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Posted:Nov 3, 2016 11:08 pm
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2020 10:11 am

I have been struggling with this for a couple of years now. I have now reached a point where I can no longer do this. It has become a thankless time eating chore.

So before I explain why, I need to thank 3 people who have helped me over the years. First a huge thanks to our former group Hosts clydecouple2 or as many know them as Bill and June. Guys you have helped set up, been there for advice and a listening post all these years. I feel as if I have let you down for doing this. Next and just as important was slow_n_easy007. She helped me with finding guys and running the parties. Thank you for helping with clean up and set up.

I have been asked by a couple of people what happened? I honestly can not say, but the end result is a lack of people attending. I can stab some guesses as to why. Its not a Hotel party, I charge everyone, My home is old and the stairs suck going upstairs. My house is not nice enough for folks. Lack of big TV. No music, not wild enough. Lack of Gold membership.

Over the years I have been told by most everyone how much they enjoyed the party and they can not wait for the next one. Then with that they pretty much disappear never to be heard from again. I have screened people to keep out the riff raff. This takes time. A lot of time. I hear all the time how I need to do more parties. Every month at least. So early in the start up of this I tried to fill in with smaller parties. And people stopped attending. Flash forward to the last few months where every month has had something going on. The result ,,, the same, people stop attending. This time I barely had 5 guys.

As your Host I always do not get to play. Nor do I always have the time to set and wait for a space. There are times when if you want a bonfire, I have to set out there and light the fire and watch it through the evening, Yes for the first couple hours of the party I was on my phone a lot. This seemed to have rubbed some people the wrong way. Well I was on it directing others to the party, taking calls about being late and of course the I can't show up calls. I thought hosting would open doors for me. However it seems to have closed doors for me. I know of several events that happened and no invite was extended. Or in one case an invite was extended then the info was never sent along. I have had one couple, time4fun662 that has ever invited me to anything. On a side note this couple and clydecouple2 are the only ones where the ladies ever gave me a huge thank you hug and kiss at the end of the night. Thank you Ladies!

So where does this bring us to for the here and now? Good question and one to be honest I am not sure of. I hope that perhaps people will use the group site for events or meeting local people. There may be some gangbangs from time to time. I have a large project in the house coming up. If I get this done and depending on how things go, I may have a party in the summer. No promises. What I would do is turn the group over to someone else. What ever I am doing is not working. So if someone else wishes to step up let me know. I have asked for ideas and suggestions on this blog and all I get is more silence each time. I just can not go on like this.

To all that attended over the years, my honest thanks for attending. To my regulars, I am sorry I let you down. I had hoped for more.

Private Message
Posted:Jul 9, 2015 5:21 am
Last Updated:Aug 23, 2021 7:10 am

This post has been set to private. Only the host can see your message. Have a question or need to contact us then leave it here. You can leave party info here also.
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Who we are and the rules, Please read
Posted:Jul 7, 2015 8:05 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2019 6:56 am

We are a no drama group that meets a few times a year. We are older, most of our couples are in their 40's. We accept couples, females and males. We have a no pressure to play policy, this means you can show up and not have to play.

Our parties have been so far at private homes. Since you are coming into someones home expect to be screened.

The old rules

1 No means NO

2 Respect others

3 no drugs, this covers pot also. Drinking in moderation is ok.

The NEW rules
1 If you desire to attend you will send the host a face picture, phone number and a non Heated Affairs way to contact you.

2 Three strikes and you are out rule. If you break one of the old rules that is a strike against you. 3 times you are out. For those that cancel with out a good excuse within 24 hours of the party this is considered 1 strike. If you are a no call no show that is 2 strikes against you. If you are a day of the party request/invite and you no call no show that is 3 strikes and you will be blocked.

3 If you sign up as a couple and your partner backs out then you are now a single. Single females we always have a spot for. Let us know so that we may invite another male. For men you will go on the single male list. You may no longer be invited because we may have all the men we need. You will go on a back up list. IF YOU SHOW UP AT THE PARTY WITHOUT LETTING US KNOW BEFORE THE PARTY,YOU WILL BE TURNED AWAY and this will be 2 strikes against you.
Looking at the parties and learning something
Posted:Nov 8, 2015 7:32 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2015 9:48 am

So why do we leave the party postings up from past parties? I have been asked this recently. Well they are left up for others to learn from. I will not make comments about those that show. People who show up once may not like our parties and decided not to attend more. Sometimes someone will not be a fit or act strangely and not be invited back. Where the real education comes from are those that are listed as no call, no shows. These are people that often times have begged to attend, then just never show up. Beware of these fakes. If they do not show at a party, will they show up for you? Answer is probably not. Those listed as a cancellation have called and said they could not make it.
Well we are on a holding pattern.
Posted:Sep 6, 2021 10:51 pm
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2021 10:08 pm

Looks like this covid just keeps hanging on. So we all are just waiting for it to end.
Could this be the light at the end of the tunnel??
Posted:Aug 23, 2021 7:20 am
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2021 10:08 pm

So in the last few months I have seen a trend. The return of action pictures, bj's, pussy licking and screwing. Is this the light at the end of the covid tunnel? I do not think that everyone is ready to get back to "normal", but some are. The question will remain, what will be the new normal? Hard to say yet.

