Profile Birth Dates  

kcclaire0923 66F  
415 posts
2/1/2017 12:23 pm
Profile Birth Dates


I have noticed over the past four years as a member here that many profiles have a birthdate day of the 1st. Examples are June 1, July 1, May 1, January 1, etc. with a birth year to prove their age. Now, looking at photos with a birth year, one would think what they look like should at least come close to the year they have posted. But the fact that many have chosen the 1st as the day they were born also tells me that the birth year provided is not at all correct. Many times I will see they have an age of say, 49 using the birth year they post. Looking at the picture, it is CLEAR they are at minimum 15 to 20 years older. I have sent e-mails suggesting they take a closer look in the mirror or perhaps get some new glasses. The fact that they are deceptive with the birthdate can also suggest they are not being honest about other things as well.....not a good way to try and get a response much less meet someone for a possible good time. Being deceptive is never a good thing especially if one intends to actually meet in person.

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kcclaire0923 66F  
822 posts
2/1/2017 12:28 pm

I don't typically read any women's profiles to see if they do this as well but I would guess the answer is yes. Everyone wants to feel younger than they really are at times......


Tallstranger06 55M
8 posts
2/1/2017 12:40 pm

Everyone should put there real birth date or what is the point . You will only get found out


greekphilosopher 59M
4077 posts
2/1/2017 12:47 pm


Some people are scared of others identifying them in here, so they hide certain info. You would think that looking for sex or company with other consenting adults, is a normal activity, but it seems not ! After all, the goals remain the same in here, in other ''vanilla sites'', or even real life. I fail to see the shame part. But then things are different for everyone. If I met someone in here I would never be ashamed to tell the world where we met. I could not care less what people would say or think, even prospective employers. They employ me for my skills, not for my internet activity. A lot of people complain about this site, but it is us, the users, who make it what it is !

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sphxdiver 72M
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2/1/2017 12:53 pm

Quite a few on here don't give the actual date of birth, they tend to use the default.


naughtygent2015 55M
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2/1/2017 12:57 pm

my favorite one's are the one's that claim their 90 plus but their pic say alot younger


Woodyeverready 63M
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2/1/2017 1:06 pm

Birth year should be enough. An exact birthdate (day/month) is not necessar

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benard69 64M/64F  
6298 posts
2/1/2017 1:06 pm

Been on here for 6 yrs. Have seen the same bullshit profile pics and the ages never change...It's truly the Fountain of Youth....


Do_u_wanna_kiss 56F
223 posts
2/1/2017 2:02 pm

    Quoting greekphilosopher:

    Some people are scared of others identifying them in here, so they hide certain info. You would think that looking for sex or company with other consenting adults, is a normal activity, but it seems not ! After all, the goals remain the same in here, in other ''vanilla sites'', or even real life. I fail to see the shame part. But then things are different for everyone. If I met someone in here I would never be ashamed to tell the world where we met. I could not care less what people would say or think, even prospective employers. They employ me for my skills, not for my internet activity. A lot of people complain about this site, but it is us, the users, who make it what it is !

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I don't normally post my face as my profile pic just to be a bit mysterious but everyone's fear of being "found" on here is actually quite funny. Who would find you and what would they say? After all the only way they would find YOU is if THEY are on here too. Sure it might be awkward but it could also make for interesting conversations in the real world....IMO

As for birthdays, the default is January 1st.....it's up to the individual person to change it, however, I would like to at least get the truth about how old you are...most of us have preferences of one thing or another and one of mine happens to be age....


redrockrascal 63M  
23580 posts
2/1/2017 2:14 pm

    Quoting kcclaire0923:
    I don't typically read any women's profiles to see if they do this as well but I would guess the answer is yes. Everyone wants to feel younger than they really are at times......
When I first joined I noticed a lot of women were born on January 1 - an inordinate number really. So they seem to just go with the default. From what I read it seems like other info is bypassed and shows as the default.

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redrockrascal 63M  
23580 posts
2/1/2017 2:18 pm

    Quoting Tallstranger06:
    Everyone should put there real birth date or what is the point . You will only get found out
what is the point? Considering the number of times this site(s) has been hack'd and that peoples identity and card info are vulnerable I would say the point would be to protect that identifying info. I am more surprised after knowing this that people continue to give the actual date and year.

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BrownEyedBBW 54F  
8831 posts
2/1/2017 2:37 pm

but everyone's fear of being "found" on here is actually quite funny. Who would find you and what would they say?

I work at a pretty conservative school in a very conservative state. How conservative? One of my colleagues almost got his funding pulled because he was *in the same bar* as a 21 year old student and got caught in a selfie.

I know at least 2 of my students are or were here and I would like to continue getting funding until I finish my PhD

Aside from that, I'm a private person, even on traditional dating sites I am pretty judicious in what I choose to share. A site like this, well there is still a double standard and I've known a couple of women from this site who had issues so I would just as soon keep my private life private.


positively4you 72F  
4605 posts
2/1/2017 2:54 pm

The year should be enough.


sweet_VM 64F  
81699 posts
2/1/2017 4:01 pm

I been on here for a while and it seems no one ever puts down the correct birth-date. Far too many 1 Jan 1 July etc... I think the year should be enough. hugssss V

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justskin1 70M  
13175 posts
2/1/2017 4:05 pm

I have no problem with someone giving an incorrect birth day or month. If one is uncomfortable giving your correct year for identity purposes I would expect them to stay within 1 or 2 years max or do the 90yr old sort of thing. I admit I am not real good at estimating age but I have seen a fair number of women on here that look a good 10 years older than the date given. Hell, I have seen some where the age the profile calculates and one they give in the profile spiel is off by 5-10 years. Now that is what I would call a red flag.


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I_giv_pleasure 58M  
2891 posts
2/1/2017 9:12 pm

Mine is correct. There are some who's birthday are those days but there does seem to be a lot of people that didn't even change it.


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