Triple P week!  

partygald 39F
3113 posts
6/7/2018 8:28 pm

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6/9/2018 3:01 am

Triple P week!


That’s problems...with a kapital P!

Oey....what a rough week. Am I being the eternal pessimist by saying I kinda expected this due to all the fun I’ve had the past few weeks? Urgh.

A Friend of mine visited me earlier this week. She and her Husband are kinda new to the lifestyle. Not Super new, about a year plus in, but I suppose still relatively new. I met them last year when they both were in Bali for a holiday. A mutual Friend set us up. I had planned to only meet them for drinks and chat a little bit we hit it off and had a very good time. They’re older, and quite a fit couple, and I rarely meet other couple from Singapore so, it was fun. Anyhow, she found out her Husband has been cheating on her for the past few months and she fly down to kinda take time away from him. Personally, I don’t get it - why fuck around behind your spouses’ back when you have permission to fuck around? 😑. Then again, I don’t know his side of the story so I’ll try to remain impartial. Try to😝

She came by looking for an ear to unload on. It was really nice to see her. I didn’t realise how much I actually miss female company like that. Ok, I’ll admit. I miss some good ol girl-on-girl action😝. It HAS been a loong while and I AM attracted to her, and yes yes, I DID think about it. But!! I didn’t act on it coz it would have been severely inappropriate. She was clearly upset. But I’m just saying...under different circumstances, I’d have smashed that cute, petite, fit lil booty🤣

But anyhow, she was only here for a day and a night, and I spent a lotta time just listening and trying to console her, and have Long discussions about love, commitment, honesty in and around relationships in the lifestyle, and in general I suppose. Cos really, it’s the same. Lifestyle or not. It was also a little hard for me cos the Husband and I aren’t exactly speaking. Again. For the week, at least. Speaking of which...

The issue with the Husband (mine) is...ok, let’s start at the top. We have to move. We’re being evicted. The landlord has decided to recede on our agreement and has asked us to move. No idea what she wants to do with her property but either way, we have a few weeks to move. I’d insist on whipping out our contract and kicking up a fuss but I was advised by friends who have lived here for eons that it’s be a waste of time and resources. Bali law, I’ve come to call it. Also, there was a clause in the contract, apparently, that notice can be given by landlord for eviction. Timeline for that is two weeks. It was a big hoohaa but we’ve had that extended til end of the month, but either way, we’re moving.

How is this related to the Husband and I not talking? Well cos I blame him for this. Right in the beginning, he wanted to take up the responsibility, so he did. And now, cos of not reading the fine print, we’re literally getting fucked outta a place to stay. To make matters worse, this fucker is off on a biz trip and won’t be back til the end of next week before flying off again shortly after, which leaves me the one having to handle this epic bullshit. Oh, we’re not done yet. To kick things up the royally-screwed scale, he’s being accompanied on his current trip by his on-again/off-again Girlfriend. I know who she is and we’ve met a few times but never physically interacted. But she’s not the issue here. Me knowing that he’s having a jolly good time having his brains sucked out his dick WHILE I’m having to deal with this IS the problem 😬

So yes! I’m pissed and we’re not talking😑
But back to that Friend of mine. I’m not sure I’ve consoled her much but she left and aside from a brief text here and there, I haven’t heard from her on what’s happening.

Lastly, aaaaand this one is tricky. Another Friend of mine is dealing with pictures of her circling online. Yes, those kinda pictures. Her ’s 19, and apparently, has taken some....ok, a fair bit of pictures with two of her ex boyfriends. And said ex-boyfriends have circled them online. 🤷🏻‍♀️
Kinda makes me all paranoid with the pictures in the husband’s AND the boyfriend’s phones 😳. I’m not even gonna pretend to know how to deal with that so, I’ll leave this post as is, while I continue to fight fire here AND stay angry at the husband😑

Hope your Friday is going well. At the very least, the weekend is here 😎

partygald 39F
1963 posts
6/7/2018 8:32 pm

Strange how Notorious BIG is in my head dining about “mo money mo problems”. I don’t have “mo money”, still I have more problems. Well fuck you Biggie! 🤪


ClitLickB4DickU 63M  
1392 posts
6/7/2018 8:39 pm

Sorry to hear that you are not enjoying having having Multiple P

It must be particularly galling that your hubby has left you to find a new home and move, while he gets Sucked and Fucked in comfortable Hotels on his business trip. I hope he was at least a little sympathetic about the timing ?

I myself am in Singapore. Arrived from Australia yesterday with a streaming cold, the girl i had arranged to meet for an evenings Pounding failed to turn up, heavy rain this morning so couldn't get out for a decent cup of coffee. But small change compared your issues.

