Never.marry an older virgin  

afloribamayho 53M
10 posts
8/23/2021 4:13 pm
Never.marry an older virgin

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afloribamayho 53M
8 posts
8/23/2021 9:58 pm

I discussed it - she avoided it. Just like fishing bait, lure & hook. Was youngest child of older parent's. Father-in-law passed Mother-in-law became angry, manipulative, negative and meddling. Turns out she was and is unhappy in everything. Never really wanted to be married or have kids. Raised my wife that way too. Only missionary, receive oral, no anal, no experimenting, fantasies or desires and only 3 times a year. She is loyal, dutiful, kind and sweet, but that's where it stops.

author51 59F  
130010 posts
8/23/2021 11:13 pm

I would not have married someone whom I was not sexually compatible with either as it is all apart of love and pleasing your partner,,

Lippenbalsam 61M
306 posts
8/23/2021 11:57 pm

I don't know anything about getting married.
How does that work together?

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afloribamayho replies on 8/24/2021 4:53 am:
Older virgin - she was 32 when I popped her cherry. She never had dated.

jajo696 67F  
4287 posts
8/24/2021 12:30 am

......and what is preventing you from exiting the marriage ? Since you value a physical relationship so much......go n find someone else.

Otherwise be satisfied with her other qualities and do as she said. " take care of your own needs" but clearly define with her just what that means in her mind and within the confines of marriage~ Good Luck

afloribamayho replies on 8/24/2021 5:02 am:
She's loyal, dutiful and sweet - may need that one day. Never know when something may happen. I have the freedom to take care of my other needs 5 1/2 days a week. She is happy the way things are and I don't see a reason to spend the money unnecessarily.

afloribamayho 53M
8 posts
8/24/2021 5:24 am

Not turning this into a sob story, life happens to all of us and things change or surface that were hidden all along. I want to see and learn more about others.

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