lola2b4u 48T
30 posts
10/19/2020 5:10 pm

I thought i would create a post for a few of us "t-gurls" who are getting tired of uneducated men/people treating us with complete disrespect! Just because i say i am sub/bottom does NOT give you the right to disrespect me or names UNLESS i ask for it! Just because someone used the same description as i do & did some freaky stuff doesn't mean we all do it!
Yes some are "sissies", some are "whores" , some are slaves...NOT all are that way! YES some are into drugs, some are into booze, some are into both, some NOT at all.....while we might share a "label" we are all individual people & please treat us as such! Just because we might be sub/bottom does NOT mean we will do whatever you say/command lol!
I find that people who can't/won't show their body or pics aren't serious about meeting all...YES i get the whole discretion thing but unless you are a spy then you have nothing to hide....wear a mask to hide your ....i dunno, just talk to us with more than 1 sentence a time & be patient with us serious ones!

HermanG67 54M
8462 posts
10/20/2020 9:08 am

well said.... respect goes a long ways no matter who you are talking too

lola2b4u replies on 10/20/2020 11:17 am:
very true

ecross1961 70M
20 posts
10/21/2020 4:47 am

treat others as you would like to be treated.

Leegs2012 49M  
91971 posts
10/21/2020 11:02 am

Well said, after all sex is hotter with nice people!!

lunchandconvo 51F
3966 posts
10/22/2020 10:15 am

i'm sorry if you are getting mean mail.
mine just seems to be daft.

because of my blog i decided to pull my face pix from public view. but i do a photo swap before doing a meet.

lola2b4u replies on 10/22/2020 11:02 am:
I don't know if it's just the era we live in or i just happen to attract some real winners lol! I belong to a few sites & it just seems to me that there seems to be a decline in respect, especially if you tell someone no thank you.

tanned1 61M  
8 posts
11/5/2020 5:09 am

Very well put, Lola.
Respect is the most important to another human being.
Treat others just like you'd like to be treated; no matter what gender, color or persuasion. I was abused as a child, by priests & mentors, but doesn't mean I should abuse others. I got over it, forgave them in m y heart & mind. Moved on! Took the high road.
If you ever wanna chat, let me know, I'll be there for you.
Take good care & be safe.

lola2b4u replies on 11/6/2020 3:34 am:
Ty for the kind words! I saw you sent a letter but i am not able to read it lol I'll watch for you if i'm on chatting sometime.

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