Teenamarie55 66F  
53 posts
7/19/2021 7:54 pm

Every rare once in a while, you come across that person who gets you. Out of no where, “boom” they appear larger than life. They reach out and touch your soul.

And after awhile you begin to believe they are everything they say the are. And you find yourself being drawn in by what you believe is their goodness. They are kind and they are intelligent and they offer excellent advice. They are funny and thoughtful. They are sexy. They turn you on. They are simply fucking amazing.

The guard around your heart begins to break down. They are making their way slowly in.

But what you don’t know…is that they are “damaged. Too many bad relationships. Too many times their hearts have been broken. They are waiting for you to make the wrong move and You say something that hits their raw nerve…and “boom” they exit your life as quickly as they entered it. Not even offering a respectful goodbye.

It fucking hurts. And the saddest part of all this is that…they never knew just how much you loved their soul.

True story w

agelesssexylegs 79F
1145 posts
7/19/2021 8:56 pm

Well yes i often get smitten way too soon in a relationship,opening up my inner self to them only to be hurt by them,it works both ways,they can it a raw nerve in me,once can be forgiven but not more than i care to mention

Teenamarie55 replies on 7/20/2021 7:20 am:
Thank you for your comments

reallyready46 62M
1383 posts
7/19/2021 9:21 pm

I know what you are saying. I met a couple that seemed amazing. He had woman around him and seemed very thoughtful and was full of stories. In the end I found out he was abusive and fake. He made fun of me behind my back. It did hurt to discover the truth. I got one woman away from his evil ways she got another away from him. So I guess in the end it turned out ok.

Teenamarie55 replies on 7/20/2021 7:20 am:
It does always turn out in the end doesn’t it?

74 posts
7/19/2021 10:05 pm

I've been on the receiving end of breadcrumbing, catfiahing, and ghosting here.
It's not you, TeenaMarie. it's their demented actions of their twisted personalities.

Its borderline cruel to those that its pulled on.

Have not seen you around in a while.

Teenamarie55 replies on 7/20/2021 7:21 am:
Absolutely cruel.

Layedbackbro 51M
1 post
7/19/2021 10:53 pm

I've been victim to this myself. Most recently, a few years ago, I was smitten by a woman. As much as we gelled together, we were opposites. Yet, EVERYTHING about this woman invoked me to me a better man, and THAT'S what I loved about her the most, but she would break up with me constantly, only to return a few weeks to a month later, begging to get back with me. Finally, I'd had enough. As much as it hurt NOT to be with her, it was hurting me MORE BEING with her. Sometimes we have to look at the situations and remember that ALL will work out for us in the long run. The UNIVERSE has a way of fixing it at the right time, and usually that isn't OUR time. Our time usually is incorrect.

Teenamarie55 replies on 7/20/2021 7:21 am:

jajo696 67F  
4287 posts
7/20/2021 12:37 am

My last blog entry , Silent Voices , speaks to this very issue. Sadly, we all have experienced it...and no matter how many times w go thru it...it still rocks our hearts n soul. Disappointing indeed !!~

Teenamarie55 replies on 7/20/2021 7:22 am:
Thank you for your comments.

cevblodgett 52F  
35 posts
7/20/2021 2:52 am

I believe it human nature to become smitten with people we meet. It has happened to me and it does hurt when it turns into something it is not and we are blindsided.

spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
7/20/2021 3:48 am

I can understand the hurt. It's unnecessary hurt as well. Take care.

Teenamarie55 replies on 7/20/2021 7:22 am:
Thank you! I’ll be fine.

hitesht0091atgml 42M
27 posts
7/20/2021 4:36 am

True! Take care

Teenamarie55 replies on 7/20/2021 7:23 am:
Thank you! I’ll eventually be fine.

CleavageFan4U 65M  
69374 posts
7/20/2021 6:10 am

Yeah, that sucks. But with that much bad history, can it be that they truly weren't in some way responsible for it all, and just misleading you all along?

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Teenamarie55 replies on 7/20/2021 7:24 am:
Exactly my thoughts as well.

Joejo613 57M
46 posts
7/20/2021 6:57 am

I can relate to that my dear. I can also admit I have been damaged. But one thing I will never do is cause someone the kind of pain that I felt when I was betrayed. It was devastating to me. I hope you feel better .

𝓣𝓱𝓮 𝓸𝓷𝓵𝔂 𝓽𝓱𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓫𝓮𝓽𝓽𝓮𝓻 𝓽𝓱𝓪𝓷 𝓼𝓮𝔁 𝓲𝓼 𝓹𝓮𝓷 𝓽𝓸 𝓹𝓪𝓹𝓮𝓻 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓪𝓷 𝓮𝔁𝓹𝓵𝓸𝓼𝓲𝓸𝓷 𝓸𝓯 𝓹𝓻𝓸𝓼𝓮. - 𝓙𝓸𝓼𝓮𝓹𝓱

Teenamarie55 replies on 7/20/2021 5:34 pm:
Thanks…I am.

naughtynate77 44M  
680 posts
7/20/2021 3:32 pm

I know your pain all too well. Sorry to hear that this happened to you.

Teenamarie55 replies on 7/20/2021 5:33 pm:
Thank you so much!

FitDaddy71 62M
178 posts
7/31/2021 7:03 am

BTDT In todays world, I think fakery is the norm, not the exception. However, it also think we can set our expectations too high. It is said that, "The best man is at best just a man." True. But we're all human and this applies to women as well.

We're all damaged goods. We're all trying to fill that void within us. There are those fortunate few who, for a moment in time, are satisfied, happy, content and live in the moment. But those moments are rare and short lived. It's just the nature of life on this side of the wall.

Maybe because I'm older now, just being appreciated is perhaps the expectation which is too high to attain to for me. I am forever dismayed at never having that emotion.

FitDaddy71 62M
178 posts
7/31/2021 7:07 am

PS Being "smitten" has value in and of itself. Accept it as it occurs. Brush it off when it dies. But just enjoying that emotion of being smitten is enough. "Hold on tightly. Let go lightly."

Can you still swoon by being kissed? Kisses don't last long. But the way they make you feel on the inside can be savored and taken to the grave. Value the precious things and store them away

Teenamarie55 66F  
26 posts
7/31/2021 3:16 pm

Thank you for that! Great advice from a wise man! I’m really okay. Just needed to express my feelings. I will never stop looking for that ultimate connection! I know it’s out there. Every one else is a stepping stone to it! Meanwhile I will always be me!

gr8tday4us 56M

8/9/2021 1:01 pm

You deserve better. Please don't harden your heart for someone who is more deserving of your affection.

s2ndegree 63M  
9800 posts
8/10/2021 5:39 pm

It's really sad when someone we know
becomes someone we knew!

Using more than all the road!

leefury7 71M

11/27/2021 4:42 am

You did that to me! You use to write to me. We were going to meet. Then that thing with your parents came up and then "Poof" you were gone!

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