An important sex question...  

Sharinrosey 30F  
285 posts
1/20/2018 5:34 am
An important sex question...

The important sex question is…

Why do some men prefer women who are emotionally faithful but physically promiscuous?

Given a choice which would you prefer…

An emotionally faithful yet physically promiscuous woman or a physically faithful yet emotionally promiscuous woman?

Can you even be physically promiscuous and stay emotionally faithful because I know I have found it extremely difficult at times. What are your experiences? Have you ever found yourself drifting from your partner? I would love to hear from both men and women willing to share their experiences.
Emotionally faithful?
Physically faithful?


Sharinrosey 30F  
49 posts
1/20/2018 6:12 am

Emotionally promiscuous by always wanting to be unfaithful but never actually doing anything about it so I suppose being emotionally detached would be the same.


RobK2006 54M  
5998 posts
1/20/2018 6:51 am

I would say I am a little emotionally promiscuous. I've only cheated one time (well, maybe two times if you count some dancing at a club once that got a bit out of control). The one time was when a married friend and I fucked. I have definitely been emotionally unfaithful with a close friend of mine, who also behaves in an emotionally unfaithful way with me.

DoctorBooty 41M  
6426 posts
1/20/2018 7:27 am

I can’t abide physically cheating on me, but she can look, we’re human and can’t help that. I can’t stop visually undressing every pretty girl I see.

Basilikummen 45M
1006 posts
1/20/2018 8:21 am

I don't know how valid my vote is, as I consider polyamory possible when people have love and respect, but if I had to choose in the one-or-other scenario I would prefer to have emotionally faithful. Sex is just sex, but love is love.

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Lord Basil

nyc718guy1 33M

1/20/2018 9:13 am

I agree

Sharinrosey 30F  
49 posts
1/20/2018 2:45 pm

So far it seems men prefer emotional stability over physical control


cowboy_19925 29M
1 post
1/20/2018 9:30 pm

Me personally, I love my partners to go and have fun with others emotionally and sexually. It doesn't bother me if they do.

Sharinrosey 30F  
49 posts
1/21/2018 2:00 pm

It would be nice if all men had the self assurance you must have then girls like me could really have some fun


Plugger669 34M

1/22/2018 10:55 am

that is a hard one but ts a good one ill have to sit and think ill come back to this

englishmean60 68M
24 posts
1/22/2018 5:55 pm

I think that emotionally faithful is the better of the alternatives. Sex is sex but being emotionally faithful is a smoke to purloin and abridge a phrase.

TravelingMan524 69M  
241 posts
1/23/2018 12:23 am

I have always been emotionally faithful until recently when I formed a very close attachment to a second lady.

Up to that point love was love and sex was sex. Two very different things.

Love does make life more complicated.

Sharinrosey 30F  
49 posts
1/23/2018 3:19 am

I think you may have answered my curiosity with this as I have had sex with many attached and married men and they all seem to feel the same as you where they can simply separate the two but I still find it very difficult not to get emotionally involved if I see someone regularly


sexylegsblonde 65M/62F
240 posts
1/25/2018 6:50 am

I too tend to become more emotionally involved with a man or men that I see on a regular basis for sex. Parties, or once or twice sexual encounters don't have that effect on me like someone that I see two or three times a month for sex. Kisses Mrs Sexylegs

LickYourYoni 73M
569 posts
1/25/2018 5:14 pm

It turns me on to have my partner have sexy fun with others.

Lkn4funwith2 56M  
1216 posts
1/26/2018 1:39 am

For a LTR, it has to be BOTH. For a FB/FWB, I prefer a physically faithful woman who will let me know when she wants to move on to someone else.

Sharinrosey 30F  
49 posts
1/26/2018 2:11 pm

I am getting the impression most men would prefer to know what I have been up to rather than being kept in the dark?


Insatiablenewguy 25M

1/26/2018 10:43 pm

I would say physically faithful especially if you are married and faithful to your partner. You can always sit down and work out your differences but once you cross the physical line then its hard to repair and most of the time all trust is lost and ends if divorce or worse.

Michaelmjblucas1 52M

1/27/2018 7:06 am

Great thoughtful question Sharin....! I voted physically faithful.

Still, I understand both choices have real concerns. To be physically with only one, but flirty with others, can bring up jealousy issues that may be mistaken for more, and thus couples may argue or worse over it.

At the same time, I want the person I'm with to be emotionally faithful to me, but even I look and sometimes flirt with others. Is looking and flirting harmless ?

I would want both emotional and physical faithfulness from the one I'm in a relationship with.

I'm not sure why you think some men prefer women who are emotionally faithful but physically promiscuous. I wouldn't want MY woman being physically active with someone else, for MANY reasons! Do some WOMEN want their Men to be that way?

If I had to choose between these two situations, then I would want to know that the person I'm with is faithful to me physically, as I would be with that person.

There's different ways to look at this question, I see, from the voting and responses. For me sex is not just sex. To tell someone, "I love you, but I'm going to have sex with your friend Bob," is NOT love either !

Thanks for letting me post.

Being curious and asking questions is a good thing!

Sharinrosey 30F  
49 posts
1/28/2018 6:59 am

Thanks for your thought provoking input and I agree it is a very difficult scenario in different circumstances and I am starting to think it does come down to what's important to the individual.

For my hubby it is all about being emotionally connected to him but for the physical side he loves it when I have sex with other men and for every couple it would be different.

I have realised every couple or individual is different and am now starting to understand why some men and especially women can be so judgemental about what I do


AlfredPeers 54M
68 posts
2/19/2018 1:41 am


Papazote30 37M
68 posts
3/22/2018 8:57 pm

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lwantsex805 41M
16 posts
5/19/2018 2:59 pm

    Quoting Sharinrosey:
    Emotionally promiscuous by always wanting to be unfaithful but never actually doing anything about it so I suppose being emotionally detached would be the same.
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lwantsex805 41M
16 posts
5/19/2018 3:01 pm

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inspector225 73M  
1 post
4/5/2021 7:00 pm

l am an older single man. l have often thought what l probably be ok with as far as a fulltime lady partner. lf she would be totally honest with me at the start. lf she really loved me for who l am...if she were bi l would be ok with that, lf she were to tell me there was another man she was interested in having a one nite stand with and she asked my permission l'd likely say yes.


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3598 posts
11/13/2021 5:20 pm

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ClitLickB4DickU 63M  
1391 posts
12/1/2021 2:35 am

It would be unfair to expect a woman to be Physically Faithful when I myself am such a Slut LOL

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