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Just some random thoughts and opinions
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Miserable
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Posted:Sep 7, 2015 3:12 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 6:16 pm
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I've been on this site since 2007 and had very few issues, until now.
I went to look at a profile yesterday and it came up as
Profile Not Available
Member's profile unavailable
Many of our users may temporarily turn off their profiles due to a successful match, a great number of replies to evaluate, or are taking a break from being contacted while using the site. We encourage you to continue to view other profiles.
Then I looked at other profile and got the very same message.
I contacted Heated Affairs and they couldn't help me. Later on I went to log in and I no longer existed!!!
In confusion I called Heated Affairs and was told it was because of 'security measures'. So, I had to pay for an international cell phone just to get my profile put back up again.
So, I am now able to log back in but all of my 'fans' are now missing, as are the ones I built up my points for (over a long period of time).
To add to that, guess what I get when I look at ANY profile on here?
Profile Not Available
Member's profile unavailable
Many of our users may temporarily turn off their profiles due to a successful match, a great number of replies to evaluate, or are taking a break from being contacted while using the site. We encourage you to continue to view other profiles.
I've deleted my cache, I've deleted my cookies, I've deleted my bookmarks, I've deleted a good few hours of my day 
I used to really love this site!
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Having a site issue
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Posted:Sep 6, 2015 7:00 am
Last Updated:Sep 8, 2015 11:08 pm
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Every profile I look at now comes up with 'profile unavailable'
anybody had that issue before?
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People who lie about their age!
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Posted:Sep 4, 2015 11:06 am
Last Updated:Sep 6, 2015 7:00 am
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It's an absolute pet hate. If "age is just a number" then why lie about it?
I'm not thrilled about turning 50 next year, but I also embrace my life experiences etc and would prefer people saying, "You look great for your age" over, "Gee she's had a rough life"
This person has been arguing with me about it for ages. He keeps forgetting he has messaged me on several different sites. His response is hilarious. He has on this site he is 48, but on others he is 46.
male chatter:
1:58 AM
Me:
I am 48 and you have NOTHING in common with me
1:58 AM
Me:
your skin looks like biltong
1:59 AM
Me:
so what happens when you meet people and it's obvious?
1:59 AM
Me:
say "Oh sorry thought you wouldn't care??"
2:00 AM
male chatter:
No true i'm 58 but i bet i could beat you over 50 metres, he.
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Aggressive men
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Posted:Sep 3, 2015 7:22 pm
Last Updated:Sep 4, 2015 4:27 am
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It's frightening when you see how much aggression can come out of a man from a polite "no thanks".
I'm often on IM. I tend to have it on while I'm doing some Uni work - sometimes more distracted with it than I should be!
I can't believe how often I am messaged by a man from another country or state. My profile actually specifies I'm only interested in 'local guys' but who reads profiles hey?
The conversation usually starts with "Hi, how are you?" etc Sometimes I will politely say, "Fine thanks" and hope they will be on their way. But then the conversation will turn in to a series of "????" and my, "I'm really sorry, I'm not interested in chatting to someone from another state or country"...then the abuse starts. Usually I cop, "It's your loss." This morning I got "You look old and sloppy, like every guy has had a ride of you." Then, "I only messaged you because I felt sorry for you."
Isn't that a bit frightening?? women don't tend to like abusive males (well, they shouldn't)
It's illogical reaction to being rejected by someone you are never likely to meet, due to rejection. How do these men view women here? are we their cyber punching bags?
You can't win. You either have to block half the guys who message you or put up wth their abuse...
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