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Herpes
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Posted:Jul 1, 2020 2:56 pm
Last Updated:Jul 20, 2020 5:08 am
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Removing this from my profile but still making it available to all. About a year ago I had a complete std panel done and found out I have HSV 1 & 2 (herpes). I have had fever blisters occasionally but never made the connection. I never had any symptoms but recently had breakouts vaginally. I notified anyone I had sex with the previous year so they could be tested if they so wished...nobody who got tested had it. But you should be aware that most people who have it don't even know they have it as it lays dormant. And your common std panel does not even check for herpes. Nationwide, 45 million people ages 12 and over, or one out of five of the total adolescent and adult population, is infected with HSV-2. My numbers were high and I was told that mean ns I had it for a long time...most likely from my husband who always was getting fever blisters and loved to eat my pussy!
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Sexless Marriages
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Posted:May 10, 2019 4:32 am
Last Updated:Jun 19, 2019 6:52 pm
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Was just viewed by another guy who's status stated he was in a sexless marriage. Wish I had a dollar for every time I've heard that over the years! To my way of thinking there is only good reason for a sexless marriage...medical. Any other reason means you need to communicate and figure out how to get the most beautiful and exciting part of marriage back. The fault can lie with or both partners but communication is a must! Men are very often unaware that they have become monotonous and predictable in the bedroom. And instead of talking about it the wife becomes robotic and fakes her orgasms. So sex dies and they just co-exist...I know this to be true as that's how my marriage was. Took us years with no sex to find out. So now in most marriages the woman goes without sex and the man goes out and finds it elsewhere, which is where women like me come in. My body woke up and I now can't get enough sex...but I have the choice of so many men! And if you are the type that thinks you can jump on, get your jollies and jump back off you won't be on my return list. I have needs and desires or I wouldn't be doing this. I am more than wiling to make sure you walk away satisfied, so please do the same for me. If you want good sex you have to give good sex!
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Fear of Rejection
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Posted:Dec 22, 2014 7:54 am
Last Updated:Aug 5, 2017 10:51 am
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I'm getting better....but still have a long way to go. Getting involved in the BDSM lifestyle has helped tremendously. I don't always worry about the extra rolls of fat that I can't seem to shed; well, sometimes when standing naked in chains. I've had some of my male friends tell me over and over that nobody is looking at the fat when my nakedness shows my quivering breasts and a damp pussy. But I can still remember how it was when I first started swinging. I would sit at the bar, either with my hubby or friends. I was the oldest woman there, and my self esteem was almost non existant at that point. Yes, a lot of the women were just as heavy as I was. But they weren't as old as me and they didn't walk with a cane as I did. And the men naturally navigated to the younger women. The longer I sat there the lower my spirits would sink. Part of me wanted to leave so I wouldn't have to feel the rejection. The other part of me wanted to stay because MAYBE someone would ask me to play. My hubby would urge me to go ask someone to play....but I couldn't. I would put one foot on the floor and no way could I put that other foot down and walk over to one of the men sitting around the room. What if I actually got up the courage to ask and they said no. That few feet back to my bar stool would seem like a mile knowing that others had seen me get rejected. Seems silly when I look back and realize that I had never been rejected - but of course I had never asked. I would go home after a swing party and my mood would border on depression....my thoughts being that I was not desireable. Yet I had men I had been seeing sexually for a couple years and they kept coming back. So didn't I have to be desireable sexually to them? Maybe this is where the start of wanting to feel pain came in. Maybe this also is part of why I feel so totally submissive. All these maybe's and I still don't know what makes me what I am today. I still have these feelings of not totally belonging. Some day MAYBE I will find just where I fit......maybe.
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Respect, Consideration and Compassion
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Posted:Mar 26, 2014 4:35 pm
Last Updated:Apr 10, 2018 11:14 am
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As an older couple who have been in the lifestyle less than a year we have stumbled, fell and got on our feet again. Being older we may pay more attention to feelings than some others do and try very hard to treat everyone with the same respect we would like to receive ourselves. We try to be considerate of each others feelings and not say or do anything that will hurt each other. Yes, we don't always succeed at that and have gone through some rocky times because of it. We both have feelings and yes, we both get our feelings hurt. This site is mainly for sex, but there are a lot of people like us who want to make and keep friends too. I enjoy verbal foreplay, but not until I get to know you - don't like to have the first words out of your mouth be "you wanta fuck?" instead of "how are you?" I talk to many people I may never have the pleasure of meeting, but I do enjoy chatting occasionally. To the ones I have been fortunate enough to enjoy physically, wow! Most of the men I've met are gentlemen and fantastic lovers. To the lovers who just faded away - sure wish you would have said good-bye. You leave me thinking maybe there is something wrong with me, maybe I'm repulsive to you. Or maybe I'm saying or doing something I shouldn't. I know that there isn't always chemistry between everyone we "sleep" with. But I feel like there is always a "nice" way to let someone down. I actually respect someone brave enough to come right out and tell me the truth. To those I have turned away - I always try to be considerate enough to tell you I'm not interested and why. I am totally enjoying playtime with the men and couples we have been with and hope to meet many more in the future. And I hope I will always have the compassion to treat others the way I would like to be treated. First blog I have ever written and I realize I am doing a lot of rambling - but it's my blog and I guess that is what it is for!
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