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Holidays Are Over
Posted:Jan 6, 2019 1:11 pm
Last Updated:Jan 8, 2019 4:49 am

Today is the 12th day of Christmas so I will take down my little tree, the string of lights out on my patio and look forward to the new year 2019 to see what it will bring. It was a bit of a challenge here in California in 2018 with all the fires and mass shootings close to me here in Ventura County. My heart was so heavy seeing all the destruction, homes and lives lost and those who did survive are trying to make life whole again. Myself and my property was spared thankfully but I do remain very humble knowing that tomorrow is not promised.

As I pack up my little tree, decorations and nativity scene I am reminded that a new year is here and I must stay kind and help others whenever I can. It doesn't cost a thing to be kind and paying it forward can be an awesome feeling. I have done it when others have been helpful and kind to me. I still hate turning on the TV at times and seeing all the horror, crime and political back stabbing so I turn it off and listen to music. Love my oldies!! Brings back good memories.

Happy new year to one and all!

{=} {=} KCClaire0923
So Happy To Hear This
Posted:Dec 22, 2018 2:28 pm
Last Updated:Dec 30, 2018 2:49 pm

I work with the public in a vey busy environment especially during the holiday season. It's fast paced and I come in contact with many people in any given day. I have noticed that this is the first year in a very long time that I have heard "Merry Christmas" and not "Happy Holidays" like in years past. It does my heart good and I respond back with the same "Merry Christmas" with a smile. It's different now and it makes me so happy. Not sure what changed, maybe because our world has had so many bad things happen for too long. I don't care what it is but I love hearing it and will continue saying it to everyone I come in contact with during this season..
Naughty Urgency
Posted:Oct 6, 2018 12:00 pm
Last Updated:Feb 17, 2019 5:56 pm

As a woman in her early 60's, quite sexually active and had 2 I sometimes suffer from over active bladder. Not often, but if I drink too much water or don't take enough restroom breaks I can get into trouble. It doesn't happen often but recently it sure did. I couldn't find a restroom quick enough and it hit me hard.

I had been traveling back home from my 's house two hours away. It was late, around 9pm and I couldn't find anything fast enough that was open. So I pulled into a closed store parking lot, back row that was dark with no street lights. I turned off the overhead light in my car, opened my door and pulled down my jeans and let it fly. Luckily I had some paper napkins on the seat to wipe with. I left quite a flood on the ground but felt much better after relieving myself.

Now I just know you men do this often because it's easy and just because you can. You really have no idea how lucky you are and the ease it is for you. Staying discreet is key of course, but man I tell you it was necessary for me as a woman to do this when I did. I was very lucky I found that dark spot as soon as I did!

Ladies, has this ever happened to you and how did you handle it without getting caught? Or did you get caught? It takes us more time than it does for men!
Question For The Ladies
Posted:Sep 23, 2018 11:06 am
Last Updated:Sep 23, 2018 8:09 pm

As a seven year member, I think I have read probably hundreds of men's profiles in my age group. Some a little younger than myself and some maybe a bit older. I have met a good number in person with a few that progressed to a second meeting then a couple that were long term. One was a marriage proposal; I am not looking for that. Too bad it happened because I had to end it after that. I don't want to get married ever again.

But the question I have for you ladies is this. Do you see a lot of profiles where the guy says he has a Harley and rides often? Or that he goes to the gym seven days a week and works out? Also that he is orally talented and can go all night? I don't get that. The Harley is fine; that seems to be a big thing with guys and I understand it is like a status thing because of a love for motorcycles.

But going to the gym seven days a week? I personally don't care if he works out once a day, once a month or never at all. Why do they have to brag about that? Who cares? Just be yourself and admit the truth. It's not that hard to do.

Then the "orally talented" part. Why would they tell that information on a public profile? I also see that they will say "I am well hung. 10 inches." Seriously? That is not what will attract me to respond to men on this site. I prefer a nice face shot with a profile saying what they enjoy doing for fun or perhaps what type of gal they are seeking....good personality, smart, age requirement or easy going no drama etc. The rest will come naturally with time as we get acquainted to see if there is chemistry and then on to the first meet. Then, the BEST part!

