Settled
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Posted:Jan 29, 2022 12:01 pm
Last Updated:Jun 18, 2022 1:53 pm
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Well finally settled in and have opened the door to finding a friend. Hope to find a lady that can be a discreet friend and does not want to change her or my living arrangements. However, it would be nice to find a like mind for the occasional get together and escape.
Feel free to leave a message on the blog and we can find a way to connect here or on another site.
I am not a game player and enjoy the things I do.
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Finally in Calgary
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Posted:Dec 21, 2021 12:26 am
Last Updated:Feb 23, 2022 9:32 am
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Well finally made and although not settled in, I am moved in. I hope find a few local female friends chat with and perhaps if they are unfulfilled in their relationship we can see where that discussion takes us.
Drop a and say hello on fetish site as dawgin1 if you prefer, but this blog is OK as well. 
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Moving to Calgary SOON
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Posted:Oct 21, 2021 11:39 am
Last Updated:Jan 29, 2022 11:35 pm
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OK, so I have decided to move back to the Calgary area. Lots of reasons that I will not get into. Either way, I am presently for female friends in the Calgary (southern Alberta) area. I am a very safe, trust worthy friend and would love to find a friend connection that has the potential to turn into something more.
I would prefer if you were married or attached, but not a deal breaker. Feel free to leave a hello and hopefully we can connect online or find a way!
Have fun and look forward to meeting you soon!
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Married people that are sexually neglected
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Posted:Apr 22, 2021 1:36 pm
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2022 12:12 pm
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I know that many married people are happy with who they are with but have NO sexual spark for their partner. There are many reasons for this but in the end who cares what the reasons may be. I am happy be the online friend of any married lady looking for a chat friend, sexting buddy and perhaps more if we clic
I am a clean, respectful person that enjoys who I am and has a healthy sexual imagination. I chat mostly on another site that is a fetish site although I really don't consider myself a real fet lifer, just a person that enjoys exploring and making my partner / friend happy
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Merry Christmas
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Posted:Dec 21, 2020 4:17 pm
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2022 12:14 pm
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all my very special friends, may you have a wonderful Christmas in these crazy times. Let's all hope 2021 brings much fun and is able stroke the little flame we have hope for as we surf this site and others like it.
Sending out hugs and kisses for those that want them and for those that want more I encourage you track down as I will be a very positive influence in your life and bring the very best of you out if given half a chance.
Cheers
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Happy hot New Year
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Posted:Dec 26, 2019 3:53 pm
Last Updated:Dec 21, 2020 4:17 pm
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is all the wonderful, and heavy ladies in pursuit of good friendships and discreet happiness. May you find all the wonderful pleasures you all dream of. Your online friend
Doug
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Mail and IM doesn't work
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Posted:Nov 6, 2019 2:40 pm
Last Updated:Oct 31, 2021 11:00 am
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I have been on this site for a long time, I just haven't been a gold member for a while as I found that IM and was very spotty best. Now the does not work all and even gold members are unable to send me messages. Oh well. I usually go to the BC room when I first come on and wait their a while but I always check my blog for those that want to leave a message.
Say hello and let me know when a good time to meet you in a room is. Hope you are having fun. Cheers
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Drop a line
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Posted:Dec 16, 2018 12:48 pm
Last Updated:Jan 12, 2022 2:32 pm
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As you may have noticed I am no longer a gold member! After years of being on this site and making many friends from around the world (mostly north America) I have decided to no longer pay for an ever decreasing level of service. Seems as a gold member I can not send e mails to new people, you need to pay extra (most times) to view cams and there are some questionable contacts that appear to be sent at random. I just can not seem to bring myself to leave the site since I enjoy the blogs and my friends that leave, come back and reconnect with my profile.
Drop me a line if you would like to stay in touch or establish a connection. I am considering moving back to Alberta but none the less I would like to maintain my friendships.
Cheers
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Older guys
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Posted:Oct 25, 2018 4:44 pm
Last Updated:Nov 15, 2019 6:32 pm
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A friend shared this with me .... she makes me smile! LOL Thanks for the share and I now sharing it with you all!
Older men have patience, in and out of the bedroom. Foreplay doesn’t start...or only last...five minutes after you get naked. With us, it often starts hours in advance and never really stops. We understand that your mind and your heart are the most important sexual organs and we know how to expose and nurture them.
Older men want to draw out your pleasure. Not simply so that you can have a bigger, better orgasms (and you will), but because they enjoy watching what they do to you, and how your body reacts. There’s no wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am.
Older men believe in ladies first, and often. Our goal isn’t to simply cum and be done. And even getting that one orgasm out of you is not a goal. We love foreplay, we don’t mind working hard for your orgasms — plural. We take pride when we provide orgasm after orgasm that leaves you shaking, breathless and weak. Personally, I like when you lose count. And believe me… I will make you count them out. I’ll even let you pick the number you want ahead of time. And then I’ll obliterate it, no matter which number you pick.
