Some Words of Wisdom  

luv2suk1966 61M/55F  
1102 posts
1/29/2022 11:35 am
Some Words of Wisdom

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Have a great day, and be nice to one another.


Go_Down_Cowboy_2 60M
1009 posts
1/31/2022 9:22 pm

So sorry for your sister...So happy for you, and blessed to be in your friends circle. You are a wise woman!
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luv2suk1966 replies on 2/1/2022 4:02 am:
Thank you, Cowboy. Kisses...

merlot5555 65M/55F  
1472 posts
1/30/2022 8:02 am

....wise words fellow biker.... and so glad you found a true partner..... cuz with the right partner life can be amazing no matter how large or how small but significant your accomplishments are.... now let's dance to the weather gods to bring on spring!


luv2suk1966 replies on 1/30/2022 9:39 am:
I did get lucky when I found my guy.
Yes! Hopefully we'll be riding in about 3 months!

HughJardon62 60M

1/30/2022 5:26 am

We ARE all worthy, some just don't realize it yet. Don't give up on your sister. Get her out, just to do little things. Once she starts to see pleasure in those things, she can overcome the repression, depression & abuse of the past part of her life. I'm sure that it's going to take patience & perserverence to break the expectation of abuse.

Good luck!

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luv2suk1966 replies on 1/30/2022 9:38 am:
Thank you! We all try, but she's as stubborn as they come. "I'm fine, I'm fine" are her favorite words.

SilverFoxMark66 67M  
286 posts
1/30/2022 3:58 am

Amen, well said, see also Dr John Demartini on YouTube


luv2suk1966 replies on 1/30/2022 9:50 am:
Thank you for the info. I just listened to one of his shorter interviews. Very interesting. I will go back for more!

luv2suk1966 61M/55F  
1927 posts
1/30/2022 3:40 am

Sorry about the dropped words - fixed.

Have a great day, and be nice to one another.


easyrider4008 65M
2563 posts
1/30/2022 3:28 am

That sounds like good advice and also for any men in that position too, narcissists
come in both sexes.


luv2suk1966 replies on 1/30/2022 9:36 am:
You are correct.

PonyGirl1965 56F  
22090 posts
1/29/2022 11:50 pm

Your words are spot on! Very wise. I pray your sister finds her peace and freedom.


luv2suk1966 replies on 1/30/2022 3:48 am:
Thank you, PonyGirl!

author51 59F  
130010 posts
1/29/2022 11:04 pm

Your words of advice to others to Run Like Hell is spot on when it comes to abusive spouses.It is part of the reason I am divorced as I ran like Hell from my ex husband. He did not sound quite as bad as your sisters hubby but was bad enough where I felt the need to leave.What a wonderful post and reminder for those in this situation to ponder. You and your spouse are blessed indeed to have one another and still be going strong..xoxo


luv2suk1966 replies on 1/30/2022 3:47 am:
So sorry to hear your ex did that to you. It's not fair.

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1/29/2022 10:20 pm



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lonlyforlove2 79M  
32704 posts
1/29/2022 5:54 pm

It is shameful that some jerks act this way, I like most would say "RUN...Run like hell" get away from him, There is help, it is easy and free.
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luv2suk1966 replies on 1/30/2022 3:46 am:
Thanks for stopping by. She always said she would leave him, but never did.

ClassicFriction 60M
957 posts
1/29/2022 5:20 pm

I'll never understand why anyone would put up with abuse
for years that I wouldn't put up with for one day. I bailed
right away on more than one woman who verbally abused
me, and I never got married. I never stuck around long enough
for it to get physical. Glad I didn't. Still single and going strong.


luv2suk1966 replies on 1/30/2022 3:45 am:
I don't understand it either. WoW! 60 and still single?

flannel_light 59F  
4586 posts
1/29/2022 3:28 pm

This touched my heart. I could feel your pain. I was married to my 1st husband who was very abusive and then my ex fiance was and I walked away. You never hear of the men getting abused, but some do and no one needs to put up with that crap.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


luv2suk1966 replies on 1/30/2022 3:44 am:
I did think of the men who are abused, but you're right, we don't hear about that. GOOD FOR YOU that you had the sense to walk away!!

Pleasureinc 58M  
2200 posts
1/29/2022 3:19 pm

Right on....


LadiesR2B1rst 59M  
2735 posts
1/29/2022 2:40 pm

I think "Karma" will catch up to any man or woman that is abusive to anyone else. I hope your sister does find out that not all men live or treat women badly. Very well written and great advice for all that have been through an abusive relationship. Thanks for sharing.


luv2suk1966 replies on 1/30/2022 3:43 am:
Our whole family has said that all these years. Now he's gone, and she's still depressed. It will take time. And yes, not all men are like that.

JK29E 66M  
14 posts
1/29/2022 1:58 pm

Respect to you & I hope you continue to have a wonderful life & still have time to do a little for others less fortunate. J


luv2suk1966 replies on 1/30/2022 3:42 am:
I try to help my sister whenever I can, but sometimes it's tiring. Then I have to back off a little. Always come back around.

eroticmassage18 67M
30 posts
1/29/2022 1:52 pm

inspiring words and unique experiences


ricknice 56M  
21 posts
1/29/2022 1:38 pm

God bless


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
1/29/2022 12:49 pm

Well said. It's never worth staying in an abusive relationship. No matter how hopeless it seems to leave, there is hope out there.


luv2suk1966 replies on 1/30/2022 3:41 am:
Yes, there is always hope.

boobwhisperer69 59M  
8323 posts
1/29/2022 12:45 pm

Good advice!!!!!!!!!!!


jajo696 67F  
4287 posts
1/29/2022 11:58 am

Good Post.....i hope someone takes heed.

Its impt to know our worth ~


luv2suk1966 replies on 1/30/2022 3:40 am:
Thank you, I do, too.

luv2suk1966 61M/55F  
1927 posts
1/29/2022 11:36 am

We are all worthy.

Have a great day, and be nice to one another.


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