Do any of you ladies ever encounter this type of male profile often and is it annoying to you too? Men, chime in and help us understand this profile behavior. I do understand though that one can say and be anything they want to behind a computer screen. But then reality sets in when meeting.......

{=} {=} KCClaire0923
John Q. Public
Posted:Sep 9, 2018 9:41 am
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2018 2:09 pm

I work at a large grocery chain store here in my city. For the LIFE of me, I cannot figure out why people will walk up to me and say "Do you work here?"

I have on a bright colored vest with the stores name it, I have a badge clipped on to the left pocket with the STORE name and MY name on it, plus I am standing at my cash register #4 with a huge sign flashing that says OPEN. Many times I get asked also "Are you open?" UGH!!! I just stare at them for a moment like I can't believe you just asked me that!!

So to those who ask if I work here, I will jokingly say "Only when the manager is around!! "But I would really love to say "No, this is my bowling shirt."

And to those who ask if I am open when I am standing behind my register with a huge OPEN sign, I will say "Well, that's what the sign says!" But I would really like to say "No, I am standing here just to look pretty."

The lame things I hear every day working in retail from John Q. Public....It just reminds me of what will never come out of my mouth when I am out shopping in a store. I prefer to appear brighter and smarter than that!!
Older Women's Sexuality
Posted:Aug 12, 2018 10:42 am
Last Updated:Aug 18, 2018 12:21 pm

I was just reading a blog about whether or not older women in their 50s, 60's and 70's are still "fuckable." I found it quite comical, a question such as that. I, of course responded as did a few others in our age group. I have been divorced for 11 years now and have never, ever enjoyed sex as much as I have at this time in my life. In fact, my libido went so high at first that I went to my doctor to be sure there wasn't anything medically wrong with me. I gave her my symptoms...

1) I want sex often and think about it every single day.
2) Literally, I go through so many towels each time I have sex that I have to wash them in order to take a shower the next day! I have never used a lubricant because I don't need to! It's like I need to keep a mop in my
3) The sexual energy I have now is almost scary; I am told I am LOUD when I have an orgasm. One guy said we could never go to a hotel because security would be at the door immediately!
4) I will use my "devices" for long periods of time if for some reason I am not having sex for awhile.

My doctor explained that sometimes older women's sex drives increase after menopause for a number of reasons. Could be the hormone change, or even the fact that we can relax now and not be inhibited anymore if we have been in a relationship/marriage that wasn't a happy or satisfying one.

That explained me to a perfect "T." So she patted my shoulder, re-assured me that medically I was just fine and to go on and enjoy my sexuality...and she said she was jealous....lolol

{=} {=} {=} KCClaire0923
Kind of sort of a Rant
Posted:Jun 17, 2018 6:23 pm
Last Updated:Jul 29, 2018 4:01 pm

As a member on a couple of other sites (vanilla sites) I had an experience today on one of them that was a little disappointing. I sent a nice message to someone about one of the pictures he had posted. I told him how cute and clever I thought it was. We began chatting and he asked me what part of town I lived in, and asked my first name. Then he had manners which I appreciated and said it was very nice meeting me.

I responded back and asked the same of him. I also asked if he had any family close by, if he was retired, and if he was enjoying this nice cool southern California weather we are currently having. I was making small talk. He totally ignored my questions, and responded back that he thought I was was very sexy. Mind you, I have posted a nice picture from the waist up with a blouse that was NOT low cut. (I have big breasts) It was just a regular current picture. PLUS, he called me by the wrong name after I clearly gave him my first name. The site is a regular dating site, NOT an adult site and very popular.

Of course if it had been this site I might have taken it as a compliment, IF my other questions were answered. So I responded back telling him he is like every other man and thinks with the little brain behind his zipper instead of the big brain above his shoulders. Getting my first name wrong, and completely ignoring my questions showed me that he was just looking to get laid and not caring to get acquainted first. I told him I was blocking him from further contact and said "good luck, you sure need it." If he only would have continued to get acquainted properly he certainly would have been able to experience what he called "my sexiness." I thought he was attractive and why I initiated the contact.

