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Dating in the Digital World
Posted:Apr 16, 2021 1:30 am
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2021 1:35 am

OK guys, this is how I proceed thanks there being so many fakes on dating sites.

1. After I get a message from you, I check your profile. PLEASE answer the questions about height, body type, whether you smoke/drink/do drugs, etc. Since non-smoking is a must for me, I'd rather not have ask. If you meet my basic requirements (as stated in my auto reply message) or if you say you are willing to relocate, I will message you. We will figure out if we have the same goals for being here.

If so, 2:
After a WEEK OR SO of chatting on Heated Affairs, I will want your PHONE NUMBER. I will run your phone number through a background search site and hopefully it will show that a person with the same name that you've given me has that phone number. If not, I probably won't contact you again. If you're giving me a generated phone number, tell me that and be aware that you will also have to give me a real full name and address because I have to verify in some way that you are not a deadbeat felon with a long sheet. Think this is excessive? Well just a short while ago I started conversing with someone on here and his phone number was for another state and I kept talking to him against my better judgement until he urgently requested $7200 from me. It happens.

3. After another WEEK OR SO of texting, I will want to hear your voice AND see your face via some type of video chat (skype, FB Messenger, Google Duos, etc.). Yes, you better look like your pics. You will get to verify that I do also.

4. IF I'm still interested in meeting you, I'll want to do that fairly quickly. If you're local there should be no reason that we can't meet in person. Coffee/tea, a light lunch, just an iced tea all work fine for me. If you want to buy me dinner, I probably won't turn you down. I will totally be willing to my way! I hate eating dinner alone so I welcome company for dinner. I will want meet you in public! I've had a stalker in the 4 years that I've been divorced so I want let my feminine intuition tell me if you're safe.

Hey, we could end up having such hot chemistry that I end up in bed with you that day but I'm not doing that until I feel safe. I need have some connection with you. If we can't make that connection in 2 or 3 dates, I won't see you again. I just don't have the time.

I'm sorry but I can't continue endless emails or texts. Even though I'm mostly retired, I have things do, dogs love, cars get serviced, etc. If I don't feel like it's ever going amount anything more than chatting, I'm not going continue. If you're interesting and I enjoy your company and you're local, then maybe we can be friends but the "benefits" part comes from CHEMISTRY and CONNECTION.

As stated clearly in my profile, I'm looking for a man of my own. More than a boyfriend, less than a husband. Kind of my part-time significant other because, well, I have a life and you have a life and it's unlikely we can spend every day together. I might want to but it's not likely to happen. Plus my therapist says I can't live with anyone until we've dated 6 months so part-time it has to be. We don't have to tell her about the sleepovers though!
If Finding a Partner Was Like Buying a Car
Posted:Mar 11, 2021 12:05 am
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2021 10:31 pm

I'm looking for:
an older model that's been well-maintained and looks, feels, and runs like a much younger model;
not too flashy, not too boring, sporty, and relatively economical to drive;
not so gorgeous that it grabs everyone's attention;
doesn't smoke or use tons of oil;
legal equipment only;
mid-size or larger;
has been put through its paces long enough that you know exactly how it needs to be taken care of and the manual comes with it;
max of two previous owners but okay if it was a lease;
okay with having faded paint and a little discoloration;
is reliable and doesn't need excessive maintenance;
maybe a little rough on the inside but can be restored fairly inexpensively;
doesn't have a big console in the middle preventing good passenger interaction;
will run longer than the younger models and can still get me home fast;
runs well without additives is preferred but okay if additives are needed;
okay with having some damage in the past that's been repaired, so long as it's not a known lemon that's been cleverly disguised by the owner, and is going to bite me in the ass (and not in a good way) once the deal is done - you know like an old money pit.

Model has been around a long time and is proven. Not botched by back alley mechanics.

Looking for something that will last a long time, not a test driver, in it for the long haul; a daily driver, not a once in a while on Sunday when the weather is nice type; great for cumming and going.

Be prepared be taken around the block and put the test. Has feel good drive. Radio tuned comedy gets extra points. No fine print in the contract.

Would rather ride a bike than settle!
No More Live Cams?
Posted:Jan 10, 2021 3:50 pm
Last Updated:Jan 12, 2021 2:12 pm

FBI recently announced arrest of a creep who recorded a live cam of a sexual nature he had with a 20 year girl and then extorted from her so he wouldn't release it everyone in her social media contacts and her college. She got so distressed that she took an overdose of pills but fortunately survived. The FBI said"

"“Terrorizing someone with threats to release their explicit images is unconscionable,” said Michael J. Driscoll, Special Agent in Charge of the FBI’s Philadelphia Division. “Imagine the emotional toll it takes on a victim, living in fear of being so personally exposed. Unfortunately, the FBI is seeing more and more sextortion cases, with people of all ages targeted. It’s not some sick game, it’s a crime, and the FBI will continue to unmask these cyber predators and hold them firmly accountable.”

If convicted, the defendant faces a maximum possible sentence of 5 ’ imprisonment, 3 ’ supervised release, and a $250,000 fine."

They went on say that this is becoming a big problem everywhere. So I'm really going think long and hard before I do any more live cams on here or anywhere else that are explicitly sexual. Maybe I will with my face hidden. I haven't decided. But there will be no or live or hangouts sexcapades with men I don't actually know as in WE HAVE MET.

Although I don't need a job or have a lot lose socially, it would still be embarrassing. My immediate family knows about my naughtiness but my extended family doesn't and I'd rather keep it that way. Regardless, I guarantee I'd let it go public before I'd someone a single dime keep it private. So if I say no, this is why.

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My Desired Partner Traits
Posted:Sep 23, 2020 12:20 am
Last Updated:May 22, 2022 2:59 am

I put this list together recently to better put in writing what was important to without any certain potential partner to influence what I put down.

• Honesty/integrity/trustworthy
• Kind/sweet
• Optimistic
• Not afraid of commitment
• Makes goals that include a partner
• Energetic
• Believes in a higher power (God or other)
• Picks up after himself
• Good sense of humor/can laugh at themselves
• Very affectionate/ok with PDAs

• Smoking cigarettes
• Illicit drug use of any kind
• Drinking more than 7 servings of alcohol a week
• No job or form of income
• Can’t hold an intelligent conversation
• No/low libido
• Emotional attachment to an ex
• Doesn’t like
• Quite overweight
• Cancels dates at last minute/doesn’t give much of his time
• Thinks Trump walks on water or Democrats are all idiots

• Love to
• Like to camp (in an RV)
• Love bodies of water and boats
• Good sense (not a spender or a tightwad)
• Will talk about problems not brush them the table
• Health conscious (health has to be #1!)
• Love language of Personal Touch or Quality Time
• Checks in frequently
• Gives complements
• Smiles a lot
• Is a gentleman

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