally. You will never get their best. They will call you if they in need, and you might help out hoping they will see what you doing and fall for you. WRONG! Remember if a person love you, they won't do you wrong. I know a person who got with a person with nothing, she written out a contract, and say if you love me you would sign this, granted they came in the relationship with NOTHING. Dumb ass sign the papers, and they left with something. I hate to tell you who was dumb ass, well you know. Anyway I have a family member in the same situation, it's must be something in our blood or DNA, we know how to pick them! This family member been married 35yrs to the same woman, been miserable, his wife is mean, rude, didn't get along with his mom. His sister don't like her to this day. Everything is about her. He retired and finally left her, he moved to Va. while she stayed living in NY. He was separated and ran into a girlfriend he has over 40yrs ago. She was divorced, and she always loved him. He was dating her, and she treated him like a king! She loved him after all these year! He dated her for about 6 months, she was so happy and was hoping they would be an item again. At the time my mom was still alive, and he mentioned to her he need some to talk to, so she talked to him, and he mentioned that he was going back to his wife. My mom was shocked! She said, this is same woman how made you miserable for 35 year? And you going back? He said, yes. So he broke the woman heart who care for him for over 40yrs and went back to the one how made him miserable for 35 yrs. "AIN'T THAT FOOLISH"???????
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Posted:Mar 15, 2014 5:00 pm
Last Updated:Mar 15, 2014 5:04 pm

The most important to all of is our temple, it's not good for anything if we don't take of it. Our temple consists of three different things, our mind, body and soul. We take care of these and we would become invincible, nothing can break up down. But it's not easy to build up out temple, it don't take brick or bone, or even stick or stone, because our temple is made out of flesh. It takes hard work, the desire and drive to achieve the high archery of mastering our temple. Being lazy isn't the way, one way is to seek knowledge, reading, taking classes, anything to enhance our minds, because our mind is the main central point of our temple. The mind is a terrible thing to waste, if you don't use it, you lose it. We need our mind to accomplish our goals in life. Our body, is the second part, that give us eternal life, longevity is we take care of it. By something so simple as eating right, there are four food group, meat, vegetables, starch, and fruit. We must eat a well balance meal, cut back on sweet, and carbs, and exercise, for at least 30min at a time, the first 20min is getting your body ready and the last 10min you actually losing fat. I just getting back into the swing of things myself, I got lazy and let my temple crumble, now I got to build it back up, I use to get depress, the doctor gave me a great advice, exercise! When I do, I don't get depress and my immune system is strong and get sick hardly at all, because my body is part of my temple. This is the third vital part of our temple is our soul. The soul is spiritual part, that give life to the body and many religions believes it live forever. The immortal essence of a person, what makes up happy, what defines us. It give us the ability to feel kindness, sympathy for our fellow man or woman, and give us the passion for love. So all three is important, one can't work without the other. So if we try to go through life without maintaining all three part of our temple, we would fall apart and lose, "OUR TEMPLE".

Posted:Mar 15, 2014 11:32 am
Last Updated:Mar 15, 2014 1:58 pm

We all wonder if fairy tales, come true. They do if you believe they do. There is success in all of us, but it's up to us to be sucessful. If you want it bad enough and willing to put the fight and effort, it could happen, and in the end you can get the prize. I was content on second best or just competition, second best you would just be forgotten. Why settle for second best? In sports, the team did come in second, people could careless. Michael Jordan, the best basketball player ever! He use words, like Dominant, for the love of it, being a step above anyone else, and never give up! He won 6 tiltes in his career. Bill Gates was a self made Billionaire, he had an idea and follow it through. So can we. Don't settle, it's not feasible, and you won't be happy in the end. So, shoot for the stars. sky's the limit! That is how high we can go. I think lots of us give up, and lost opportunities for greatness, and was ok with average. We are our own worst critics, we talk ourselves out of doing what we suppose to do, I have. So, if there something we want to achieve, it can be accomplished, within in reason, I mean we might not ever walk on the moon, or find a cure for a disease. But there are things we can do, we got to dig in deep. The "Twilight" stories was written from a woman who was broke and on welfare, not she a millionaire. It could happen if you want it! What is that you want to do? Years ago a named Edward Van Halen ask him parents to buy him a guitar for Christmas. they did. They was going to get some one to show him how to play it, he said , no. I want to learn by myself and I'm going to be the best guitar player ever! Wow! Look at him now! He's in my best TOP 5 best guitar players ever! He didn't say, I wanted to be the second best guitar player ever. When we settle for second best, we all fall short, we all have talents, hell, we have some talent on this site. First, you got to find what you good at, or what you like to do, research it, find how to make your dream a reality! Chase it, find it, make it happen.... and "NEVER GIVE UP!
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"This must be heaven"
Posted:Mar 9, 2014 4:38 pm
Last Updated:Mar 15, 2014 12:14 pm