Question, are you back to playing yet? What are you doing different now than pre-covid?
Covid question
Posted:Apr 25, 2021 11:46 pm
Last Updated:Jun 15, 2021 3:07 pm

So asking here

If you have had the shot or shots, are you only willing to play with others that have had the vaccine also? How do you feel about playing with others that have had covid already?

Those of you that have already had covid what are you looking for to be able to play?

To those who have not taken the vaccination or been sick ( to the best of your knowledge) what are you looking for to be able to play?

I am not just looking to see how others feel at present.
April meeting
Posted:Feb 1, 2021 10:59 pm
Last Updated:May 31, 2021 9:50 pm

Have a woman in her 40's looking at coming Toledo in April. No date yet, but she is looking for some fun. Men, women and couples. You must be clean and able to perform. Interested? go up to the private section and ask for more info.
So Covid update
Posted:Jan 6, 2021 12:51 am
Last Updated:Apr 15, 2021 11:06 pm

Well the first shots are rolling out. How do you feel about this? I have heard that many Medical providers in places are not taking the shots. Polls are showing that many are waiting to take the shots until they see what side effects may occur.

Are you waiting? Are you ready to get in line? Are you going to refuse?

At present I am just working on the house and waiting to see what happens.
Well lets get frank here.
Posted:Dec 3, 2020 2:11 pm
Last Updated:Feb 9, 2021 11:41 pm

So the Host of this group had just finished his time in hell, aka covid-19. I have done it and its no fun! So getting back on my feet in the past two days has allowed me time to look around and collect info.

So I have asked, when are you going to swing again? What do you need to see to feel safe? I have gotten few replies, which I think from the way things are going, turmoil, Numbers going up down and around, is not surprising in many ways.

So we know this travels from, sneezing, sperm and kissing. So there is two fun things off the board! We know that there is a period of several days where people are sick but do not show it. Durning this period they can infect others.

At this point many are talking about "THE CURE". More like the vaccine. So we now have one or two vaccines coming out. These are a 2 part vaccine. There is an A shot followed up by an B about 28 days later. It will take months just to get started with this to even make a dent. Right now people following this has said that even with good numbers of people being vaccinated, we may not see much change until winter of 2021 or more likely 2022.

So in my mind this just changed everything. I can not see this group doing anything until we get some of the risks out of the way. I may be dieing to have some play, but it no need to die over it.

Here are my feelings. We can build this group as we wait. Know others that would be interested, invite them. We explore what we want to do and make some plans. We stay healthy and ready to play.
A thought
Posted:Oct 23, 2020 9:21 pm
Last Updated:Mar 3, 2021 9:33 pm

So at one time there was a day party hosted for older people. Is there interest in something like this again. In the end I think they had a hard time getting woman. What type of cut off age would you like see? What times work best for you?

I hope I get some replies this, as it might be fun.
Soo here is my call
Posted:Sep 2, 2020 2:21 pm
Last Updated:Oct 23, 2020 9:17 pm

Well I have asked and not gotten, much response back on meeting. So in the last couple of weeks I have been reading thumbnail profiles of couples and woman. So it seems that most people appear still be waiting out this covid-19. A few are playing, one profile said you can kiss her thru your mask. Lol wonder how eating her out works thru a mask?

It appears from research that most folks appear, still be waiting or taking very small steps. So As it stands right now I doubt there will be any party until next year. I do this not lightly but in the end I have a duty provide as safe place as I can.

So you may ask what now? Great question there are things you can do. Single men, if you are active on the group and blog you stand a better chance of getting an invite. Also if you have a female attend with this jumps your chances a lot. Single Ladies, this is a great time ask the questions you need attend. I know that if you talk others that have attended you will hear that there are rules and the parties are a safe space for you.
Couples ask away with any questions you may have. For newbies you may have lifestyle questions about doing this. Please ask if I can not answer those questions I have a couple that most likely can.

FOR MALE, FEMALE AND COUPLES! Please read this. New people that have not attended our parties in the past, in order attend you will have meet or talk over the phone. This means you will have supply your phone number. The safest way do this is, go top of this blog to the post that says private. You may leave anything you wish and only I can see it and respond it. When we meet or , please ask questions you have. I will also require a picture of you if you plan attend. As lovely as some of your body parts are vag, boob and dick pics are not accepted. This is for my use. You are coming into my Home, so I want people that are respectful and I know who you are. If you plan to refuse or come with some reason not to provide a face picture then save your time and mine by not responding at .
To the area Gold members, a question...
Posted:Aug 25, 2020 7:00 pm
Last Updated:May 17, 2021 12:17 pm

So the group is standard, which means that when you gold members send us messages or try to IM us we can not respond. So my questions is why are you trying to email us?

Is this because

A I really had no idea, the site never really told me

B it makes no difference I never read anything I send messages all the time to everyone.

C I do it because I think you want me so bad you will pony up the money to meet me.

D What I am suppose to be paying attention?

E I can not understand how to contact folks thru their blog

F Other, please explain

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