Take Care, Best of luck with the move, I hope your weekend is better


partygald 39F
1963 posts
6/7/2018 8:54 pm

    Quoting ClitLickB4DickU:
    Sorry to hear that you are not enjoying having having Multiple P

    It must be particularly galling that your hubby has left you to find a new home and move, while he gets Sucked and Fucked in comfortable Hotels on his business trip. I hope he was at least a little sympathetic about the timing ?

    I myself am in Singapore. Arrived from Australia yesterday with a streaming cold, the girl i had arranged to meet for an evenings Pounding failed to turn up, heavy rain this morning so couldn't get out for a decent cup of coffee. But small change compared your issues.

    Take Care, Best of luck with the move, I hope your weekend is better
Whoa! That was quick! Heheh..
Thank you, for the kind wishes AND for stopping by. Catching a cold in Singapore is a bitch, nose runny in that kinda humidity. Get well soon, and hope your flaky meet up gets...well, less flaky and more real😣

Have a good weekend too!


gt4fun1000 62M
26 posts
6/7/2018 10:07 pm

hi


proteus_2a 56M
7979 posts
6/7/2018 10:36 pm

A full plate indeed my lady ...

Deep breaths, and you will weather the tricky seas
And of course, you'll get your own back from the absentee hubby
- I'm sure

Cheers - P


ahrnycumtoy 48M
15780 posts
6/7/2018 10:47 pm

no blame no talk no solution


discreteSteve62 49M  
2169 posts
6/8/2018 12:06 am

Sorry to hear about all the problems. Is it likely to be difficult to find new housing there?

The moving will be a drag too; I really dislike moving. (So why did I move so many times between 2009 and 2011 only to end up in the same old house?) Is it expensive to hire a moving company? Or if not a company, can you trust that if you just hire laborers, they're not going to steal your stuff?


MyBaffies 52M
4983 posts
6/8/2018 1:35 am

Are you going to be in charge of finding new accommodation while husband is away? If so you'll be able to get what you want and he'll just have to live with it.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


partygald 39F
1963 posts
6/8/2018 2:55 am

    Quoting proteus_2a:
    A full plate indeed my lady ...

    Deep breaths, and you will weather the tricky seas
    And of course, you'll get your own back from the absentee hubby
    - I'm sure

    Cheers - P
Thanks. One certainly hopes so 😑


partygald 39F
1963 posts
6/8/2018 2:57 am

Uhh....yeaaah. Sure. I kinda geddit. Exactly! 😎


partygald 39F
1963 posts
6/8/2018 3:00 am

    Quoting discreteSteve62:
    Sorry to hear about all the problems. Is it likely to be difficult to find new housing there?

    The moving will be a drag too; I really dislike moving. (So why did I move so many times between 2009 and 2011 only to end up in the same old house?) Is it expensive to hire a moving company? Or if not a company, can you trust that if you just hire laborers, they're not going to steal your stuff?
Thank you.
Finding a place probably wouldn’t be a big issue. Finding a place I’ll like for the duration that we need probably will be. I’ll also probably get a few guys to help with the lifting, but packing AND unpacking is the real bitch😣
Either way, I’ll try to update.

Thanks for stopping by, and have a good weekend 😊


partygald 39F
1963 posts
6/8/2018 3:01 am

    Quoting MyBaffies:
    Are you going to be in charge of finding new accommodation while husband is away? If so you'll be able to get what you want and he'll just have to live with it.
So far, that’s the idea 😉


akaisamurai 40M
30 posts
6/8/2018 7:07 am

For some reasons, even as the years go by, it is always nice to hear what is happening in your happening life, the ups and downs and so on.

Hope in the game of life, you will have more luck than the otherwise since we can't avoid fate and of course find a better home than your current place you have to move out of. Maybe it will be a blessing in disguise.

Cheers and Gambatte ne.


unknown170 43M
50 posts
6/8/2018 11:37 am

I do recall you got a young hung bf right? call him up for help if i were you


partygald 39F
1963 posts
6/9/2018 2:57 am

    Quoting akaisamurai:
    For some reasons, even as the years go by, it is always nice to hear what is happening in your happening life, the ups and downs and so on.

    Hope in the game of life, you will have more luck than the otherwise since we can't avoid fate and of course find a better home than your current place you have to move out of. Maybe it will be a blessing in disguise.

    Cheers and Gambatte ne.
Thanks! For stopping by and for the kind words 😊


partygald 39F
1963 posts
6/9/2018 3:01 am

    Quoting unknown170:
    I do recall you got a young hung bf right? call him up for help if i were you
Young, yeah.
Hung, he’s okaay. Of average length, nice enough girth 😉
All him up to help? He’s in China, but mostly based in HK, so....not gonna be much help from him. Is it just me or are the boys in my life not really useful here 😝. LOL!
Thanks for stopping by


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