Disappointment. Should I give up?  

nazzie12 34F
14 posts
7/29/2021 6:53 pm
Disappointment. Should I give up?


A few nights ago, I connected with a seemingly nice man on this site, only for him to invite me to his place on a night he knew he wouldn't have time to give me what I need, and this was after I had turned down eager potentials. Today, a guy told me he would put it in my guts, but he struggled to get hard. Like, WTF?

JamaicanWantsU2 42M
1 post
7/29/2021 8:05 pm

Just got an unlucky streak, there is no way that you aren't going to get what you want.


Lovesubs12 51M

7/29/2021 9:47 pm

Thats nuts - I’m always hard


Lovesubs12 51M

7/29/2021 10:04 pm

And dont give up


billalesa2 63M/42F
1 post
7/29/2021 11:42 pm

IDK I/we a bi couple can't seem to get females or couples to respond at all. If I/we message you at least have the decency to respond even if not interested.


jajo696 67F  
4287 posts
7/30/2021 12:58 am

No.....dont give up. It takes time to find/connect with the right person~


jajo696 67F  
4287 posts
7/30/2021 1:02 am

    Quoting billalesa2:
    IDK I/we a bi couple can't seem to get females or couples to respond at all. If I/we message you at least have the decency to respond even if not interested.
Many people here feel that if you dont read their profile and fit the parameters, they are under no obligation to reply. You are not the exception to what they seek, so dont think that you are.

Ive also learned that no response is....a response. Good Luck with it all ~~


nicebuttocks1950 72M  
330 posts
7/30/2021 1:47 am

it is easy to talk the big talk. Not as easy to walk the big walk!!!!! Lots of men like to brag about their sexual prowess, but when it comes time to perform, they have excuses. Sometimes they puff themselves up like a balloon to impress, and they know they can't live up to their promises.


powercaps716 65M  
83117 posts
7/30/2021 3:58 am

no, never give up, it's takes time to find a good partner. but take your time in looking for the right one......


heartshapedcock2 38M  
1870 posts
7/30/2021 4:34 am

Don't date men who smoke cigarettes or marijuana, do cocaine, drink excessively, or are overweight and you probably won't have that issue.


BiSussi 61F
1405 posts
7/30/2021 5:33 am

    Quoting heartshapedcock2:
    Don't date men who smoke cigarettes or marijuana, do cocaine, drink excessively, or are overweight and you probably won't have that issue.
Don't give up - he is so correct
While it is not always the case with cigarettes, marijuana while awesome for females, does slow down men a lot Overweight is a given and excessive alcohol is most of the time the same.

Do Skype with them first, if they don't get rock hard while looking at you, let them find another girl, no need to waste your time Skype works great for me, have not been let down for decades. Just don't give up, just make better choices, way too many men think they are awesome, but don't perform well at all HAVE FUN, pick the right boys, young age always increases the odds as well


I love pussies and adore nice dicks


Bonem91 31M
95 posts
7/30/2021 6:24 am

Some good advice here by wise people. Either your own expectations are leaving you disappointed or like people say men can talk the talk (especially to their mates..)
But I would say keep searching. Every new interaction or exchange could lead somewhere. It's the social aspect. Don't take it too seriously or personally. 🤔


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