I guess I will stick with Heated Affairs for awhile since that is the usual protocol with the men here. I'm not saying that is a bad thing, since this is an adult site. I have been a member since 2011 so I shouldn't expect anything different. But I really thought it would be nice for once to be appreciated for more than a sperm receptacle or a "hit it and quit it." Been there done that one a few times. But I also have made some wonderful friends here and had a couple of pretty serious relationships that had to end for one reason or another.

Anyway, I feel better now so onward and upward. I hope everyone has had a great day and will have a good up and coming week.

{=} {=} KCClaire0923
Will I Ever Learn?
Posted:Mar 11, 2018 2:46 pm
Last Updated:Aug 10, 2018 7:49 pm

Well. six months later here I am back again in blog land reading and sharing with fellow bloggers opinions, questions and real life experiences. I have been quite distracted these past few months with the same person I met from here back in 2012. But I am confident this time that we have finally come to the realization that we are finished and will move on. Here it is in a nutshell.

This person is married and was upfront about that from the beginning telling me that it is a very "complicated" marriage. But of course the standard "we have been together too long" "the sex is boring" "she doesn't understand me" "we sleep in separate rooms" "but we promised we would aways take care of each other" I made the choice to overlook all of this. I enjoyed a very deep sexual close connection with this person since 2012 but on HIS schedule of course. Many times over our scheduled meetings had to be cancelled for one reasonable or another. I was disappointed but always allowed him to make it when he could. I supplied the wine and food most times; occasionally he would bring a bottle of wine but not often. He always said he would "try" to see me on this day or "try" next week. I always agreed....Why? I was in love with this man all well knowing I could never have him for my own. We were never seen together outside my front door in the light of day. I was only given two small gifts from him over the years from a couple of his business trips. Never flowers or a card or anything special from him. He always showed up empty handed.

His last visit with me was a day during the week of Halloween. After that it was one excuse after another. I would get "I have to work a lot of hours." "A family member has the flu.""I have to travel for my job for a week." "My car transmission is out and it will be expensive to fix so I have to save for it." Weeks would go by and I wouldn't hear from him. Our primary form of communication is FaceBook messenger which by the way HIS is locked so no one can follow him or see his page or his friends, including his wife. No phone calls or text messages with me because there is a slight English language barrier for him. Soooooooooooo.......

I received a message from him this past Friday telling me he will no longer be visiting me and that he will simply remember our "lovely times." I responded thanking him for telling me and that now I no longer have to continue to be heart broken or disappointed when he cancels. And that I would bury our good times and memories deep in my heart. I also told him I hoped he will find someone that will make him happy and understand his "complicated" life........

Here is the funny part about all of this.....I didn't shed a tear like I thought I would. I cried each time over the years when he would cancel and I had to take off my pretty lingerie and throw out food and wine I prepared but for some odd reason this time it didn't affect me much. Maybe I was expecting this to happen at some point and my heart was prepared? Like my blog title says. "will I ever learn?" I think perhaps I will because I REFUSE to be with a married man again.

{=} {=} {=} KCClaire0923
Finally Saying Hello Again
Posted:Oct 15, 2017 11:18 am
Last Updated:Oct 23, 2017 7:09 pm

Well its been about six months since I have written anything here in blog land. Not only have I been a bit "distracted" but it seems like our poor world has been falling apart. I hate turning on the news these days; I never know what I will see. My heart hurts for hurricane victims in Texas, Florida, and Puerto Rico. The folks in Mexico with the earthquakes not to mention all the lives that were so senselessly taken in Las Vegas. Here in Southern California we have been burning up with wild fires with many folks losing not only their homes but their lives as well. All the crap and nonsense I hear and read every day in the political world just makes me sick to my stomach. The current administration needs some serious help. But we have to be patient snd pray for our country to get through it all..

Thankfully I have a deep faith; As a single woman I work hard every day, pay my bills on time and obey the law. I saw a bumper sicker on a car the other day that said "Jesus is coming and boy is He PISSED." I thought about that and it seems so true. I try to do random acts of kindness anonymously and love seeing things on the news when people practice being kind and someone posts it on Face Book or directly to the media. I wish our world was a safer place for our grandchildren to grow up in. Maybe by the time they get to our age it will be........We can only hope.