Older men, in general also have better control over their bodies, whether it’s experience or maturity… we take longer to finish. Older men can give you multiple orgasms, spend hours on foreplay, have sex as long as you want, changing positions fifteen times, and still not have an orgasm of their own.
Young men don’t necessarily grasp that the point of sex isn’t necessarily to get yourself off. For us, sex is about the connection, the intimacy, and the shared pleasure.
For me, cuming is nice, but it’s not necessary for me to have an absolutely amazing time. For me, it’s all about my ability to provide you with pleasure and my absolute command over your experience, whether it’s a quickie or a six hour solid afternoon fuck session.
Try us. You’ll love us.
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Early lessons
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Posted:Oct 23, 2018 12:52 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 5:46 pm
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I find myself reviewing my early sex life often and it is much more fun to look back on it rather than be living through it. That quest to find new and special things to enjoy was a great journey however a little lonely given that many partners were not into sharing their most intimate kinky selves. That special spice found in being yourself and letting your inner naughty out makes things so much more special. What stories we could write. How sweet it is.
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Boner info for those that need a smile
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Posted:Oct 16, 2018 3:47 pm
Last Updated:Jun 15, 2019 12:11 pm
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As a guy I have suffered through a few of these wicked little pop ups and they are all fun! I hope you enjoy as I had to borrow this list!
The following is not original material. I just thought it might be fun to share. Apologies to those who have already read it. Thank you to the persons who were involved in writing it.
I appreciate all comments. Elaborate on your boners if you like. Thank you!
1. The Pee Boner. This is a fake-out boner that really just happens when you really, really, really have to pee, and goes away right after, like stepping on a garden hose.
2. The Morning Boner. This greets you in the morning with a stiff hello, like a butler that can only pee and ejaculate. This boner is the Egg McMuffin of morning sex: The two go well together and are even better with hash browns.
3. The Ghost Boner. This one comes along and leaves like the wind. There's nothing happening around you to set it off, there's no one to see it. It's just there and gone like an apparition.
4. The Gym Boner. This kind of thing can happen at the gym as his blood is flowing all over the place and inadvertently sloshing into his penis, filling it up.* Hopefully he’s got a good pair of compression shorts on, otherwise his boner is going to be pretty noticeable in those sweatpants.
*NOTE: This isn’t really how blood or erections or anything actually work, but gym boners still happen.
5. The “Time to Consult a Physician” Boner. It’s the boner that lasts more than four hours. The one that won’t go away. Maybe it’s too erect. Maybe it’s painful. It might not literally be worth a trip to a doctor, but it’s worth consulting Web MD to make sure it’s normal.
6. The "I Don't Know How I Should Feel" Boner. We're watching something on TV, like reruns of The Nanny, when suddenly a boner shows up out of nowhere and forces us to come to terms with the fact that we're sexually attracted to Fran Drescher's weird accent for some reason.
7. The Inappropriately Timed Boner. This boner pops up at a time that just makes us feel dirty and we really have no idea why its there, like when our dad is saying grace at Thanksgiving dinner. Unlike No. 4, we know in our heart that boner is there for no reason and usually can go away with a little bit of focus. It's just our penis being a free spirit.
8. The Classic Boner. You can't beat a classic (well, I guess in this case you can). This is the pre-sex boner that shows up right when we need it most. This is our penis being a bro(ner) and doing exactly what it's supposed to do exactly when it's supposed to do it.
9. The Night Boner. This boner shows up right when we want to go to sleep and makes it tough to fall asleep on anything other than on our back. We're forced to either wait things out or lose 20 minutes of sleep negotiating with it.
10. The Attention-Seeker. This boner pops up when we're in a public place, or worse, doing a presentation at work. "Hey, what's going on," this boner says. "Let me show you my PowerPoint." This is pretty much every boner we got throughout middle school and most of high school. They're less common when we're adults but we can still get them on occasion.
11. The Forever Boner. This boner thinks we're buds and just wants to hang out a bunch. It's like that friend that comes over and then doesn't take the signals a few hours later that it's time for them to leave because you're tired. In both cases, the only way to get them to leave is by masturbating.
12. The Legendary Boner. Not all boners are created equal. Sometimes we just wind up getting a boner that has that certain je ne sais quoi that really elevates it above the other boners we normally get. It somehow feels extra manly, like a Viking boner.
13. The Marathoner aka the Tag-Team. This is the boner that shows up right after another boner after sex like, "Yo, what's up? This penis doesn't even know what flaccid is."
14. The Sad Boner. This is the opposite of No. 10. It's a boner by definition, but nothing more, like our penis just isn't feeling it. Seeing it instantly makes you sad, like an abandoned baby carriage or present-day Aaron Carter.
