Adult Friend Finder chatter  

ProsarousThane 51M
36 posts
9/3/2021 2:29 pm
Adult Friend Finder chatter


While looking for someone to with on . I came across one womens introduction line. She had a lot to say about how she is looking for women, wants to have fun with women, wants to have sex with women, etc. Then she mentions how she can not find women to talk to.

That got me thinking. She was right. I have never been around a that has so many quiet women. Makes me wonder if they are women at all. The majority of women I deal with on a daily basis never shut up. If they are not talking to you or someone else they are talking on their phones. And here there is supposedly thousands and it is like pulling teeth to get any of them to talk.

BiggLala 49F  
30157 posts
9/4/2021 12:50 pm

nd here there is supposedly thousands and it is like pulling teeth to get any of them to talk.
-Well...ya! In the other instances you mention where women won't shut up...those women are most likely talking to people they WANT to talk to. I'm sure it's the same here, though. I'm pretty sure the genuine women talk to who THEY want to talk to. Isn't that the same for everyone (men too)? Like...most people aren't forced to talk to anyone they don't want to, right?
(our bosses at work don't count )

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ProsarousThane replies on 9/5/2021 2:22 am:
True. Although, there are those people who just talk to hear themselves talk.

What confuses me is those who advertise how ready and willing they are and all you have to do is contact them. Then, no reply when you do contact them. What ever happen to common courtesy? A quick acknowledge would be nice. Then again, this is the internet.

Thank you for the post. I hope to hear from you more.

ProsarousThane replies on 9/5/2021 2:25 am:
Also, thank you for wanting to talk to me.

BiggLala 49F  
30157 posts
9/7/2021 6:07 pm

What confuses me is those who advertise how ready and willing they are and all you have to do is contact them.
-Do the women's profiles you view literally say "...all you have to do is contact them," and they will meet you? I only ask because I find it difficult to believe most women's profiles actually say that. Being ready and willing to meet people doesn't mean they will meet any and everyone solely because the person contacted them.

Of course, part of your challenges is that you cannot fully read profiles. Thus, there's little way for you to know if you're what they seek. Personally, I've stopped responding to everyone who contacts me. You'd probably say that's rude, or that I lack courtesy. I'm specific enough on my profile so that it's clear who I'm interested in. However, 99% of the men who contact me do NOT read my profile and are way outside my preferences. So, why do I owe courtesy to someone who didn't show me the courtesy of reading AND respecting my profile?

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ProsarousThane replies on 9/16/2021 8:40 am:
I apologize for not responding sooner.

Not all of the intro lines say that specifically. It is implied on most but, I have seen it on about 5 of them. At least one was a fake profile.

Viewing profiles is a huge flaw on this site. The majority of people I contact all I have to go off of is their introduction line and info from the search. Occasionally I get lucky and can see the profile or in your case, I found your blog. I was surprised to see I was already watching your blog when you commented on my post. I haven't gotten around to reading it yet. That is why I posted the narrative of my profile in my blog. That way people can't say they can't read it and they know what I want.

I guess it is up to you if you think a person is worthy of a "Thanks or no thanks" or some kind of reply to let them know they are "Barking up the wrong tree." The majority of the time I have to take a chance and ask, "What is your story?" Unlike you, I've been on here about six months and have only been contacted twice. Both times they were Catphishers or cam girls. It must be nice to have so many interested in you that you can choose to ignore some.

I find it a bit rude not getting a reply because I make the effort to reply. I understand that just because you are on INM doesn't mean you are monitoring it all the time or you may be engaged in a conversation.

ProsarousThane replies on 9/17/2021 12:41 pm:
Would you be interested in some one on one conversation? I did read your profile blog so, I know my left and right boundaries. I can't guarantee I can split your sides with my humor but, I can say it's unusual. I find myself looking forward to your responses and checking for them multiple times a day. If you feel up to it, drop a way to contact me in my "Drop me a message" blog or let me know if you want me to give you my contact number or not.

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