Just imagine the face you see in the morning is that person that give you your energy to start your day, with this person you can overcome anything. This must be heaven? You can lend back and they would never let you fall. This must be heaven? You don't have any worries, because this person got your back. This must be heaven? You not second fiddle to anyone, she can hang out with her friends and you can hang out with your, neither one have to be threaten by someone taking the other from them, why mess with trash when you got a treasure at home?
This must be heaven? they on your mind constantly, and you can't wait to see them. This must be heaven? You never put them in harms way, you there and would fight for their honor. You both can tell each other the "L" word without them asking you to say it. If two people together have all of this...."This is Heaven".
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Posted:Mar 9, 2014 4:14 pm
Last Updated:Mar 15, 2014 8:39 pm

All of us write, whether we write a school paper, love letter or blogs. Believe it or not, writing was around before Christ. There have been finding that the cavemen express themselves through carvings and marking on the cave walls. There is a difference between a writer and a poet. When a write writes, it's nice. But when a poet writes, you can understand his or her journey, you can see what they are thinking. You kick back and enjoy their escapades and be mesmerized by their words, and want more! This verse from a song, the song was sung by Teddy Pendergrass, the song is "You can't hide from yourself". The verse goes, "The truth is the light that shine from within, when you look in the mirror, do you see a foe or a friend? Wow! The Commodores written a song called, "High on sunshine" The verse goes, "I don't need no doctor to give me my peace of mind, I'm free and easy, because I'm high on sunshine". I love that! Being high on life! Don't need medication, alcohol, drugs. Strong words. Plato and Aristotle was kind of the pioneers of poetry, writings. They wrote things that still have value in todays worlds. They were BC, before Christ, that long ago.

Plato (427BC -347BC)wrote
" A good decision is based on knowledge and not on numbers".
"Poetry is nearer to vital truth than history".

Aristotle (348-322BC)wrote
"Friendship is a single soul dwelling in two bodies".
"Poetry is finer and more philosophical that history; for poetry expresses the universal, and history only on the particular.

This tell us how long writing exist. It's a good way to meet people, and even thought this is sex site, There are lots of Poets on this site, keep up the good work.
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Posted:Mar 7, 2014 7:04 am
Last Updated:Mar 14, 2014 3:37 pm

What I represent, represents me. Sometimes what you say, says a lot about you. If you say a lot of negative things, you would have the image of being pessimistic. There are always a way to put words. Years ago, I worked in an area that got shut down, I was placed in a new job, that I had to bump a guy to get the job, I was treated bad, which I knew why. I was taking a friend's job, I was the enemy, I called my work place a "hostile environment". A friend told me, that not a good way to put it, why don't I just say I'm in a bad situation. I didn't realized how negative it sound. She was right, I would never used words, like hate, or dislike. I would never try to judge people or say a bad thing about a person. I'm not god, like the say in the bible, "let them without sin throw the first stone". I would have had many bruises from all the stones. I admit, I'm not perfect and have many flaws. One day at work, I left my area and went to my old area, I overheard a supervisor and a manager talking about me, they said some good things about me. They said, they was impress with my character! WOW!, I got goose bumps. Several years later my dad passed, and I left the state to attend the funeral. You would have thought JFK, or Martin Luther King died that day. The funeral was held in a huge church, every seat filled, and standing room only, so many people, people was in the lobby. People I never met, was telling me how such a good man my dad was, and how he made a difference in their lives. I was proud to be his . I realized that day, I wanted to carry on his legacy. It's take a hell of a person to do something for others without a gain, and by just doing it out the kindness of their heart. Some people feel if there's no benefit , why bother. If I go on a date, no pressure on her, if it's just going to be a friendship, so be it. That's a good thing too. I would never try to slander a person, or force a person to do something they don't want, or use a person for self gain. I would never benefit from someone else's mistake. If I do any of this, to anyone, "IT WOULD BE DEFAMATION OF CHARACTER"!
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Posted:Mar 2, 2014 3:31 pm
Last Updated:Mar 16, 2014 9:28 am

I written this poem years ago, it was about how much my dad loved my mom. She did some things that most men would have left, but he hung in there. But she did some good things for him as well. So, I written this after his death.

