Lilac Petals
I have admired other, more talented writers, on the site over the years, so thought I'd try my hand at blogging. I figure this to be a great way to share my thoughts, my musings, and my fantasies with others out there who may feel the same, or who may gain a whole new perspective in a certain area. Thank you for sharing your time with me... xoxo lilac

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Just Between The Two of Us...
Posted:Oct 17, 2007 4:59 pm
Last Updated:Aug 26, 2021 8:03 pm
This is my private corner - a space dedicated to any question you might have about me or any private comments that you want to leave me. Mostly however, this is a space that you can use if you want to share something with me that you wish to keep private. None of the comments you leave will be made public, so whatever you have to “say” will just be between the two of us.

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I think I'm addicted...
Posted:Sep 23, 2016 9:47 pm
Last Updated:Sep 5, 2021 7:29 pm
9538 Views YOU.

You caught me completely by surprise, when I least expected you to enter my life, when I'd almost given up, thinking you'd never get here.

Suddenly and without warning, there you were. And you took my breath away.

Just one look is all it took... to completely captivate me. I'm entranced by the way you are when you talk to me. The way you make love to me with your words... without a single touch, you've captured my undivided attention... body, mind, and soul.

You, sir, are my most beautiful addiction.

Killer Porn!
Posted:Jan 27, 2016 2:27 pm
Last Updated:Aug 28, 2020 6:48 pm

Sometimes real life is stranger than fiction. In this case it's more like a really bad scene from one of those old Faces of Death movies. Porn can kill, people! Buckle up and be safe out there (and leave your killer porn at home!)

The Michigan State Police Department said Tuesday that a man died after rolling his car on the ramp from the Lodge to I-75 was watching pornography while driving.

The accident happened early Sunday morning just after 3:30. Michigan State Police troopers were called to the ramp from the Lodge to southbound I-75 on a one-car accident. The preliminary investigation revealed the driver of the car was watching a movie while behind the wheel, police said on Monday.

The driver was not wearing a seat belt when he lost control and rolled the car. He was partially ejected through the sunroof and died on scene.

On Tuesday, FOX 2 was speaking with Michigan State Police troopers about a different story when MSP revealed the man had been watching pornography and masturbating while driving. MSP also said the 58-year-old man was not wearing pants at the time of the crash.

Is he or isn't he???
Posted:Nov 22, 2015 2:34 pm
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2019 9:51 pm

Those of you who know me or have read my profile or blog know that I'm a huge geek at heart. I'm a fangirl of the show The Walking Dead. Don't ever miss an episode! (well, recording on DVR counts, right? lol) Anyway, I wanna hear from other TWD fans... do you think Glenn is dead or alive? I'm pretty sure we find out tonight. I have my theory. Now I want to hear yours!

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Do ya think I'm sexy?
Posted:Oct 6, 2015 7:18 pm
Last Updated:Jul 11, 2016 8:52 pm

If you want my body and you think I'm sexy
Come on honey, tell me so
If you really need me, just reach out and touch me
Come on sugar, let me know

(I always loved that Rod Stewart classic!)

Anyway, I really do wanna know what you think! Am I sexy? If you think maybe, just maybe I am, I'd love to see you vote for me in the annual Busty Awards and let everyone know! Check out bustybettyboop's blog bustybettyboop and while you're at it...

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Stay sexy my friends!

VOTE FOR ME and all of your wildest dreams will come true!
Posted:Oct 1, 2015 3:52 pm
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2016 7:08 pm

*doing bustybettyboop's booby dance* happyf;

bustybettyboop is holding her annual "Busty Awards" and I'm so very honored to have been nominated in several categories... *blush*

And while I can't really promise to make all of your wildest dreams come true, it would totally make my day if you vote for me!

Check out Busty's blog bustybettyboop and get out there and vote! You can find me in the following categories:

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While you're there be sure to support all of your other favorite bloggers too!

{=} ~Lilac {=}

Fifty Shades of Paranormal... WHAT?
Posted:Sep 28, 2015 8:03 pm
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2019 9:53 pm

One evening I found myself wandering aimlessly through the book store and was inching my way towards "those kind of books"... you know, the naughty ones like Penthouse Letters and the like.

I noticed a large display of the Fifty Shades of Grey novel, but in a party game pack! Hmmm could be interesting! But what really made my night was when I saw that the sign for the section above these naughty games denoted that I was in the "Paranormal" book stacks. Now I guess I could take this one of two ways... 1. para-normal as in NOT normal or 2. something to do with things supernatural or otherworldly. Hmmm I thought he was called Casper the Friendly Ghost, not Casper the Sexy Ghost!

Have you ever come across a sign that made no sense but made you laugh out loud?

Go home Mercury, you're drunk!
Posted:Sep 27, 2015 9:06 am
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2015 7:56 pm

Ever have one of those days where it feels like nothing can go right? Everything you touch seems to fall apart? And have you been having a lot of those kinda days in the last week or so? Yeah... me too.

