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Posted:Jan 16, 2022 9:12 pm
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2022 3:13 pm

No this isn't about bdsm....well maybe it is. I don't hide the fact that I am married. My wife is a beautiful woman. There are a few things that sometimes bug me...but I am an understanding man and I just let it roll and not let it get under my skin. But she does get under my skin...she is a bit older , and here is the problem. She has given up on our sex life...and not from a lack of trying on my part trying to keep it from dying all together. It just isn't working and she isn't trying. I have had an affair a few yes ago when I couldn't take it any longer. I was seeing another married woman at the time and we really clicked, it was so hot and awesome. It went on for 2yrs. At the time she wasn't looking to change her situation, and I wasn't looking to change mine. It worked well and we managed to hook up a couple times a week. Long story short, my lover got a divorce then I couldn't be there enough for her, so she started dating and seeing other men, which I was a bit hurt about it, but shrugged it off. She wanted me to leave my wife, but I would mean a drastic change in my lifestyle that I didn't think I could live with. So we parted ways...on good terms. I still run into her now and then and she seems happy for the most part ,but she told me she misses our hot rendezvous. We even were going to hookup for old times sake, but she backed out, cold feet. I was good with it. I went to a therapist after we parted ways, I was going crazy. My wife found out I went to the therapist and she decided to have a sexual awakening, she was really coming around. I told her I was thinking about leaving her, and I did come very close to it. Well things started getting hot again with my wife, we were dating and having a decent amount of sex and it was like wow, fun. And exciting. Fast forward a few yes, and now it is non existent . We are both older obviously, but my drive hasn't diminished and her fire is completely out. So here I am , looking for a lover. I am not finding what I am looking for even though there "appears " to be a handful of women that I find attractive. So, I am tormented by a beautiful wife that I can't have...but I do have her by my side. Most people say I am lucky, and I am the asshole for trying to cheat. I been wanting to have the conversation with her about an open marriage, but I don't think she would take it well......looking for to approach the subject. I am open to hear what other people say. I hope to receive a few comments.
Inquiring minds
Posted:Dec 29, 2021 8:46 pm
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2022 4:11 am

A friend of mine wants know...Is anyone meeting and hooking up? Or are most spooked by the Wuhan flu? My friend wants go back 2014.
"We'll leave the light on for you"
Posted:Nov 12, 2021 11:35 pm
Last Updated:Jan 15, 2022 1:33 am

When I was first married, after the honeymoon, my wife would give grief when I wanted to play at night. Well, she said she sometimes felt like having a rendezvous in the middle of the day when I would be busy outside. I told her if she was ever in the mood to turn on the back porch light on....well....I watched for that light to be on. It took a week or Saturday I seen it on at 3 in the afternoon. I RAN to the house and took a shower....jumped in bed....she came in and said..."What in the H... are you doing? " I said the porch light is on and I am ready to play. She laughed and shook her head....turned it on by goes the story of my life.
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Posted:Oct 9, 2021 4:02 pm
Last Updated:Nov 28, 2021 6:30 am

Do you women like seduce a man? I heard a song on the radio today. Basically the content of the lyrics had something to do with married people hooking up on the dl. Secretly liking each other, then finding out they both wanted each other. Hot secrets. "She didn't say yes, but she didn't say no.".....
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Posted:Jul 8, 2021 5:48 pm
Last Updated:Sep 11, 2021 2:14 pm

I been browsing here for a long time hoping that I may find someone on the same page as myself. I would think it would be hot to find a woman on here that has secrets just like me and we could hit it off and make our own secrets together. Just not finding that here. I am going to keep looking........
Mature people
Posted:Jun 13, 2021 11:04 am
Last Updated:Jan 16, 2022 7:03 am
555 Views I am thinking that being as i am in my mid 50s that maybe there is a stigma that us men of this age group are no longer functional....that is not the case. Maybe some of the women in this age range have a stigma that they have to deal with?
I prefer women within yes either way of my age range. I think by now most people have things figured out and have a Lot fewer hangups. It is a good age to be in my opinion. Anyone have any thoughts or experiences of people our age?
What to think
Posted:Jun 9, 2021 8:03 pm
Last Updated:Dec 4, 2021 12:25 pm

I am not sure what think of this site. Called heated affairs....well, not too many are friendly to us married people. We all have reasons for being here, Some women on here are vindictive as out...geez I am just here to chat and see what may happen,but I am not holding my breath.
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