I want you, no matter what! I don't care what going on in your life or your world. I want you. Don't push me out and let another take my place. You won the lottery when you got me! No man could love a woman as much as I love you. If there a time your health start to deteriorate, or you lose your site, or the doctor say you got cancer and only a month to live. Have no fear! I'm here for you, no matter what. I chose to spend the rest of my life with you, I don't want nobody else. I know there are times when I can be a pain and annoying. You stuck by me and made me the man that I am. I will forever be in your debt. I'm so glad we are on the same team, I remember when we both was ready to give up., we hung in there and got stronger. I'm here for you and never leave your side. As long as I'm not only your number one, but your only one, I'm here for you. I promise from this day forward till death do us part, I will be your Knight in shining armor, best friend and always pick you up. Even in my death, I would never left you fall. "NO MATTER WHAT"!!!
"Say the magic words"
Posted:Feb 23, 2014 10:24 pm
Last Updated:Mar 9, 2014 12:04 pm

There are three words, more powerful that Superman, and more incredible than the Hulk! Relationship ends because the people in relationship lack saying these "three words". Men will show weakness when they hear their lady say these "three words". A women would give you the best loving you ever have, that right, if you say, these "three word". Years ago, I had a bad day and felt like a failure, and my lady at the time said the "three words" and I was Invincible! WOW! These "three words" are Phenomenal. How would think just three little words can change a person way of thinking. They are words that we want to hear everyday, even a baby know who important these word are. These three words give the elderly reason to keep on living. Back in the bible, Delilah said these three words to Sampson and he exposed his weakness to her. What the hell did she say???? Well you should know the three words by now. Just think, these words make a weak man strong, words a baby can understand, and give the elderly a reason to live. Give up? The most important words in any relationship! The three words are...drum roll please. The three words is "I love you" try it on someone and watch the magic, but it only work if you mean it!
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'No news is good new"
Posted:Feb 23, 2014 8:08 pm
Last Updated:Feb 23, 2014 9:29 pm

The are millions of people that love the national inquirer, and other gossip magazines. It's a billion dollar operation. When we turn on the television, we hear about something bad that happens, or what some actor or actress is doing in their lives, we complain about the president, the democrats and republicans. But we love this! It give us something to talk about, there are many of us that can't say a kind word, or a kind thing about anything or anyone. But if a person doe's a humanitarian thing, help people in need, do something that make someone else's life better, we could careless. There's no interest in something positive. Something, like how to invest your money in the right stock, something informative, educational, something that might help up live longer, who care? It's not new unless it's negative. We have scientists,engineers,creating thing that could brighten our future, but people want to here about movie stars, how many points Le bron score last night, why ARod is suspended from baseball. I was watching the news, and a new flash came up, and they mention something about a college football player, it information that I felt that wasn't important, that player is his own man, and what he doe's don't affect me. But the student that has a 4.0 gpa and going places, would never be mentioned. What's important, I want to hear something good once in a while, but that not news. They did a show here in Albuquerque NM, called Breaking bad, got cancel, but don't get me wrong, it was a good show. But they showed the bad part of Albuquerque, there are bad parts in any city, so if you focus on the bad, people going to think the whole city is bad. I know bad things happen and the news must be reported, don't get me wrong I understand, what I'm say is show the good news too, there got to be some good new! But when it come down to it people like the new, but when it comes down to it, "No news is good news".
"What are you looking for"?
Posted:Feb 15, 2014 2:02 pm
Last Updated:Oct 10, 2020 4:48 pm

What are we looking for? Do we want sex? We on a sex site. Or do we want love? Maybe we on the wrong site? Maybe we should be on match.com or E-hominy. Can we find sex and love on here? Maybe. When it come down to it, we, whether man or a woman, we want what we want! Someone we attractive to, and someone we feel we can connect with. It don't matter what site we on. If a person attractive to a person they have all the time in the world for them, but if they not attractive to them, they always busy have excuses for not meeting them. Also, if they not attractive they look for flaws and reason not to talk to them, not to mentioned not meeting them. That person wouldn't be giving a chance, you never know, that person might be the person that suppose to be in our lives. You know, "Beauty is only skin deep. We live in a society of looks, not personality, or character. So, do we find that person we into, maybe, then they might not be into us? But we search high and low, for that person we attractive to and we feel that the person for us. we don't give anyone else a chance. So we chat with someone, and have a good connection and establish a good friendship. Now the hard part happen they want to meet! Remember this person suppose to be your friend! But, we not attractive to them. So, all of a sudden we busy and don't have the time to meet them. So we tell them, I don't think we a good match, and they say why, and "What are you looking for""??? We tell them................

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