The good news is, it's not you. And it's only going to last like this until October 9th. We can blame it all on Mercury being in retrograde. "What's that?" you ask? I found a great article that explains all about our favorite havoc-wreaking planet and how to navigate it's fall-out.

I'd love to hear if anyone's had anything really crazy happen to them during this Mercury Retrograde. Hey, we've gotta support each other to make it through, right? Until then... May the odds be ever in your favor!

Oh, Mercury retrograde. You are here, AGAIN. You have arrived on our collective doorsteps in all your messy glory. You are our dreaded but regular house-guest. You stagger in the door, kick over our furniture, leave crumbs all over the couch and hog the bathroom. Then, as quickly as you appeared, you disappear again, leaving us slightly stunned but much better equipped to continue with our own lives!

If you have no idea what I’m talking about, here we go. The planets are swinging around at all times, and their movements affect us all in different ways. All planets go retrograde, but Mercury’s journey seems to impact people much more than any other. (Even people who “don’t believe in astrology” often “believe” in the crazy aftershocks of Mercury retrograde!)

Why is that? It’s because Mercury rules communication, clear thinking, truth and travel, so when the planet goes retrograde — which means that it looks like it’s going backwards in the sky — all those things go backwards. They start to get ugly and tangle up. Mercury isn’t really going backwards, it’s just hanging out by the sun, but from Earth, that makes it look like it’s in reverse. It typically runs for a couple of weeks, a few times a year.

Check out these dates below and put them in your calendar!

In 2015, Mercury is retrograde from…
January 21st to February 11th
May 19th to June 11th
September 17th to October 9th

Note: We sometimes start to feel the effects of Mercury retrograde a few days early. It’s nice to give yourself a bit of leeway on either side of the prescribed dates!

What happens when Mercury goes retrograde? All sorts of things! It’s like everyone you know has suddenly gone mad! You might find yourself getting into bizarre arguments about nothing at all, being unable to finish sentences or barely even able to form a coherent thought. Your computer and other electronic equipment is more likely to go on the fritz. You could experience travel delays, too. Double-check your flights and take a book with you to keep you occupied while you wait for the train! We don’t tend to get all the information we need at this time, so it can be hard to make big decisions and it’s not always the best time to sign a contract, either.

Expect to hear super-loud complaining from your friends who are Gemini or Virgo, since both are ruled by Mercury! Mercury also rules a lot of industries like publishing, writing, editing, advertising, sales, public relations and anything to do with transport, like airlines, the post office and cabs! This means it can be particularly rough for Gemini train conductors and Virgo magazine editors, so be kind to any you know!

I often find that Mercury retrograde makes me want to go into hermit mode. I feel like half my brain is missing so I’m really not that interested in interacting with anyone, plus every conversation seems to go in an unusual, confusing direction. I feel much more irritable and frustrated and things just don’t seem to go how I want them to.

So that’s the bad news. Mercury retrograde can be a total kick in the teeth for those of us who normally pride ourselves on having our karmic shit together! The GOOD news is that Mercury retrograde provides us with lots of beautiful opportunities if we can just tilt our head and squint.

Mercury retrograde wants us to move back spiritually. It is providing us with a chance to re-examine various areas of our life which may need a little more work, so that we can move forward to a bright new dawn. Now, more than ever, the time is right to look at things with clear eyes. Delicious, fresh perspectives are revealed. We often have major breakthroughs — intellectual, emotional or spiritual — during this time.

It’s also a terrific period in which to tie up loose ends. So many of us have unfinished projects… Maybe that door just needs another lick of paint, or you’ll decide to put away your ex-boyfriend’s love letters once and for all. Having said that, this is also a time where it’s very common for old lovers, friends and acquaintances to get in touch! If you hear from someone from your past, get together with them and see what eventuates!

One of the best ways to cope with it — as with anything, really — is to just “go with the flow”. When you fight Mercury retrograde, that’s when life gets really ugly. Just take some time, go slowly, be careful, don’t freak yourself out by expecting to be uber-productive-perfect right now. Be good to yourself and the people around you, now more than ever!

A quick and dirty guide to surviving Mercury retrograde!

- Be sure not to take things too personally. People will often say offensive things they didn’t mean around this time, because their thinking is clouded and their communication skills are on pause! If your best friend suddenly became the most insensitive person in the world, give her the benefit of the doubt.

- Back up your data!

- Don’t purchase any big ticket items, because they will often have flaws or issues that you weren’t aware of! Of course, life doesn’t stop just because of wacky planetary movement, so if you absolutely have to get that car, computer or iPhone, TRIPLE-check all the paperwork, and make sure you have a warranty!

- Take things with a grain of salt. Everyone is a bit confused, and people are much more inclined to change their mind once Mercury goes direct. Mercury can be a bit of a trickster — could it be that the next few weeks are a big karmic joke?!

