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There's more to me than just a few holes
Posted:Feb 3, 2022 8:46 am
Last Updated:May 27, 2022 1:6 pm

I write in the hopes to not upset others that may disagree with me but rather to start conversations (which includes opinions that may differ than mine ... I'm cool like that).

Today I come with a question. My husband and I have been in the lifestyle off and on like 18 years I'd say. In that time, we have met with different individuals to fulfill our kinky side, but one thing that gets our juices flowing is my husband watching. Yes, we play together but him watching me is a real turn on for the both of us. With that said ... when we are messaged I find that most men, in particular, are not aiming to try to woo me at all. I get the, "hey want meet up, you're hot and look like fun" as if I'm some kind of carnival ride. Yes, I like a good ride; however, I want to have a quality ride too not just give you a good ride. I am not turned on by a random "here's my dic pic" no offense but most work the same and often resemble the next, what I want is someone to try a little harder at working my mind over.

If you have a special interest in someone, I assume that you go through the motions to interact, try to connect, and throw out the flirts ......... so my question is,
Are the individuals on here, past trying to flirt and connect on a mental level or is it because I am married that individuals think they are stepping on an invisible line that it would be wrong to flirt with an attached married woman?
If I can't connect on the same level I end up not being satisfied sexually. Thusly, the other party leaves quite sated, and I'm left still wanting and disenchanted. I am stomping my feet and saying that isn't fair. I need to get something out of this as well.
Please tell me what is it that people are scared of to actually try to woo me and to get to know me (a little more) and not just my holes? I promise I would give a "hole" new meaning on Tilt 'o' Whirl if you went the extra step.
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who should be slicked down?
Posted:Sep 9, 2021 10:03 am
Last Updated:Feb 3, 2022 8:52 am

During a live cam, would you rather see a naked woman sensually rub a man down on table or watch man slick woman up while being sensually rubbed down on table?
Naked woman giving
Man giving woman
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Keeping the bedroom hot and alive extended version
Posted:Sep 8, 2021 12:12 pm
Last Updated:Feb 3, 2022 8:48 am
Last night my mind kept turning about how I could add to my blog post yesterday, so here I am extending on my post.
Please remember these are just ramblings from a woman that has been married twice (one previous to the one I am in now) and from my own personal thoughts and opinions. Everyone is different and these are solely my perceptions.
I hate to admit this outloud and again my personal opinions here, but women don't need sex like men do. Men are physically wired to procreate and hump anything and everything. Me, I can go without and not feel as if an appendage is going to rupture. Truthfully, I could go a much longer time without physical penetration, however, the emotional side of the physical contact I get from being with my husband (or another man) is another topic all together. I feel bad for men. They go through life with this innate desire until the day they die, and women start needing less as they physically change with age. Not fair I say! And this is where so many problems in relationships go awry.
Another whammy ... guess what, people are selfish by nature. You may read this and disagree, but hello pot you are also blac No matter who you are, you will always think about number one first. Everything we do is for us/me/I/you. You may give freely but that is because it makes YOU feel good, circling back to this being about I/you/me. It's okay to be selfish it's in our DNA, but the trick is to push beyond what you get out of an experience and help your partner out.
I like to think that I am way too out there to fit into any box, thusly, I try to stretch from the mold everyone thinks we should squeeze ourselves into. Yes, I fall into the mundane and cook, clean, and do my daily household servitude, but I really try to step back and place myself in my husbands shoes. Hey what did he go through today and is there anything that could make him get out of that dreaded work mood and make him smile?
ANSWER: My mouth. Always my mouth. I love getting on my hands and knees and sucking his socks off. Many women don't understand the power they can hold over a man with a toe curling, leg cramping, BLOW JOB. I love holding my husband or any man's pleasure in a simple control hold between my lips. When they squirm and twitch uncontrollably, because I make them that crazy .... mmm, there is nothing better. I have the power! Selfish yes, but again, I'm okay with being selfish. I've come to terms with it. But my selfish desire to rule over a man's steel-hard cock leads to their happiness as well. It's about getting in the right mindset and stepping out of the mundane.
I implore you to try something new today. Go for a drive and get in the back seat somewhere, go out into the woods and get naked with one another, rub your other half down with shiny, slick mineral oil and take a couple snapshots of it. We all fall into complacent behaviors, but if you're sick of it, fix it. Get off your phone and explore one another. How long has it been since you played dress up? As we speak, I dressed up in a slutty outfit and I am impatiently waiting for my husband to get home so I can use my secret powers and rock his world.
Keep it alive. There was a reason you got together in the first place, don't forget what those reasons were for.(image)

Keeping the bedroom hot and alive
Posted:Sep 7, 2021 1:28 pm
Last Updated:Feb 3, 2022 8:50 am

I was reading through some of the blogs before I decided to write my own. During my research project I was asking myself, what the heck do I write about on a sex site? Seriously folks, we are all on Heated Affairs for one thing ... booty calls. Some may be looking for a long-term relationship, while others are rebounding from a horrible relationship, some might be secretly hiding a lifestyle from their significant other because they aren't getting what they need from home. Whatever the reason, we are all just looking for a physical and maybe a little bit of an emotional connection with another human being.
This is ALL OKAY! And in fact, in my theoretical mind, I feel is a healthy way to keep a relationship alive in the bedroom. This is not a recommended lifestyle for those that are insecure and jealous though! My husband and I have been in the lifestyle off and on over the last 15 years. We are very secure in our relationship and find that it adds another element to our life. For us, inviting someone or someone(s) into our home takes our sexual experiences to new levels. We like to play out scenarios and having the benefit of meeting new people and making new friendships. We have recently decided to take our experiences and make adult content so others can enjoy our playtime just as much as we do. Beautiful bodies are meant to be enjoyed and we are here to partake in that enjoyment.
The trick of the game is to remember men and women do have different needs and both parties need to do their part to make sure that the other half's needs are being met. Take me for instance, yeah I like to be bent over and fucked senseless, but if you want to really get my juices flowing, take some time and coax me first. (Reading a nasty, dirty story line gets my panties drenched) a little backstory beforehand pulls at my emotions and that is what will get me nice and slick. If I'm into it, I know you'll be into it. Take your time and think about what you are doing to the other party? What might it feel like? If they were reciprocating would it be something you would enjoy?
In a nut shell slow down and think about the other half and what they are getting out of your encounter. If you are just there to get your rocks off and not worry about getting their rocks off. Things will go dead faster than fast. So if you want to screw up a relationship in your bedroom, be selfish and forget that you have a partner. Slapping it yourself gets a bit lonely .. but hey maybe it's better alone!

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