To The Stronzo Royalty... Who Hacks Private Messages... ! ? !  

Paulxx001 65M  
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12/12/2021 11:15 am

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To The Stronzo Royalty... Who Hacks Private Messages... ! ? !

All this recent talk about privacy, and one's 'Private Mail Box' - and personal stuff visible to anyone - caught my BUDDY off guard. Imagine his shock when a close and dear friend of his, here on 'A F F', threw HIM a heads up that they'd been handed a bunch of 'empfidlich' information about HIM. Thank goodness my friend checked it out.

And THAT'S the purpose of this 'cuento'.

Listen, all those 'marcio' tidbits are at least two and a half years out of date, my comrade will NEVER receive the gift you were planning to send him. Drop me a line here - I'm sure things will remain secure - and I'll update you on where to send HIM your 'regalo'.

Thank goodness for allies! So... is it bigger than a breadbox or are ya sending him cash? He's told me he LOVES surprises. I have to commend you for sifting through twenty-five pages of his blathering before you uncovered THOSE nuggets.


What was the last Xmas gift YOU received that surprised you?


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
12/12/2021 11:17 am

I used to be able to skim and speed read the blogs, but that NEW display is a challenge to scroll through. Looks like a shorter blog post will be the norm.


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
12/12/2021 11:18 am

Yeah, I know. There are more important things to worry about HERE than my stupid emojis, but come on! 😊
They're fun. 👍
They're easy to use. ⬆️
They're designed for the lazy and young at heart.
And they save you the bother of expressing an emotion in words. 😘

Do you use those emoji guys or do you prefer the written word?

(they'll be scrambled on that NEW blog so I'll keep flogging them here. 🤔 ❗ ❗ 😎 🍷 🍷😂💪😜)


lukeaskewedx2 62M  
254 posts
12/12/2021 12:06 pm

Not much for written words here anymore, all pik blogs or copy and paste like GOOOber buddie does. It's easier to use bling and emoji's.

I reckon so


lukeaskewedx2 62M  
254 posts
12/12/2021 12:07 pm



I reckon so


smartasswoman 64F  
35813 posts
12/12/2021 1:05 pm

>> I'll keep flogging them here.

Keep up the good fight Paul! 👍💪🤯

My latest dilemma is whether to go back through my 1500 or so posts to see if there are any that I had hidden or made friend-only, that are visible over on the beta side. As you say, it's hard to believe that anyone would have the perseverance to actually look through 10 pages or so of MY blathering, but who knows.

And I suppose *I* can't tell for sure what is visible to everyone else. Time for a shadow profile?


flannel_light 59F  
4586 posts
12/12/2021 1:22 pm

I remember getting my collar from the Master and I write instead of using emojis but thinking on starting to

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


mc_justmc 62M  
6929 posts
12/12/2021 5:42 pm

I am totally lost....


author51 59F  
130010 posts
12/12/2021 11:05 pm

I personally do not use the emojis, but do love yours my friend.I am getting used to the New format and quite liking it myself.As for someone going through my hundreds of posts, I would say they would need to get a life myself..xoxo


PonyGirl1965 56F  
22090 posts
12/12/2021 11:58 pm

I'm avoiding the new community ...


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
12/13/2021 2:16 am

    Quoting lukeaskewedx2:
    Not much for written words here anymore, all pik blogs or copy and paste like GOOOber buddie does. It's easier to use bling and emoji's.
True, about the nature of the content on these pages. Yet some people flock to that stuff.
I don't get it. 😐❓❓❓


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
12/13/2021 2:17 am

I LOVE this guy. Thanks for popping in. 👍


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
12/13/2021 2:23 am

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    >> I'll keep flogging them here.

    Keep up the good fight Paul! 👍💪🤯

    My latest dilemma is whether to go back through my 1500 or so posts to see if there are any that I had hidden or made friend-only, that are visible over on the beta side. As you say, it's hard to believe that anyone would have the perseverance to actually look through 10 pages or so of MY blathering, but who knows.