I love it when Ellen Degeneres ends every one of her talk shows by saying "Thanks for watching and be kind to one another - bye everyone."

{=} {=} KCClaire0923
Profile Not Available
Posted:Mar 12, 2017 10:59 am
Last Updated:Mar 26, 2017 5:55 pm

On occasion I get messages or IM requests to chat from men who have temporarily (or on purpose) turned off their profile. I can't help but wonder why they think any of us ladies would respond without knowing anything about them. I politely tell them that until I can read their profile I will not be chatting or responding. That seems to be a HUGE red flag to me, like perhaps it's very likely they are married or attached and don't want to get caught. I do realize also that even the profile can be a fake but at least I have something to read....

I have always been candid and honest about myself on this site and have never once taken down my profile for any reason. What you see is what you get with me period. However, I DO and WILL block people that are out of line for one reason or another. That could be online or even after we have met in public and they were deceitful about themselves in one way or another.

Why is it so difficult to just be honest about oneself and let things happen naturally? Of course cheating on your wife or significant other is one reason but I just don't understand why folks have to lie and be deceitful. I guess because they can and enjoy being anything they want to be behind a computer screen.

{=} {=} KCClaire0923
Profile Birth Dates
Posted:Feb 1, 2017 12:23 pm
Last Updated:Feb 2, 2017 8:00 pm

I have noticed over the past four years as a member here that many profiles have a birthdate day of the 1st. Examples are June 1, July 1, May 1, January 1, etc. with a birth year to prove their age. Now, looking at photos with a birth year, one would think what they look like should at least come close to the year they have posted. But the fact that many have chosen the 1st as the day they were born also tells me that the birth year provided is not at all correct. Many times I will see they have an age of say, 49 using the birth year they post. Looking at the picture, it is CLEAR they are at minimum 15 to 20 years older. I have sent e-mails suggesting they take a closer look in the mirror or perhaps get some new glasses. The fact that they are deceptive with the birthdate can also suggest they are not being honest about other things as well.....not a good way to try and get a response much less meet someone for a possible good time. Being deceptive is never a good thing especially if one intends to actually meet in person.

KCClaire0923 {=} {=}
NSA Means Exactly????
Posted:Jan 25, 2017 11:53 am
Last Updated:Jan 26, 2017 4:52 pm

I know, most of you would say "No strings attached" which I would interpret as I will never call or text you for anything other than sex. You will never be available for me to call if I need help with something like needing tissues or cold medicine and can't get out; or a ride to work if my car won't start; or if I need a 24 pack of water lifted from my trunk into the house.

Then to me, NSA would mean "Never serious anyway" - but we are expected to give up our bodies to you when you want us? Never to be seen in public together?

You guys who only want to get laid badly might just want to re-think having the term NSA written in your profiles. You just might be surprised with responses.

{=} {=} KCClaire0923
It's Raining Weiners!
Posted:Jan 14, 2017 2:33 pm
Last Updated:Jan 15, 2017 4:46 am

I don't know why it has happened more today than any other day but it seems like every single IM or e-mail message I have received has a cock picture attached......I will decline with a response that says "I don't chat with cock pictures; prefer to see your face before I see your junk. There's plenty of time to see what you are packing once we get acquainted a little bit."

They all begin to look the same and it seems like it's a "penis envy" between the men here. Yes this is a sex site I agree; but when the ratio of men to women is over 75% one would think they would try something different to get our attention. I do know that a HUGE majority of men here are married or attached and are just trying to spice up their boring sex lives. I for one am NOT interested in that; been there done that with heartbreaking results, It's difficult to love a married man when he puts us as a last priority right under taking his to the groomer.....

Anyway, you men that post face pictures with a nice smile BRAVO!! I always respond to those and thank them for that. Seeing weiners all the time gets so BORING....those of you who do that? Try a different approach. You will be surprised at the results you might get here.

Keep smiling!!

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