15. The Sweatpants Boner. Sweatpants are a boner's tuxedo. While a boner in and of itself, these boners know they're out and they don't have a care in the world.
16. The Public Bathroom Boner. For some reason, our penis decides when we're sitting on a public toilet seat, now is the time to get hard. All we can do at this point is to start writing out our will, because we want to die.
17. The Denim Non-Boner. The moments when our jeans bunch up in just the wrong way, causing us to desperately try to explain to an uncomfortable stranger, "Oh, don't worry! That isn't my penis!" and now somehow things are worse.
18. The “Haven’t Seen You in a While, Old Friend” Boner. There will come a time in a man’s twilight years when he will yearn for the frequent, spontaneous boners of his youth. But then a boner will pop up to say hello and remind him of his golden years. And he’ll smile, wistfully, and as the blood drains from his penis for the last time, he will realize he has nothing else to look forward to now except the sweet release of death.
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An interesting quiz (with no right answers I suppose)
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Posted:Sep 9, 2018 5:13 pm
Last Updated:Sep 24, 2018 3:44 pm
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I would like to first disclose I borrowed these from a rather interesting profile. Feel free to answer the way you like.
Couple of questions for you:
1. Do you prefer blondes?
Hair color can change but personality and the urge, desire and ones wanton nature are inherent or dynamically developed. One can never substitute looks for life pleasure and balance.
2. Naked or lingerie?
It is a good question! There are times where allowing the animal emerge means panties (if worn) may be pushed aside and up against a wall may work. However, lingerie has textures and that touch is important to those silky feelings. When you cannot tell the difference between silk and flesh perhaps the touch is working! Now naked is a state of fellowship that is best enjoyed closely, very closely and all over and entwined and more of the same if the timing is right.
3. Night on the town or locked away in your private retreat (home/cabin)?
I will admit I enjoy my private retreats, cabin, boat or home hardly makes a difference as long as the company is right. In saying this a night on the town can and will unleash parts of you that may rarely entertain you and your partner. The right people, the right mind set and the right dynamics do it every time!
4. A good book, with wine by the fire or a sports car down a back country road?
Now I am a country boy, so I am more of a pickup kinda guy, but those who know me will also let you know that country is in my blood and I can show you tings in the country that may curl your toes. I am also a reader and books are my soul, wine is just an extension of the soul so perhaps the answer is in there some where.
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Looking for a D/s play partner with someone close by...would consider 24/7 with the right match, however I work full time so it would need to be discussed.
They are not necessities, but almost instant wetness.
I remember early in my life a friend of mine (like just a friend) Grabbed my hand at a school dance and guided my fingers into her wetness and gave me the eyes. It is one of the fondest memories of my life and I will always remember the touch, the look and the feelings that generated inside me. Awesome it was indeed, wetness to me shows an appreciation of the way you treat a women.
Turn ons:
1. A man in fitted suit, nice shoes, groomed, with a filthy mind. Dressed as though they were raised to be polite, but when you get to know them they are completely deviant, the male version of the Stepford wife idea
Check
2. Oral sex with complete abandon to thought, time or neatness
Oral is an art best shared with another artist at heart. Participation is necessary
3. Hard spanks that leave a mark, and sting over a length of time (10-15 min) just before sex
Spanks are a form of appreciation or a reminder that feelings need to come alive and let you feel your soul.
4. Anything of a sexual nature mentioned in public (not performed, just mentioned)
LOL, what is life without a friend reminding you of what is possible, what is to come or what could be if you align yourselves to make it happen.
5. The realization that I have turned my dominant on and that he intends to use me sexually because of that
There is always a Dominant inside that needs to be stroked and soaked.
6. A quick but confident check for wetness
Wetness of course is my weakness read above and see why!
7. A look, a gesture, a devious smile
I already see the look so the rest is our history.
To sum it up, it is complete inappropriateness said or performed with a smile from a man who wishes to devour me and said without concern or regard for place, location, or public venue.
Thanks again for allowing me to share someone elses questions. Hopefully others have fun answering them too!
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Do you agree with Andy if so why?
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Posted:Sep 1, 2018 1:47 pm
Last Updated:Oct 3, 2018 1:29 pm
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In case you missed it on 60 Minutes, this is what Andy Rooney thinks about women over 40:
As I grow in age, I value women over 40 most of all. Here are just a few reasons why:
A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night and ask, 'What are you thinking?' She doesn't care what you think.
If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do, and it's usually more interesting.
Women over 40 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you if they think they can get away with it.
Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it's like to be unappreciated.
Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 40.
Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 40 is far sexier than her younger counterpart.
Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off if you are a jerk, if you are acting like one. You don't ever have to wonder where you stand with her.
Yes, we praise women over 40 for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed, hot woman over 40, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year old waitress. Ladies, I apologize.
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