    And I suppose *I* can't tell for sure what is visible to everyone else. Time for a shadow profile?
Oh, you're so nice to everyone here, no one would bare you ill will. 😊
One thousand five hundred? Wow... that's a lot. lol 😂 😮

Yep... I don't know what drives people to spend, what would be hours, on someone else's random exchanges with peeps here. 🤔
I imagine it's the 'voyeur' in them. Still... disappointing when they go and SHARE their finds with others.
THAT'S, just being an asshole.

Yes, long live the emoji. ❗🤣😁🐽🦒🐯🐖🥒
Dja notice that more and more of them are making it through Security — over on the other side of the border? 🤔
Ya think there's hope? 🤔 lol 😂 👀💭❓


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
12/13/2021 2:26 am

    Quoting flannel_light:
    I remember getting my collar from the Master and I write instead of using emojis but thinking on starting to
The collar... hmm... interesting.
I've read about that lifestyle and it seems intriguing. But not for me. 😊


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
12/13/2021 2:31 am

This was an homage to those who not only READ other people's stuff in their Private Mail Box but then SHARE that info with others.
There's a bad Italian 🇮🇹 word in the title and a sprinkling of German 🇩🇪 and Spanish 🇪🇸 just to make things less boring.

I don't know if THEY (those assholes) would read this post, but but it's theirs to cherish.
I'll be more obvious NEXT time ⌚. 👔😎❗❗

I notice that you don't use many emojis. S style choice or a matter of religion? 🤔


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41166 posts
12/13/2021 2:40 am

I've just got the hang of emojis, well I can do two, and now they're being scrapped. And here comes my emojis!


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
12/13/2021 2:41 am

    Quoting author51:
    I personally do not use the emojis, but do love yours my friend.I am getting used to the New format and quite liking it myself.As for someone going through my hundreds of posts, I would say they would need to get a life myself..xoxo
I like the wide open expanse of THESE pages. That OTHER side is so compact and hard to scroll through. It's what it is.
I started using those emojis, because as you know, I'm usually on my phone here — and THEY pop up; I never have to search for them. lol 😂 😮 👍 And they save me a word or two. ☣️⚠️⬇️🔄❌2️⃣

Some of the perps here not only get in there and READ the Private Mail Box, but then exchange the contents with others. Go figure, huh? 🤔
It's why my Mail Box is vacant — on both sides of the fence. There's a Delete button on that other side of Blog Land. I'd consider just dumping that whole thing. Why give monkeys any free entertainment? 🙊


Paulxx001 replies on 12/13/2021 3:00 am:
You can always Copy and Paste the WHOLE darn thing, into Word or another Document application.

Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
12/13/2021 2:51 am

It's not as scary and full of crap as many here claim, but it's DIFFERENT — that's for sure.
You'll have to pop in there one day. Although at the moment, it's rather messy to navigate but you can practise.

I'd take a gander at your Private Mail Box and make sure, anything you don't want visible — is deleted. THAT'S what this post was all about; people who read and share other people's private comments.

It's all good and I'm sure we'll be fine, once the sheets are ironed. 😎❗❗


scoupe42 58M  

12/13/2021 4:58 am

That's an invasion of someone's privacy! That's not cool.


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
12/13/2021 6:39 am

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    I've just got the hang of emojis, well I can do two, and now they're being scrapped. And here comes my emojis!
They work real eezee on a phone. 📱
I'm starting a petition. lol 😂
Good luck 🤞 🌹 ❗ finding the other 700 accredited and certified emojis. 😮❗❗


author51 59F  
130010 posts
12/13/2021 6:40 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    It's not as scary and full of crap as many here claim, but it's DIFFERENT — that's for sure.
    You'll have to pop in there one day. Although at the moment, it's rather messy to navigate but you can practise.

    I'd take a gander at your Private Mail Box and make sure, anything you don't want visible — is deleted. THAT'S what this post was all about; people who read and share other people's private comments.