- Read the small print on any contracts. Ask lots of questions. Again, you can’t put your life on hold just because of some silly planet, but adapt your lifestyle a bit so that things run more smoothly. Communication can be a mess right now, but do your best to get as much information as you can.

- Finish things you started a while ago. Home improvement projects? Wardrobe re-organisation? Short stories? Love affairs?! This is an excellent time to tie up loose ends and file things away forever.

- Get together with old friends, reminisce and laugh!

- Double-check any information you’re given, especially as relates to travel arrangements! During one particularly formidable Mercury retrograde, I actually caught a cab to the wrong airport! Check times, delays, baggage allowances, reservations… everything!

- Allow Mercury to nudge you in unusual directions. If you seem to find yourself “back to the future”, don’t just try to wriggle out of it — look at what the universe is trying to show you. What can you learn from this situation? This is a fantastic time to re-examine, accept and move on.

- Use the things you’ve discovered in the past to create a dazzling new vision so that you’re ready to blast ahead when Mercury goes direct!

Luke... I am your father. On the other hand, you look like my grandfather!
Posted:Sep 25, 2015 12:06 pm
Last Updated:Jan 25, 2019 4:00 am

Have I mentioned I can be a total geek sometimes? Well... most of the time. But it's all in good, clean fun! Anyway, I'm totally geeking out for Star Wars: Episode VII The Force Awakens to come out on December 18th!

I'm trying to imagine getting to know basically all new characters. I guess we had to do that with episodes I through III and I didn't find it too distracting. Well, except for Jar Jar Binks. He was WAY distracting! I just hope that we get some great cameos from some of the old gang. I'm sure Chewy, C-3PO, and R2 haven't aged a day!

On purpose, I've tried to avoid reading any spoilers that might give away too much of the plot for the new trilogy. I know Harrison Ford is returning as Han Solo and now this pic makes me wonder what Hollywood magic they have up their sleeves for Carrie Fisher and Mark Hamill. I had a huge crush on Luke Skywalker back in the day. I think I just converted to a Han Solo groupie with one look.



Is that a selfie stick or are you just glad to see me?
Posted:Sep 23, 2015 6:48 pm
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2015 7:57 pm

Selfie sticks are apparently all the rage... of the narcissistic! If you haven't heard of them yet, it's a long stick-like device that has a clamp on one end to hold your cell phone. Now instead of holding your cell at a mere arm's length to snap a photo of yourself, the selfie stick gives you a longer range camera angle so as not to appear that you are vain enough to be taking all these pictures of yourself. Crazy huh? Even crazier is this story I heard on the radio this morning. Yes, folks... selfie sticks can be hazardous to your health or rather, your life. Read on...

Good news for people afraid of sharks: you're more likely to die from taking a selfie than you are being attacked by Jaws, himself, according to Mashable.

A 66-year-old Japanese tourist died earlier this week when he fell while trying to take a selfie at the Taj Mahal. His death raises the grand total to 12 selfie deaths just in this past year. Compare that to the eight deaths by shark attack in 2015 and you have a 21st-century problem on your hands.

The Russian police have gone so far as to even publish a brochure advising against taking "cool" selfies after a string of death-by-selfie incidents in the country.

"A cool selfie can cost you your life," the Russian Interior states in the brochure . The police handed out the brochure to students this summer.

Parks and museums have already warned people of the dangers of taking selfies. One Colorado park even went so far to shut itself down because visitors could not stop snapping selfies with bears.

People who have died this year include those who have tried to snap pics while posing with loaded guns, a who was electrocuted while climbing a train and a pilot who tried to take a selfie while operating an aircraft.

Selfie-deaths are becoming so common that there is even a Wikipedia page dedicated to listing selfie-related injuries or deaths.

So no matter how strong your selfie game is, make sure you're being safe when you snap a pic.

Sometimes there just are no words...
Posted:Sep 22, 2015 3:45 pm
Last Updated:Sep 26, 2015 7:41 am

So... I'm just gonna put this here for y'all to comment. (And yeah, this was seen around town today lol)


I has a sad.
Posted:Sep 20, 2015 8:37 pm
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2019 9:55 pm

My heart took a hit tonight out of left field. Shouldn't have surprised me that much as it seems to happen more and more lately. I always thought friends were supposed to be patient with one another, put up with each others quirks and intricacies, forgiving minor faux pas that may occur from time to time. At least that's what I would do if the roles were reversed. But lately I've been on the receiving end of phone calls turning into heated conversations that lead to yelling and me eventually getting hung up on. It hurts my heart and my feelings, especially because I feel I'm losing a friend and there doesn't seem to be anything I can do about it.

Any armchair psychologists out there with a helpful word or two of advice? Am I a foolish girl that deep down is just a glutton for punishment? *sigh*


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