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Posted:Oct 10, 2020 11:47 am
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2022 3:20 pm
I am real, the posted age is correct, all pictures/videos have been taken since I joined Heated Affairs in December 2017.

If you see on line IM , if not email and I will respond although I do reserve the right to ignore any that I consider inappropriate

Just to note, (1) I am currently married, (2) I have been married 3 times for a cumulative total of 48 of my 73 years. So, as plain as I can state it - I am NOT looking for my next spouse/partner/significant other or any other long term serious committed relationship. I am interested in on-going relationships, extended friendships.

I am looking for plain friends. Friends can live anywhere in the world if all we are going to do is exchange messages, stories, fantasies, etc. We do not have to ever meet and friendships can last as long as we want them to. If you are close enough we can even meet for lunch/dinner/whatever, and never cross the "sexual" line.

I am also interested in FWB's and/or playmates. Right now my play time is limited so if I tell you am not available, I am not available and I will tell you when I am. If you can't accept that then there is a really good chance that I simply won't ever be available to you. Also, proximity is paramount. I have enough offers, especially from guys that neither one of us will have to travel as much as an hour to get together.

I would also like you to be reasonably close to my age since in my experience I just don't have enough commonality with people who are significantly younger than me. Defining significantly younger is somewhat difficult. If you are a woman looking for a "one night stand" with an old fogy, then age isn't all that important. If you are a guy, well, I remember me when I was in my early to mid 50's and younger, and I don't want to spend much time with that me or anyone like that me. So, guys, if you are 50+ then we can talk - if you are still in your 40's or younger then you are probably better off chasing someone else.
My Ideal Person Open minded, adventuresome, communicative - tell me what you like, what you don't like. It is OK to ask for just about anything but no means no both ways. You may think something is weird or kinky but we all have different definitions of weird and kinky. So, if you can think it up, let's talk about it. And I am not opposed to just plain friends.

I AM FLATTERED BY ALL OF THE "ATTENTION" FROM THE YOUNGSTERS (ESPECIALLY 20 SOMETHING'S) ON HERE, But I am not interested in traveling hours, or days to get/give head or get laid. If you are ever in, or going to be in the Virginia mountains, reach out and I will see if I am available

While I do admit to being bi, I am not a top or a bottom.

I won't promise that I won't break some of these guidelines, but it will be more of an exception than routine



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Came across this today
Posted:Feb 10, 2022 6:02 am
Last Updated:Feb 10, 2022 6:03 am
Thought I'd share
Pet Peeves
Posted:Dec 14, 2020 2:14 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2022 10:38 pm

Pet peeves
I know that standard members are limited as to what they can see and read in another members profile so I understand when I get a flirt or a hotlist or a message from you even if we don’t have much in common. I view I am sure I have viewed some profiles that had no interest in me – if you are one of those people, I apologize – it’s just that your picture popped up on one of my searches or my homepage and the info if the thumbnail intrigued me. If you only show up once or twice I will probably assume you checked me for the same reason I check lots of profiles but realize there is nothing there to follow up on. No harm, no foul, have a great day.

Now. If you reach out to me in any way, shape, or form and when I check your profile (and I always check profiles) and it is turned off I probably won’t ever respond to you. This applies to Gold and standard members.
Also, if you reach out and there is very little information in you status, about you, your ideal person, in the question and answers, kinks, personal information, well, I have no idea if I’d like to interact with you or not. This also applies to Gold and standard members.
Next. Men who list their orientation as straight and are looking for women, 2 women – no mention of men, and with a compatibility score usually around 60 or lower. Hitting on me. I did have one gentleman with a profile fitting this description but when he emailed me he did admit that he had some “feelings” for men and asked if I would talk to him. I did. Don’t know if he ever followed up on those feelings or not but he was interesting to chat wit. If you fit this description you are at least bi-curious – own it! If you can’t be honest about your sexual orientation on this site, what else are you willing to lie about? Again, applicable to Gold and standard members.
The next couple of peeves are pertinent to Gold members – standard members may not be able to view the specific information in my profile due to their status.
My profile does acknowledge that I am bi but it also notes that I am not a top or a bottom (more on this in another blog). Yet I get queries as to whether I am a top or a bottom – not sure if you didn’t take the time to read my profile or if you just didn’t comprehend what I was saying.
The other issue is someone looking for their life partner, their significant other, the father of their . My profile does state that I will be 74 on January 11, 2021, I have been married three times so and that I am not looking for my next partner, spouse or significant other. Again, not sure if you didn’t take the time to read my profile or if you just didn’t comprehend what I was saying.

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