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For the men on this site
Posted:Sep 23, 2020 5:40 am
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2022 1:58 pm
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Men this why so many women do not answer emails or IM's

I received an IM yesterday from a 30 yr old boy..yes I did say boy. I have never chatted with the boy at all. Out of the blue he sends the following me.
"Maybe you are on the wrong site."

I sent him an saying, " What gives you the right pass judgement on me?"

He sends back, " Not judging you but do you want your grandchildren see these pictures of you."

I sent back, "You do not know me and have no right judge me. Your pictures offend me so you can go hell."

I have blocked the little boy...you can find him as cguy_90. He is a boy that has no respect for other people.

I might be older than a good many of you on this site, but I have been on here a few years. It is a shame that people think they have right judge someone just because they know what they want, and are not willing settle.

I think someone should have taught the boy better in life, his parents sure did not.

Men now you know why so many of the women do not and will not bother answer their IM's and emails. If you would like for a woman answer you, then show respect, be polite, and please do not judge them.
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Rules and such
Posted:Jun 2, 2019 12:08 pm
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2019 11:26 am
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I wonder how many people really understand rules? I know this site has rules for use in the chat room, but they really do not use them. I know of 1 person has been reported at least times for harassment, but Heated Affairs does nothing to person.

What is the use of having rules if they are not followed by the ruling company? Come on people for every action there is a reaction..what do you not understand about this.

My profile says I am a care giver and am not meeting people at this time. Also is a person is under 45 keep moving on. I am straight, not looking for females. How hard is to understand? Do people not understand the English language anymore?

The rudest IM's or emails I get ask when or do I know when I will be free again. WTF I am not looking forward to my father passing.

This makes me wonder why would someone just meets someone the first time and has sex.. is not safe in the world we live in. I value my life, do you value yours?

Just my thoughts on a few things I have been running into on this site lately!
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What has history taught you?
Posted:Dec 11, 2018 2:32 pm
Last Updated:May 28, 2019 11:19 am
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I have had the rudest men approach me. As you can see my name on here is Bamagirlnc....I am a huge Alabama football fan.

Two different men have approached me in a chat room, by the way 99% of the people are the nicest ones I have ever had the chance to chat with. As I was saying..each of the two guys, asked me if it was true what they had learned in history and was I like that. They preceded to ask if I was racist and did I think like all people from Alabama.

I have to say that I now know what is wrong with our country..a lot of people did not learn anything from our history. What gives these two people the right to question me, but I have no right to question them? Yes I am white and both of them were black. I normally do not see color, but these two are making me look at it more often now. I grew up in Alabama, then TN, than NC...I say get your heads out of yours asses before something happens to you and learn from our history.

Sorry for ranting about this, but I can never remember being so upset when I did nothing to start this.
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