Kind of sort of a Rant  

kcclaire0923 67F  
415 posts
6/17/2018 6:23 pm
Kind of sort of a Rant


As a member on a couple of other sites (vanilla sites) I had an experience today on one of them that was a little disappointing. I sent a nice message to someone about one of the pictures he had posted. I told him how cute and clever I thought it was. We began chatting and he asked me what part of town I lived in, and asked my first name. Then he had manners which I appreciated and said it was very nice meeting me.

I responded back and asked the same of him. I also asked if he had any family close by, if he was retired, and if he was enjoying this nice cool southern California weather we are currently having. I was making small talk. He totally ignored my questions, and responded back that he thought I was was very sexy. Mind you, I have posted a nice picture from the waist up with a blouse that was NOT low cut. (I have big breasts) It was just a regular current picture. PLUS, he called me by the wrong name after I clearly gave him my first name. The site is a regular dating site, NOT an adult site and very popular.

Of course if it had been this site I might have taken it as a compliment, IF my other questions were answered. So I responded back telling him he is like every other man and thinks with the little brain behind his zipper instead of the big brain above his shoulders. Getting my first name wrong, and completely ignoring my questions showed me that he was just looking to get laid and not caring to get acquainted first. I told him I was blocking him from further contact and said "good luck, you sure need it." If he only would have continued to get acquainted properly he certainly would have been able to experience what he called "my sexiness." I thought he was attractive and why I initiated the contact.

I guess I will stick with Heated Affairs for awhile since that is the usual protocol with the men here. I'm not saying that is a bad thing, since this is an adult site. I have been a member since 2011 so I shouldn't expect anything different. But I really thought it would be nice for once to be appreciated for more than a sperm receptacle or a "hit it and quit it." Been there done that one a few times. But I also have made some wonderful friends here and had a couple of pretty serious relationships that had to end for one reason or another.

Anyway, I feel better now so onward and upward. I hope everyone has had a great day and will have a good up and coming week.

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kcclaire0923 67F  
822 posts
6/17/2018 6:25 pm

I hope all the Dads out there had a wonderful Fathers Day today!!

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Timetraveler2 59M  
159 posts
6/17/2018 6:49 pm

So sorry that you had to deal with that, it is a shame that the bad apples out there put such a light on us. I am a firm believer of being respectful to everyone on this site, but I can see why the ladies are getting fed up. I wish you the best in your search, and hopefully someone worthy of your company will present themselves.


lonlyforlove2 79M  
32704 posts
6/17/2018 6:54 pm

I had a good fathers day all the kids came by. It was a pleasure to see them all in a given day, Good luck on your ventures with he new clown..his loss I am sure. I just put up a new blog, stop by and read rantings from the south...have a nice evening..

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
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also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


s2ndegree 63M  
9800 posts
6/17/2018 8:21 pm

I guess it's not always women dodging bullets.

Using more than all the road!


SpringChicken93 28M

6/17/2018 8:55 pm

If men only thought before typing


sphxdiver 72M
21063 posts
6/17/2018 10:49 pm

It's pretty obvious he was trying to think with his Little head !!


astute2r3 67M

6/18/2018 3:20 am

Sorry to read that you have experienced what so many have thus far. I would imagine it is relatively common. This type or these type practice is not just done by males, but females as well. There is not law either way. For the record, the head on a penis does not have any brain matter what so ever, therefore the brain your dealing with is the largest sexual organ on the human body, but is indeed the one and only processing brain that is capable of thought. As you have noted, it can deviate at the drop of a hat and change mental direction, as well as physical. Finding a real quality human being in any sex, is rare, difficult, frustrating and and at times very disappointing in general. Best of Luck! Don't give up! ENJOY


BigSmilesnMore 66M
775 posts
6/18/2018 6:02 am

Glad you feel better after your posting! It's always good to get the cobwebs blown off and start with a clean slate !!


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
7/29/2018 4:03 am

Nice to meet you . . . This is a tricky game we all play on this site. Too glib, not glib enough. Too cute or not cute enough . . . Such a fine line between winners and the losers . . . or maybe not! Especially if we use the right filters that suit us. Hey . . . . NEXT ! Welcome back . I left the gift basket at your doorstep . . . I didn't want to wake you . .


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