    It's all good and I'm sure we'll be fine, once the sheets are ironed. 😎❗❗
The sad thing for me when it comes to the Private Mailbox is there are people on this site who would actually take that info. and share it with others..Those are the scum buckets, the morons, the incredibly nasty, negative members who have mental health issues on this site that need to be reported and banned for life. I will keep mine for now as that is how I have met a few standard local members face to face. We shall see when the time comes in regards to the New Community on this issue.. Just so morally wrong and frankly none of their flipping business...


Paulxx001 replies on 12/13/2021 7:01 am:
You know the type; haters, self-absorbed, loves and over uses the word narcissist, claims dibs on bridge token distribution. I'm just guessing. Always searching to stir dung up. 😶 Otherwise, what other point would there be? Oh yeah... that gift card or perhaps a more nefarious purpose? 🤔

Do what you think is best for you. Like I said, you can upload, copy and paste from the OLD Mail Box (leave it), then DELETE that NEW one.
Blog on... 😊

Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
12/13/2021 6:42 am

    Quoting scoupe42:
    That's an invasion of someone's privacy! That's not cool.
It certainly isn't... AND, it's rude.
Oh well, such are some portions of the herd on this cluttered island. 🏝️❗❗😮
Clean up your NEW Mail Box if ya have one.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
12/13/2021 7:11 am

People have way too much time on their hands and hate in their hearts/soul if they want to expend the energy to claw through pages and pages of someone’s comments. And for what purpose? To expose personal information or thoughts/feelings? Is that supposed to gain new ‘friends’ or somehow push them to the top of the leaderboard? It’s annoying that what had been promoted as a method to converse with others and keep it strictly confidential has been usurped by the ineptitude of who is controlling the building of the new community. It’s no wonder I find myself spending less and less time on here. I am sure you will figure out a way to keep the emojis. Perhaps a call to the Bobs is in order.


BeccaLuvs 59F  
20895 posts
12/13/2021 7:26 am

I'm def confused by all this Paul - are you using the "Beta New Community", (think that's what it's called), all the time? I haven't even checked it out yet! Much prefer a "surprise Christmas gift"! Good surprise that is!

..... And always 'hold onto all those sexy thoughts'!
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Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
12/13/2021 9:45 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    People have way too much time on their hands and hate in their hearts/soul if they want to expend the energy to claw through pages and pages of someone’s comments. And for what purpose? To expose personal information or thoughts/feelings? Is that supposed to gain new ‘friends’ or somehow push them to the top of the leaderboard? It’s annoying that what had been promoted as a method to converse with others and keep it strictly confidential has been usurped by the ineptitude of who is controlling the building of the new community. It’s no wonder I find myself spending less and less time on here. I am sure you will figure out a way to keep the emojis. Perhaps a call to the Bobs is in order.
The number of people who've popped into someone's mailbox is probably few, and THAT loophole has been potentially closed - with the addition of a fully functional DELETE key. I've scrapped everything in my chats, not because I was fearful, but because it's nobody's business.

But there were/are those, who are drawn to those pages, like moths to a flame. Which, I guess is what it is. But then to SHARE that stuff with others, is, well... I use the analogy; just because you've let your front doors unlocked doesn't mean people should walk into your house.

Things will become easier to manage once users get familiar with the gaps and differences from the current blog pages.

It's all good. Don't be dissuaded by others' behaviour; there is always a place here for thoughtful people to share their stories and feelings. Please blog on! 👍 😊 ❗ ❗


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
12/13/2021 9:53 am

    Quoting BeccaLuvs:
    I'm def confused by all this Paul - are you using the "Beta New Community", (think that's what it's called), all the time? I haven't even checked it out yet! Much prefer a "surprise Christmas gift"! Good surprise that is!
Nope! I'm one hundred percent on THESE old pages. But I visit that other NEW section often, to familiarize myself with how it works and what glitches there are.

It's worth your time to poke your head around in there just to get used to the NEW floor plan. They've moved the coffee ☕ machine to the first floor. ☕☕👍🍩😁

I love surprises as well but it's been a long time since anyone has managed THAT. Or am I good at guessing? 🤔
What was your last Xmas surprise 😲? I hope it was a pleasant one. 🎄❗😳


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